I’m already dreading getting messages from papa-katsu older men at the very start of the year. I wish they’d give me a break from the messaging for at least New Year’s—are these guys really that bored?
This content is machine-translated.
Shouldn’t they be busy with their wives and kids, or visiting their own families and in-laws?
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂20s👑Universe female member
You don’t need to check LINE or reply until the day you go back to work, do you?
Some women may reply, though, so there’s a chance your priority could drop.
As for Fuu, my wife went to her parents’ house alone, and the kids are all doing their own thing and aren’t home, so I’m enjoying some free time like a single man.
I also thanked my monthly arrangement partners for everything and wished them a happy New Year. They all replied right away.
Normally, we mostly just exchange practical messages about scheduling dates, so when I message them out of the blue, they always reply properly. They’re all such wonderful women. I’m really glad they’re not like the person asking this question.
I’m grateful to have such lovely monthly partners. I look forward to working with you all again this year!
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m not sure how I feel about thinking of interactions with your papa as “work.” But if you do consider papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) a business, then what’s the point of working in the service industry if you dislike that aspect of it?
If you’re doing papa-katsu as a business, I feel like you’d need to differentiate yourself from the other women here.
That said, I doubt many men actually want to meet a woman who treats it purely as work, so I suspect this may be bait—but still, I’m not quite sure what to make of it.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
If even New Year’s greetings feel like a hassle in your relationship, why continue it?
In my case, the woman is the one who sends the New Year’s greeting, so I simply reply.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
You may not realize this, but the allowance covers not only getting intimate—it also includes the cost of exchanging messages on LINE. That’s how much older gentlemen enjoy chatting on LINE. The problem is that this system isn’t clearly stated. Personally, though, I think replying may help you maintain the allowance, continue the arrangement, or even get a raise.
Just picture Eiichi and Yukichi, and reply calmly.
Still, I guess taking off your panties and spreading your legs doesn’t make you depressed. I like girls like that.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
It’d be nice if they were all just older guys who sent 100 yen per LINE via PayPay or something.
Doesn’t that message come with a little “cha-ching” and money attached?
If a message doesn’t smell like money, just block them.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
After years of phasing out New Year’s cards, I’ve finally reached a point where I don’t call, email, or use LINE with anyone outside my family. It feels like a luxury—to do nothing at all, almost like a long-awaited dream coming true. I don’t see or contact anyone from work, among friends or relatives, or in the neighborhood. It’s become the one time of year when I can truly disconnect from society and relax over the New Year holidays.
I never could have imagined this before, and it really makes me feel how much times have changed. (I don’t even check who sent New Year’s cards… and I don’t feel like calling or emailing anyone for New Year’s greetings…)
When I was a child, I could receive New Year’s money from more than ten households just in my neighborhood, and we would spend the first three days of the year visiting relatives…
Even though I don’t want to contact anyone, the only people I still keep in touch with are the women I’ve met through the club.
Perhaps those exchanges also help us confirm—and narrow down—the nature of our relationships.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Here’s a template notice for the temporary suspension of email services. Feel free to use it.
ーーーーーーーー
Thank you very much for your continued support.
Please be advised that, due to the New Year holiday period, ○○○○○○ will be suspending email services on the following dates:
We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience this may cause and appreciate your understanding.
■ Service suspension period
Until Tuesday, January 7, 2025
※ Regular service will resume from 12:00 p.m. on Wednesday, January 8.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
You must have some free time too—not as much as someone like you, who goes out of her way to post something obvious to complete strangers.
Personally, I don’t want relationships with people who are too busy even to send a LINE message.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
