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📅 Dec 4, 2024 10:46
I’m 29 and registered with Universe. Thankfully, I currently have several monthly arrangements. Because I have black hair and a fairly understated appearance, and because people often say, “You work for a major company, right?” my male supporters tend to compliment me on seeming serious and responsible. However, after repeatedly experiencing workplace bullying at the company I’d worked for since graduating, I developed an adjustment dis...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Record evidence of the workplace harassment, such as by making audio recordings, and if you go to a labor union or the Labor Standards Inspection Office, they can help you with various things.
These days, workers are really well protected. Fuu is often on the employer’s side of labor negotiations, so I know, haha…
You don’t have to mention it—just say you haven’t been feeling well.
Even if you tell someone something negative, for people who just want lighthearted, fun papa…
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📅 Dec 3, 2024 21:34
“Since PATOLO was created, the money-obsessed men—the ones who offer low allowances and aren’t very good—have moved over there.” Honestly, I wish those cheap, money-focused papas would go to PATOLO instead of Universe.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Honestly, women like the person asking this question—those who complain, demand a high allowance, and aren’t worth dealing with—should quit Universe and Patro and go use some other papa-katsu app.
Please!
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📅 Dec 3, 2024 17:54
I’d love to make some female friends who are registered with Universe! Would my options basically be waiting to be invited to a group date or attending one of the Universe parties they used to hold?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Register with Universal Lounge in Ginza and ask the staff there.
You could wait in the waiting area. Apparently, the women’s seats are generally partitioned off for privacy, but there may be some more outgoing women you could become friends with.
When I went to a lounge before, I saw a woman sitting at the counter, having a drink and chatting with the staff.
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📅 Dec 3, 2024 15:25
About the going rate for allowances. I’ve met several men through this club. For around two hours of dinner followed by two to three hours of an adult relationship (intimate), I’ve met men offering ¥20,000, ¥30,000, ¥40,000, ¥50,000, or ¥60,000 on a pay-per-meeting basis. There were several men offering each of those amounts. Personally, I’d ideally like around ¥50,000, but there are a few men who want to pay only ¥20,000. Since it’s a ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s all about the balance between supply and demand, so naturally, women want to get as much as possible while men want to pay as little as possible.
On Pato, you can state your desired allowance, so if you set it at 50,000 yen or more, you may get fewer papas (male supporters) offering low amounts.
If you’re getting offers of 50,000 or 60,000 yen, you could simply decide not to pursue any arrangements below that.
Of course, there are also women who don’t receive offers a…
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📅 Dec 3, 2024 15:14
When I first registered about five years ago, I was ranked Gold. Men would offer around 30,000–40,000 yen for an adult relationship (though one person offered 100,000 yen), and some would only meet me once every two months or so. Some men would send me nothing but casual chat messages. One asked if he could pay my allowance monthly; after we had met several times, he accused me of lying about my student loans and ultimately didn’t pay m...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s only natural that appearance plays a role.
In the U.S., trials use juries—ordinary citizens who deliver the verdict—so when you compare cases involving serious crimes, young, attractive men and women apparently tend to receive lighter sentences.
Even in school, the cute girls in the “popular crowd” get fawned over. Whether they’re idols or hosts, unattractive people simply can’t make as much money.
For women, age is another factor on top of that.
This is just my pers…
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📅 Dec 3, 2024 13:44
Thank you as always. Universe Club seems to have a very solid system in place, which I think is wonderful. I’ve always wondered how the people who work there ended up joining the company. When I visited for a reshoot, I had the chance to speak with someone who joined Universe straight out of college. They handled everything very professionally, and I thought they were great. But when I was job hunting, I didn’t even know Universe Club e...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you’re interested in applying, why not ask the staff?
The male staff member who interviewed me for Fuu was very polite and nice. He had a family and children, and looked like a perfectly ordinary salaryman.
The woman who helped me at the event was cute and had just joined the company, so I kept asking her all sorts of questions, like whether she did papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). One of the more experienced employees jokingly warned me, “Please don’t make a mo…
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📅 Dec 3, 2024 12:21
I received a slightly sarcastic remark along the lines of, “You seem to be enjoying yourself.” (Another papa asked me, “How do you have so much money?” Of course I have money—I work my regular job and do papa-katsu. What a tacky question.) Would the men I’m seeing prefer me to hide all my overseas trips and outings and pretend to be a poor woman who stays home all the time?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Good for you that you’re making money.
