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📅 Dec 13, 2024 02:47
I don’t want anyone to see me while I’m doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so would it be a bad idea to meet and have dinner at a private or semi-private restaurant, then go to a hotel afterward? I can’t be affectionate or hold hands in public, but I’m wondering if it’s still okay for me to do papa-katsu. I’d also rather not exchange LINE contacts. Do some people communicate through Kakao instead? For what it’s worth, I’m w...
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
If you’re in a profession where you have to be extremely careful about being identified, something like that could work too. I’d like to meet a woman I genuinely want to date despite that.
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📅 Dec 12, 2024 14:58
Does anyone have any tips for easing that awful feeling of dread on the day I’m supposed to meet my papa (a male supporter)? Once I’m actually with them, I can have a good time chatting with my papas as part of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but still…
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I see. That sounds really tough.
Try imagining what you’ll spend the allowance on,
planning a little reward for yourself afterward,
going out for drinks with friends once it’s over,
blowing off steam at karaoke,
eating some chocolate (maybe chocolate with GABA?),
having a Red Bull or Monster,
taking a long, relaxing bath,
smelling your favorite scent,
listening to music you like,
or binge-watching videos of your favorite celebrity.
Don’t push yourself too …
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📅 Dec 12, 2024 00:53
I’m thinking of planning a date or having new photos taken at the end of the year. Do you have special business hours over the New Year holidays?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If you want to have your photos retaken, all you have to do is ask the staff, “I’d like to have them retaken on this day,” and they’ll let you know what’s possible.
As for dates, you can’t go on one over the New Year holidays unless a man makes an offer, so there’s no point worrying about it in advance.
Why announce it here to everyone when you could simply ask the staff?
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📅 Dec 12, 2024 00:27
Maybe it’s because street solicitation has become more common lately, but when I’m simply waiting at a traffic light or walking through a shopping district, men sometimes approach me and say things like, “How about 30 minutes in that public restroom?” or “How about ¥___?” It’s really frightening and unpleasant. I’m registered with Universe, so I’ve never gone along with any of these propositions. But even when I turn them down, some men...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Isn’t it because you’re wandering around places like Shinjuku’s Toyoko area or under Osaka’s Glico sign, dressed and made up in a way that makes it obvious?
You should probably go somewhere more low-key, where people aren’t likely to approach you.
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📅 Dec 11, 2024 14:14
I’m a woman in my late 30s. I recently received an offer for the first time in a while, so I met with what you might call an ordinary older guy—a slim man in his late 50s. He offered me 80,000 yen per meeting, twice a month, which I considered very good terms, but I’ve decided to turn him down. The reasons are: - He was supposed to be in his 50s, but looked nearly 70. - He spoke quickly and mumbled, making communication difficult. - He ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
It seems the questioner has misunderstood quite a few things.
① Whether or not to continue seeing someone after meeting them is entirely up to you. There’s no need to vent here.
All you have to say is that you turned him down because he wasn’t your type. What other women do is irrelevant, and there are women who might actually come to like that man.
I’m not sure what you’re trying to say here, but some people may have thought, “The questioner’s heart is ugly, she’s the wor…
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📅 Dec 11, 2024 01:35
I run my own company, and I also have side hustles involving stocks, cryptocurrency, real estate, and so on. (I’m not making any huge profits or anything, but I’m working hard at it.) When I mentioned that to my papa (a male supporter), he seemed a little put off—or rather, he indirectly said, “Then you probably don’t need an allowance, right? haha” I want to work hard at my own business while also continuing papa-katsu (compensated dat...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Like anything else, I think you need to figure out whether it’s a topic the other person is actually interested in.
There are all kinds of business owners, and I tend to avoid the Instagram-famous, glamorous-girl type because they seem like they’d be expensive.
People judge others through their own preconceptions, so just saying you run a business may make them see you that way.
If you really want to talk about your business, I’d suggest feeling them out and bringing it up…
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📅 Dec 10, 2024 22:09
I’m a 51-year-old man. I recently went on a first date with a 25-year-old woman who works for a company, but she spoke to me casually the entire time. Is that normal at Universe Club?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I actually love it when someone speaks casually with me.
With someone I thought things might continue with, I asked them to speak casually around our third meeting. But having them do it from the very first meeting would feel a little strange, wouldn’t it?
