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📅 Dec 28, 2024 03:36
What do you all think about him paying ¥90 million to settle the matter? Since many of you are in the same kind of situation, sadly, it seems like a lot of people here side with the men, don’t you? Will the day ever come when this becomes a more livable world…? I’ve met many older men since I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and I’ve also been treated terribly quite a few times. Is there a difference between a woman a m...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
If you invested ¥90 million, it seems like you could make a pretty decent profit every year.
Nakajima should have just paid around ¥300 million too. He cheaped out, and now his career in show business is over. Well, he had already retired last year because of his illness, so if he hadn’t been arrested, maybe he would’ve gone the way of Shinsuke Shimada.
Apparently, announcer Nagisa Watanabe comes from a well-to-do family, so maybe money wouldn’t have changed her actions any…
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📅 Dec 26, 2024 21:31
I’d especially like to ask Makeotoko, who seems to be the richest person among the respondents. I’ve made offers to more than 50 women, but for the first time, I’ve met someone I genuinely want to make my mistress. It’ll be our first date. How much would you offer for an adult relationship (intimate)? I know that when I ask, she’ll probably just respond, “How much were you thinking?” I’ve attended various events and seen the other male ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Thank you.
I’m actually kind of happy to see a question with this many obvious points to call out.
Saying “I’m confident about my looks” comes across as pretty painful, but if you’re really that confident, why not use a dating app? Then you wouldn’t have to worry about paying an allowance.
If you can’t get matches on dating apps, then your looks are the problem, lol. You’re getting older too, so maybe you should just honestly accept that and continue here by paying an allo…
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📅 Dec 26, 2024 11:46
Do you ever get into arguments with the people you’re seeing through papa-katsu, regardless of whether they’re women? It may be a matter of the man’s ability to handle things, but is there any benefit to women not being honest about what they want? For example, giving a price range—including letting him know when the allowance feels insufficient—along with their hobbies and preferences, expectations regarding appearance or scent, how th...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
No arguments here.
They say smart people leave quietly, right? If I don’t get a reply on LINE, I take it as a sign that it’s over. Once I feel like it’s no longer going to work, I don’t say anything either. I don’t say anything unnecessary. There are actually a lot of benefits to staying quiet.
That said, if the relationship has lasted a long time, I think you can talk things through. •*¨*•.¸¸☆
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📅 Dec 25, 2024 14:32
I assume everyone answering here is wealthy. Does having money make you happy?
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I sometimes wonder what wealthy people do in their everyday lives.
What I’ve realized is that it’s really about inner happiness. I don’t think I’ve ever met a wealthy person who’s constantly negative.
So even when I’m feeling mentally low, I try to find a way to lift my mood.
I’m sure you asked because you were wondering, “What is happiness, anyway?”
There’s nothing wrong with having money, right?
But if I suddenly really don’t want to meet someone the next day, I try to…
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📅 Dec 25, 2024 01:54
I’m thinking about signing up for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I’m torn between B2 and C. I’m okay with C, but I’m wondering if B2 might be better since my period could suddenly start that day, or I might not be feeling well. From a man’s perspective, is C preferable when choosing a woman?
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
It’s a good idea to set it to C and let your coordinator know via LINE when your period starts. And since you’re not absolutely required to accept, either option should be fine.
If you’re just getting started, you could begin with B2 and switch to C when the time feels right!
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📅 Dec 23, 2024 13:03
I recently had an adult date with a new woman, and when she undressed, she had severe atopic dermatitis from the neck down. Her profile said she didn’t have atopic dermatitis, though… I was pretty put off, but we went through with it without any problems. Should I report this to the staff? I’m also worried that if I report it and she finds out I was the one who informed on her, it’ll be awkward. I won’t be seeing her again, though…
💬 Answer from 太郎:
Do people say “hanūn” these days? I thought it was “ahhan, uh-huh.” It does have a bit of an Islamic vibe to it, but in any case, I suppose times change.
There are all sorts of things: atopic dermatitis, rough skin, thinking someone has a large bust only to find out it’s artificial, or assuming someone is the demure type only to discover she’s a scammer targeting generous men. Even at a dating club that claims to be straightforward, if a woman cancels on the day, they may co…
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📅 Dec 19, 2024 15:43
What do you all think of men who suggest going to their place for an adult relationship (intimate) after dinner on the first meeting, saying things like, “I live nearby” or “I’m a germaphobe, so I can’t do hotels”…? I turned him down because going to someone’s home on the first meeting felt pretty scary, though I might have been more open to it after meeting a few times. Is this actually fairly common?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
I don’t think that’s such an unusual way of thinking.