You’re practically made of validation-seeking, and the “glamorous girl” vibe is coming through loud and clear. If you can’t hide it, don’t force yourself. Even so, I hope you find a good papa (a male supporter) to date.
As for me, I avoid women like that—women who seem like they’d be expensive.
I’m not judging you. Actresses make money from how well they act; they’re bundles of lies who elevate lying into an art form. I’m sure there a…
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📅 Dec 3, 2024 12:19
I make a decent income from my main job and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). When I meet men, I try not to wear luxury brands or give off the impression that I live an overly flashy lifestyle. For example, I’ve been traveling abroad every month lately, but it gives us something to talk about, and I sometimes send them photos or bring back souvenirs. Then they say things like, “Wow, you’re rich—that’s amazing…”
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📅 Dec 2, 2024 23:41
Why do I feel guilty or disgusted specifically when my breasts are touched during an adult relationship through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), even though I don’t feel particularly bothered when my intimate area is touched?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It really depends on the person—you may be making assumptions.
There are women who don’t allow any touching above the bust. No kissing, no touching their breasts.
I’ve met about two women like that as well, but we parted ways right away, so the arrangement didn’t continue.
There are plenty of women who are comfortable letting you do various things.
This activity can be difficult unless it’s basically erotic. If you’re into that side of it, you’ll probably enjoy it.
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📅 Dec 2, 2024 02:02
I’m thinking about getting breast augmentation—do men generally like augmented breasts? Does it depend on the type of augmentation, such as silicone implants or fat transfer? I’m slim to average-sized and currently around a C cup. Among women who haven’t had breast augmentation, mine are on the larger side, but quite a few of my classmates have had theirs done, which has made me interested in it too.
💬 Answer from カズ:
Men are human too, and everyone has different preferences.
The breast size they’re attracted to varies from person to person, and what someone wants from another person depends on the nature of the relationship. Even among men who like large breasts, opinions on cosmetic surgery differ.
Cosmetic surgery should ultimately be about making yourself happy. If you’re concerned about how others will react, I think it’s better to consider whose approval you actually want.
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📅 Dec 1, 2024 23:24
I’d like some advice about a man who always wants to take photos together. When we go out for a meal or I ride in his car, he insists on taking selfies together and seems to show them to his friends. He agreed not to show them to anyone, but it was only a verbal promise. I’m worried that if his wife or someone else finds out, it could make it easier for them to demand compensation from me. Is there a good way to refuse?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s like this: if you don’t set boundaries from the start, letting it slide once will become the default.
Be firm about saying no at the beginning. It’s hard to start refusing halfway through…
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📅 Dec 1, 2024 19:59
Once I get to know a man reasonably well, he sometimes suggests going on an all-day date, like visiting an aquarium or amusement park. Since the allowance is usually the same as usual even for an all-day date, I find it emotionally and physically demanding to spend my entire day off that way. I’d like to ask for a little more allowance for an all-day date, but would it be okay to tell him that directly? I’m worried he might lose interes...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If you tell them outright, there’s a good chance they’ll lose interest, so I think it’s best to keep turning them down.
Only if they say something like, “I really want to go no matter what,” you could work it into a conversation that sounds half-serious, half-joking:
“Sure, if you’ll pay three times as much. Apparently the Red Comet gets three times as much too. Just kidding.”
Though I suppose more people probably don’t know who the Red Comet is these days…
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📅 Nov 29, 2024 23:09
I always set up a next meeting with women I like. Even when that’s not the case, if I invite them two or three weeks later, the female members always agree to meet. But what’s going through the minds of women who don’t proactively message me unless I make the first move? (This question is directed at the female members.) Several women are like this. Even when they do message me, I don’t think they’re being overly focused on money. I’d s...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
No woman is going to message a man repeatedly if she only sees him about once a month.
I think the reason is that she doesn’t know his schedule, so it’s difficult for her to invite him out.
I also only see mine about once a month, so I only hear from her when it’s been an unusually long time since we last met.