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📅 Dec 10, 2024 19:56
I’m thinking about joining Universe Club, but I’m worried about being recognized and having my identity exposed. I assume I’ll need to call the man when we arrange the first meeting, but I’m nervous about him finding out my phone number. Would it be okay to call with caller ID blocked?
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
You can probably request that your number be withheld for the first meeting through the club.
However, as Dai-san pointed out, it could cause problems if you decide to continue seeing each other. Personally, I wouldn’t continue if the number remained withheld. It wouldn’t feel like an equal relationship.
It may sound contradictory, but since spending money can potentially reveal quite a lot from a mobile number, it’s not a bad idea to be cautious.
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📅 Dec 10, 2024 19:52
I’m considering joining Universe Club, but I work as a nurse with a rotating shift schedule. If, after joining, I have trouble matching my schedule with people who make offers, would my coordinator ever encourage me to withdraw from the club?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Even if the date proposed by the man doesn’t work, I think a date may still be possible if the woman suggests another date herself—something like, “I’ll know my work schedule on the ○th, so please wait a little.”
I’ve dated a nurse before, and it didn’t feel like our schedules were that difficult to coordinate, though…
That said, when I once made an offer to a woman, the date I proposed didn’t work for her. She suggested another date, and we made plans for that day. Then, t…
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📅 Dec 9, 2024 22:31
Do men prefer women who are a little bit of a tease? Yesterday, I was invited to a group date (none of the women knew each other, while the men were acquaintances). One of the women was very talkative. She would ask them for things like, “I want to eat ___—go buy it for me,” show off by saying, “This is from ___,” and talk about her expensive hobbies and celebrity lifestyle. Despite being so bold, the men were completely smitten. I thin...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
From what you’ve described, she sounds like the type I’m not comfortable with. She seems like someone you’d find at a hostess club. She might be fun to hang out and drink with, but I wouldn’t want a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) arrangement with her.
“Buy me this,” designer belongings… I don’t make offers to women who seem like they’d be expensive to keep up with.
Ideally, I’d like to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with someone who’s as ordinary as a…
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📅 Dec 9, 2024 22:23
I went to an interview today and was accepted as an A-type, but I’m really uncomfortable with having a video posted on the site, so I asked them to use photos only. Do you think I’ll still get offers…? They explained that I probably wouldn’t receive many offers without a video, but I still declined. I’m worried because I’m already not sure whether I’ll get any offers as an A-type.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Unless you’re exceptionally odd, you’ll usually pass the interview.
You probably won’t get many offers for Type A. Concept cafés, girls’ bars, hostess clubs, paid social drinking events—they’re all competing for the same customers.
The key question is whether a papa sees enough value in simply talking with you to spend money on it. Standing-out looks are probably important.
Since you turned it down because you didn’t want to make a video, I suppose that’s just how it is. I…
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📅 Dec 9, 2024 19:19
People really do end up with those who are similar to them, don’t they? Men and women who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are disliked by society, no matter how attractive or wealthy they are. I recently started a daytime part-time job, but the other women there really seem to dislike me. Maybe I’m giving off some kind of negative energy. I don’t understand why. Is anyone else in a similar situation?
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I’m also the type women tend to dislike intensely.
It’s not like I’m trying to act cutesy or anything, so I just think, “Ah, I guess she hasn’t had much life experience—or hasn’t really been through the pressures of society.”
Let’s keep fighting together! Even if a certain number of women dislike you, the people who are watching will recognize your worth.
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📅 Dec 9, 2024 15:05
A question about ending a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) arrangement. I’d appreciate hearing how others have ended things with someone they’d been seeing long-term. I’m enjoying spending time with the woman I’m currently seeing, and we’re even planning to take a trip together soon. However, she’s 25 and has a boyfriend, so when I think about her future, I feel that at some point it might be better for her to stop doing papa-ka...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
I’ve never broken up with a long-term woman I’ve been seeing for more than three years.
I usually end things with almost everyone after the first few meetings, or at most around six months. It’s truly rare for someone to keep seeing me on a monthly arrangement for a full year. Once we get past that point, I can’t find a reason to end things.