The advantages are:
1. It’s easier to make excuses if someone sees you.
2. It costs less.
And when it comes to cleanliness, love hotels can indeed feel unsettling and dirty because you don’t know how they’re cleaned. Even business hotels aren’t necessarily trustworthy. I feel safest with beds and towels that I manage myself.
I haven’t used a love hotel or a business hotel for about two years. They aren’t my home, but I’…
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📅 Dec 17, 2024 23:44
For women who don’t have an introductory video, list their occupation as something like “part-time worker” or “in the beauty industry,” and don’t have set times when they can meet—is it often the case that they’re sex workers or doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) full-time?
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Mutual trust is important too, so if you feel uneasy, I think it’s best not to make an offer.
It can be difficult to judge someone based on their profile alone.
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📅 Dec 17, 2024 13:16
What do you think is the right way for a man to find success and happiness through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Personally, I’m already completely satisfied with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and the whole concept of dating clubs thanks to the launch of Universe Club. I can’t thank them enough.
I’m going to praise them to the moon, but I’m not a shill or anything lol.
Ever since I discovered Universe Club, I’ve been having the time of my life in the latter half of my life. I was never popular with women, so my number of partners went from fewer than five before joining a d…
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📅 Dec 16, 2024 22:52
My married papa (a male supporter) of two years told me, “I don’t want to pay you anymore. You wouldn’t see me if there were no money involved, right?” Well, obviously. Since he’s married, he’d also tell me things like, “Don’t message me on LINE after [a certain time],” and “Don’t wear glittery makeup when you come.” He’s so selfish. I just gave him a halfhearted reply for now, but is he an idiot?? Has anyone else had an experience like...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I think he’s taking a gamble, thinking, “Let’s make this the last time.”
It sounds like the relationship is coming to an end. If he were single, that would be one thing, but he’s married, so it feels pretty selfish, doesn’t it? ( ; ; )
Time to move on!!
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📅 Dec 16, 2024 12:42
I’m usually one of the people answering questions here, but I had a simple question come to mind, so I thought I’d ask. Men can access the setting information from their member page, and there’s a ranking of meeting locations. Looking at it, most of the locations are hotel lobbies, with the occasional station exit or even Ginza Six. All of my dates so far have started with meeting in front of the restaurant I reserved. (Although as I wr...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
In my case, I’ve used all of those arrangements.
The other day, since we were meeting from 3 p.m., we met in the hotel lobby and had tea at the lounge there.
Sometimes we also meet in a hotel lobby and walk to a restaurant about a minute away.
I do this because I consider that she might get lost if it’s her first time going to the restaurant.
However, if the restaurant I booked isn’t near a hotel, we meet in front of the restaurant.
On the other hand, I’ve never arranged…
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📅 Dec 15, 2024 16:37
I’m a respondent, but I hope you don’t mind me asking a question. What do you think constitutes doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) “right,” being successful, or being happy as a woman? I’m not popular at clubs and have no ongoing arrangements, but on apps I’m considered semi-professional and have several monthly arrangements. I’d appreciate any words of advice, no matter what they are. Thank you.
💬 Answer from 綾瀬なな:
Long time no see! I thought you were Himawari (^_^;)
Once you start wanting a higher allowance, there’s a lot to worry about. Intimacy is meant to be enjoyed, not endured. Maybe that should be our motto.
After seeing someone for two or three months, you might be able to tell him what you want and have him listen, but… I don’t know what you’re into, Himawari, so I can’t say you should bring it up at this point.
Just be more natural and relaxed, and let’s wait for an offer ♡…
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📅 Dec 14, 2024 08:17
The answers to questions on the Q&A page are awful. People say things like, “Don’t ask questions like that,” “Ask them directly,” or “Don’t use this site.” The language is really rude. I understand how the respondents feel, but couldn’t the site administrators handle things with a little more consideration? If that’s too difficult, I think it would be better to shut this site down.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> If it’s really that difficult, I think it would be fine to shut this site down.
But it seems to me that all you have to do is stop visiting if you don’t want to see it. If nobody visits, it will naturally be shut down.