If you want her to message you regularly, you’ll need to see her at least once a week.
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📅 Nov 29, 2024 11:58
Is it normal for my papa (a male supporter) to never invite me out and always leave it to me to make the plans? It makes me hesitant to reach out because I start wondering if he doesn’t really like me that much.
💬 Answer from マックさん:
What you’re saying makes no sense. It’s precisely when he might not be that into you that you should take the initiative and ask him out. You need to flatter him and draw out his interest. How long have you been doing this?
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📅 Nov 29, 2024 05:15
Whenever I have a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) date scheduled, I can’t sleep the night before, and on the day itself I’m overwhelmed with depression. I also wake up at odd hours. I go to a love hotel thinking I want to die. Is quitting really the only option?
💬 Answer from ダイ:
For you, it sounds like papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) has effectively become sex work.
They say that one in three sex workers struggles emotionally.
I think the main reasons are being made to do things they don’t want to do and feeling as though they aren’t being treated like a person.
The appeal of papa-katsu is that you’re not dealing with random, unspecified people—you can have an adult relationship (intimate) only with someone who won’t make you do things yo…
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📅 Nov 29, 2024 02:09
I have absolutely no desire to get married, and I don’t want a boyfriend either. I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for about five years. Having a papa (a male supporter) who doesn’t tie me down and fulfills me both emotionally and financially is the most comfortable lifestyle for me. Even so, whenever my papa asks, “Why don’t you get a boyfriend?” I never know how to answer. Honestly, my thoughts are, “A boyfriend...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Why not make your papa happy?
If you prefer older men to guys your own age, and don’t have much desire to get married, it might reassure your papa if you make that clear so things don’t get too serious.
If you’re better at acting, you could say something like, “I feel so comfortable spending time with you,” and give him a hug. He might be completely won over.
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📅 Nov 27, 2024 17:55
I’ve been with Universe for about three years and have had them arrange meetings with over 50 women, but there’s one woman I’ve been seeing for nearly three years. She hasn’t done anything wrong, and I feel bad saying this, but I’m starting to get a little bored. I’d also like to start meeting new people, but more than the money, I honestly have very limited time for papa-katsu right now. I’m quite emotionally attached to her, so I’m st...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
In my case, whether it’s through a club or a romantic relationship, I’ve never had a relationship end after being together for more than three years.
That’s because as time goes by, you don’t necessarily get bored—instead, the bond between you deepens. I honestly don’t really understand getting bored with someone’s character or the relationship itself. I can understand wanting a different woman or getting tired of her body, but I think there are also men and women who want t…
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📅 Nov 27, 2024 14:44
I was offered ¥200,000 a month to meet three or four times for an adult relationship (intimate). He said he’d put it down as a business expense through the company he runs and pay me everything at the end of the month. Is there a high chance he’ll just disappear without paying? Getting ¥200,000 a month sounds good, but I’m uneasy about being paid all at once at the end of the month.
💬 Answer from シアトル:
They use me and then disappear.
No way am I agreeing to payment afterward—cheap, broke papas.
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📅 Nov 26, 2024 23:51
Dependency I find myself turning to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) whenever I feel lonely. I want some spending money, and whenever I start feeling lonely, I end up messaging men on LINE. I can’t seem to break free. I suddenly wondered what percentage of women in their 20s have ever done papa-katsu.
💬 Answer from 太郎:
I don’t know what the numbers are like now, but I seem to remember that Universe Club used to get around 400 new registrations a month. That’s 4,800 a year. If half were in their 20s, that would be 2,400 a year—or 24,000 over ten years.
If we assume Universe Club accounts for 10% of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), including apps and other platforms, then the total number of women who participate in papa-katsu during their 20s would be about 240,000. There are rough…
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📅 Nov 26, 2024 20:48
Do you usually let someone know before meeting whether an adult relationship (intimate) is on the table that day before making plans? Personally, I’d rather decide depending on how I feel at the time. But since the allowance may differ depending on whether it’s included, I’m worried it might be inconvenient for her if I don’t clarify in advance. What do you think?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Of course she would.
Invite her when you feel like doing it.
Conversely, how would you feel if you said you wanted to, but she told you she wasn’t in the mood and didn’t want to?