Reading the answers got me thinking—aren’t men in their 50s who look like they’re in their 30s basically nonexistent??

It’s the same as when a woman’s profile on Universe Club says “D-cup,” but once you go to a hotel and she undresses, you think, “That’s obviously a B-cup, isn’t it?” So we’re even—please kindly go easy on us for being old guys too. m(__)m

> Aren’t there basically no people in their 50s who look like they’re in their 30s?? Maybe you’re thinking of someone who’s 59 but looks 30. If you look at it that way, I can understand why you’d say you’ve never seen one. But people in their 30s are those between 30 and 39, while people in their 50s are those between 50 and 59. So you could also ask whether there are 50-year-olds who look 39. And there are plenty of them. In my experience, more than 30% of men are like that. Of course, I understand the argument that 39 is basically 40. But if the rule is that people are acceptable as long as they’re in their 30s, then that means up to age 39 is acceptable. More importantly, if you draw the line at 30s, why is 39 okay but 40 not? What exactly is the significance of that one year? Can you really tell the difference? Can you distinguish between someone who’s 39 and someone who’s 40? And you understand that sometimes the difference between being 39 and 40 comes down to having birthdays just one day apart, right? In that case, can you really tell apart two people born one day apart? Even then, are people in their 30s okay while people in their 40s aren’t? If you think about it normally, age may matter in broad terms, but doesn’t it become meaningless when you get down to the finer details? Isn’t appearance more important? That was the point of my previous answer. Though I do question the idea of prioritizing looks in the first place. Maybe that’s something people come to understand through their life experiences. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, of course. Still, it seems you want to use this Q&A box like some anonymous forum, but this isn’t a message board, so I should point out that posts other than actual questions may be deleted.

That’s true—the point is how much the allowance can make up for it. In a sense, let’s remember that this is a place where men and women who are both looking for something they couldn’t get in conventional relationships come together. That’s precisely why it can also feel worthwhile.

I apologize for referring to you as “slow” in my previous answer. That was very rude of me. You seem to be a young woman with excellent insight. As you guessed, to a young woman like you, a man in his 50s probably looks either unhygienic or like someone who failed at looking younger. And since I turned 60 last year, that goes without saying in my case. Your question is a little hard to understand, but basically, you want to receive offers from men in their 30s, right? I think the solution would be to write that in your profile—but you don’t want to do that. That does make things difficult. Unfortunately, I don’t think your request will be accommodated here. As I mentioned before, the finances of Uchu Club are probably supported mainly by relatively wealthy men in their 40s and older (though I’m doing fairly well myself), so I doubt they would adopt a system that might discourage the men in that core demographic. To be honest, the reason you have any chance of receiving an offer from a wonderful man in his 30s is precisely because men in their 40s and older exist. Got it now?

It’s your freedom to think that way, so I understand your point. But as I’ve told you once before, I don’t think you’re suited to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) through a dating club. You’d be better off not joining one. Even if you’re attractive, if you have those kinds of attitudes and speak that way, a papa (a male supporter) might meet you once after making an offer, but no one will want to give you an allowance, so I doubt it would lead to anything ongoing. The women who are suited to dating clubs are generally those who: - Like older men, 40 and up - Can have sex with someone regardless of age if it’s for the money - If anything, actually enjoy sex People like you tend to follow the pattern that fails most often. So just do your best on your own through matching apps or X. It’s more dangerous and harder to make money that way than through a dating club, though... But there’s not much to be done—you’re simply not suited to it.

So, what’s your question? This is a Q&A site—a place to ask questions. Even the post button says “Post a question,” doesn’t it?