I have a monthly partner who got married and had a child. We no longer have an adult relationship (intimate), but I can’t imagine endi…
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📅 Dec 8, 2024 13:02
1. Is it better not to apply to a Type C woman if you don’t intend to invite her to do anything beyond dinner? Sorry for asking something similar to the question below… I imagine the allowance might be an issue, though. 2. When applying, there’s a checkbox that says something like, “It’s dinner only, so please feel free to come.” If I check it when applying to a Type C woman, will she assume it really is dinner only? From a woman’s pers...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
That’s what the dating types are for, after all, so why not make offers to women in the B or A categories instead of deliberately approaching someone in category C?
Alternatively, if the allowance is the same as it would be for an adult relationship (intimate), I think she’d be happy with that too...
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📅 Dec 7, 2024 23:03
If you register as Type C, doesn’t it basically become like working in the sex industry? On the first meeting, I’m often not even asked about my terms. Instead, they just take me straight to a love hotel, or say something like, “I booked an expensive room at a city hotel, so you have to come.” It became just as exhausting as working in that industry. Honestly, it can cost more to invite a girl from a hostess service to a room for a 240-...
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
Judging from the publicly available feedback, it seems like a lot of men assume that Relationship Type C means they have a chance.
As others have said, it’s okay to turn them down.
With Type C, things may progress that same day if you hit it off, so you can pretty much expect an approach during the first meeting. If you don’t feel confident turning down a male member who pressures you that day when you’re not feeling it, you may be better off choosing Type B2.
With B2, the…
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📅 Dec 7, 2024 20:08
I received a message through the club’s LINE account asking if I’d like to be introduced to male members via Telegram. There are a few things I’m unclear about, so I’d appreciate your advice. - What benefit does the club get from contacting male members through Telegram? The club already has their contact information, so wouldn’t LINE or email work just as well? They promoted the fact that messages disappear after a week, but since the ...
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
I don’t think staff add notes to profiles all that often.
For example, if someone makes personal plans after a date has been arranged and then cancels on the day, or if a male member reports information that differs from what was originally written in the profile. I’ve seen cases where that information was added.
※Presumably, the male member reported that the person had lied during their interview with the staff, so the profile was corrected.
Whether it’s about a male or f…
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📅 Dec 7, 2024 16:44
How can I end things with my papa without hurting him? Hello. I’d like advice on how to end things amicably with my current generous papa (a well-paying supporter). He’s been very good to me, but meeting his increasingly demanding requests has become stressful, and I want to end things. For example, he refuses to use contraception, wants every date to last the entire day—at least nine hours—wants to come to my home, and wants overnight ...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
③ If you can establish the “parent” angle through conversation beforehand!
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📅 Dec 7, 2024 09:28
At some point, male members suddenly stopped adding me to their favorites altogether. I’ve been a member for about six months, so I understand that offers may naturally decrease over time. Still, I’ve been doing what I can, such as sending “You seem lovely” approaches, updating my comments, and posting selfies. But there hasn’t been any activity at all for about three months. There is one thing I can think of. About three months ago, I ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Hmm, it’s also possible that you’ve been hidden from view.
As I mentioned before, there are some extremely male-oriented staff members, so it’s possible that a staff member hid your profile because of some minor wording. That said, there’s no way to know without checking.
I’m not currently handling inquiries directly, but if you contact them as follows, they should at least be able to pass the situation on to me:
“I’m contacting you because I was told through the Q&A box t…
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📅 Dec 6, 2024 19:30
Why do some people insist on going to business hotels or traditional inns? I’ve told them, “The baths are too small, so I’d rather go to a love hotel where we can stretch out and relax together. We don’t have to worry about being quiet, the amenities are provided, and I don’t mind if anything gets messy there,” but some people refuse to go to a love hotel no matter what. What are they thinking? Even if they’re claiming it as a business ...
💬 Answer from トシ:
Some women absolutely refuse to go to love hotels, so I’m sure there are men who feel the same way.
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📅 Dec 4, 2024 12:54
Some men try to hold hands in public, but I’d really rather they didn’t because it would be a problem if someone from my company saw us. Is there any way to get them to stop besides simply telling them directly?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
There doesn’t seem to be any option other than telling him directly.
Once you allow it, it becomes the default, so you need to say no from the very first time.
Tell him, “I can’t hold hands because I’d be in trouble if someone I know saw us.”
If your papa (a male supporter) won’t stop after that, it’s probably better for you to end things for your own sake.