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Jul 20, 2022 23:07
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
From another perspective:
You casually say, “Finish inside during intimacy,” but since you haven’t specified what you mean by “inside,” you also need to consider that this could easily be misunderstood.
In other words, the man might take it to mean, “Finish inside me, not inside the condom.”
That raises the question: What would you do if he removed the condom and finished inside?
From the man’s perspective, he might think, “This woman wants me to finish inside her directly; that must be her preference.” In that case, he may believe he’s simply accommodating her wishes.
When you look at it that way, statements that could be misunderstood seem dangerous.
Of course, if you’ve met many times, he understands your true intentions, and the words are just part of the play—and he would never actually remove the condom—then I suppose that’s fine.
But people are unpredictable, so I feel there’s no need to deliberately do something that could put you at risk.
Other
When he asks where he should finish…
I like the feeling of it spurting inside me, so I say, “Inside… Give me lots…”
I prefer him to stay inside for a while. If he’s able to hold back after that, I have him keep going until he finishes again. I writhe in pleasure like a woman, but…
I’m starting to feel embarrassed having written this much.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
- It’s big, but beautiful…
- I think you’re the first man I could spend hours with without getting bored.
- Would you like to go out for a drink after this?
- The way you touch me is sexy.
- I’m going to cum, I’m going to cum!!
- You’re really good at setting the mood.
- Your lower body is like a teenager’s.
- I’d like you to teach my boyfriend how to kiss.
These are the eight that made it to the quarterfinals.
Honestly, I think “I’m going to cum, I’m going to cum!!” is a guaranteed favorite with any man, so I’m excluding it from the competition. Now, which one should win…?
“I’d like you to teach my boyfriend how to kiss” might be the leading candidate, especially when she says it while you’re kissing.
“The way you touch me is sexy” is also quietly flattering.
They didn’t make the list, but “You always smell so good” and “I think you’re the first older man I’ve met who doesn’t have bad breath” are the dark horses.
On the other hand, what women enjoy hearing is more along the lines of “You’re so tight… This is incredible… It feels so good.” It’s not really about words, though. If you handle her bra gently, she may smile and say, “You really know what feels good for a girl,” and the distance between you will suddenly close. I recommend it to all the papas out there.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Several decades ago, while traveling, I playfully caressed her a little during a spare moment.
“I want you to put it in just a little.”
I still can’t forget her saying that.
The woman only remembers the fun parts of the trip, but the man remembers only that moment.
As in the question, I get excited when a woman, clearly becoming aroused, says things like:
“Put it in.”
“I’m starting to want it.”
“I want it.”
“Thrust.”
“Finish.”
Rather than the words themselves, it’s her reactions up to that point that get me excited—I’m already so aroused that I’m practically ready to climax.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Sounds good〜
Try different things and make your papa happy. A papa who enjoys hearing those words will probably enjoy other things you say, too.
Fuu also wants her partner to feel good, and words really do it for her. The fact that the questioner feels happy seeing that makes her a lovely woman too.
Things I’m happy to hear (that get me hard):
“That feels so good there.”
“I can’t hold back—put it in soon.”
“I’m about to come.”
“I’m coming.”
“More.”
“Harder.”
“I like it rough.”
“I like it from behind.”
“Are you okay? Wasn’t that too much?”
→ “I’m fine. It felt good.”
Akari-san asking me for kisses, and Marika-san saying “Amazing,” also get me hard.
When she hugs me tightly or calls me by my name, I get hard there too.
I’m so simple lol
P.S.
The other day, a usually cool and not very forward woman kissed me passionately while she was on top.
It was irresistible! I almost fell for her〜
Other
I can’t really put it into words—there’s no room for anything else in the moment.
I have a habit of asking for kisses during penetration, and I can feel him getting harder and harder.
Akari
Fuu,
I’m happy when he kisses me, and I’m also happy to notice the changes he can’t put into words… so I end up doing it, I guess.
Other
I don’t say much, really.
I feel like it’s unnecessary.
I’ve been told that watching my reactions—how I feel and the way I writhe—is exciting.
Maybe I should add a few words too. But I don’t have the energy to talk.
When it feels really good, I end up saying something like, “That’s amazing,” in all kinds of ways.
Nothing more meaningful than that comes to mind!
Marika
Ah—but if a man whispers something to me, I get turned on, so I guess I’m being selfish.
Sorry.
P.S.
Fuu,
A close-contact hug,
and being called by my name…
Those are things I definitely want.
Actually, they’re essential.
That’s why I like names that are easy to say.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Just like the person who asked the question, I’ve also encountered women who said, “Finish inside me,” while we were using a condom. In my case, I started wondering whether she meant finishing inside her despite the condom, or whether she meant finishing inside the condom, and it completely killed the mood.
As Taro pointed out, awkward lines during penetration suggest that the person has enough room to talk, and they can also switch me into a mode where I start thinking too rationally, so I’d rather they didn’t.
As for guidance, I actually welcome it because I appreciate women taking an active interest in making things pleasurable. During penetration, it’s helpful when a woman says things like “That feels good!” or “More!” when I hit the right spot. It also makes me feel that she’s enjoying herself, which turns me on.
As you can see, men have different preferences even when it comes to a single comment during the moment, so I think it’s best to choose your words while paying attention to how your partner reacts.
Other
This is actually a pretty great question, isn’t it?（笑） The answers are fascinating. I especially enjoyed the polite exchange right after Mac-san’s “finish.” If he streamed it pay-per-view, I’d pay up to ¥4,980 to watch it.
The questioner’s idea is pretty spot-on too. It’s the kind of line you wouldn’t say with a condom, so the moment it’s said, you can practically feel the no-condom vibe. Conversely, something like, “Nooo, not inside!!” might work too.
I can’t really think of a time when words themselves got me excited. If anything, I’d be thinking, “So you have enough composure to talk right now…”
Having someone give clear guidance like, “There—don’t stop, that feels good,” is easy to understand. But I have this aesthetic belief that a man should be able to pick up on those things himself, so I might also feel embarrassed, like I’m being made to ride a bicycle with training wheels. Sorry for being so difficult.
Taro