People who don’t want to see it should simply stop looking at it first. I think that’s the right answer.
As long as you keep visiting, the site’s traffic will continue to grow, so people will say, “You can’t just shut down a Q&A site with that many visitor…
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📅 Dec 14, 2024 08:11
The other day, I sent an offer to a woman, but she turned me down… Does this kind of thing happen often? The information available about men is only about 20% of the total—age, name, and a brief self-introduction—so I’m simply wondering why she declined. Could it be that some women remain registered even when they aren’t actively looking for offers?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
A Brief Self-Introduction?
There are men who write some really strange things in their profiles—so strange that even I would think, “I wouldn’t want to meet this guy.”
For women, meeting someone may even involve the possibility of going to a hotel, so something like that is obviously a deal-breaker.
Women who believe they can handle any kind of man and are good at dealing with difficult people may still accept an offer despite a strange profile.
But women who are register…
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📅 Dec 14, 2024 02:27
A male member I recently had a first meeting with told me that, perhaps because of his age, he sometimes can’t get fully hard even when aroused. He said the allowance for a hotel date would be 5 if penetration was possible and 3 if it wasn’t. Is it common in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for the allowance to vary depending on what happens?
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
That’s not typical.
If he couldn’t penetrate, you might even consider adding another +3.
If you’re only cuddling or sleeping together at a hotel without doing anything sexual, the amount might change—assuming you discussed it beforehand. But if he wanted to have sex and couldn’t, it could turn into a long, drawn-out ordeal for both of you… Reducing the amount would be out of the question.
That said, as he gets older, I can understand his feelings to some extent. I hope he …
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📅 Dec 14, 2024 01:59
Would it be appropriate to give money as a condolence gift to a man who has lost his father? I’ve been seeing him regularly for meals and karaoke for about four years. We get along well, and we often enjoy going out together. I’m a Type C, but he wasn’t looking for a Type C relationship. Even so, we’ve continued to have a comfortable, natural relationship. I recently heard that his father passed away. I was very shocked and have been wo...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
Maybe it feels too personal, like you’re becoming family, and that makes it feel emotionally heavy...?
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📅 Dec 13, 2024 23:44
I’d like to see the post-date surveys for both men and women, but I can only view the first page of each. Is this some kind of glitch? Even when I click to go to page two, it just stays on page one. It does the same thing on both my computer and phone, so I was wondering if anyone else is experiencing this.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Indeed… Even when the URL says page 2 or 3, the content still remains on page 1, and the page navigation buttons at the bottom also stay on page 1.
I’d like to say, “Thank you for letting us know.”
But as I’ve said many times before, this isn’t the kind of thing to post in the Q&A box. If you’re a member, you should contact the staff directly.
If you’re not a member, you can reach out through the contact form.
Apparently, a lot of people still don’t understand what the Q&…
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📅 Dec 13, 2024 21:42
I Can’t Help Comparing My Papas Is it strange that I feel uncomfortable about it? - He messages me every day saying things like “I love you” and “I like you,” but the allowance is on the low side. He keeps me for long periods because he wants to spend as much time together as possible. He cooks for me, usually things like curry, and when we eat out near his workplace so he can claim it as a business expense, the bill for both of us is u...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Well, I’d say just go with what the questioner feels. You only get one life, so it’s a waste of time to put up with something you don’t want.
The same goes for the papa side. Even with the same allowance, he might think, “This girl even goes the extra mile, so I’m really satisfied,” while with another girl, she’s gotten too comfortable lately, seems unenthusiastic, and turned down oral this time—so he may decide to end things, lol.
If you’re unhappy, don’t force yourself. J…
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📅 Dec 13, 2024 17:55
Are there women at dating clubs who are actually married but pretend to be single? I don’t think there can really be that many beautiful single women in their late 20s to early 30s.
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
They’re probably out there, but they’re hard to find, aren’t they? (￣▽￣;)
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📅 Dec 13, 2024 03:07
I don’t have much experience with men, so I don’t think I’m very good at intimacy. Do papas generally prefer women who are more experienced? I’m 153 cm tall, weigh 48 kg, have a C cup, and look quite young, so I probably come across as childish. Is there any demand for someone like me?
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
I think being enthusiastic is important.
No matter how much I’m attracted to a woman, it’s a turnoff when she gives off the feeling that she’s only doing it because she’s getting paid.