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Jan 1, 2025 15:50
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In the end, I had to turn down numerous offers and prior commitments before quitting, and I feel a little guilty about that.
What would have been the best way for me to handle things?
5 answers
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Even though you were struggling mentally, you managed to quit—good for you. Give yourself some credit.
Looking back over the past and dwelling on it is basically a waste of time, probably.
Instead, let’s worry about what to have for lunch tomorrow. I’m planning to make arrabbiata using cherry tomatoes and a can of whole tomatoes.
I’ll do my best.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If offers started pouring in, I think it would’ve been better to temporarily suspend your account, respond to the offers you’d already accepted, and then either leave it suspended or close it once you found a good papa (a male supporter) for a monthly arrangement.
If you still hadn’t found one, you could’ve restarted with Plan C.
The more offers you get, the more good papas you can choose from, so I don’t think having lots of them is a bad thing.
You’re free to get upset on your own because it feels kind of like sex work, but you’re also free to think of it as lucky that you have so many options. Rather than making assumptions, you might enjoy it more if you try to look at it positively.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
“Feeling more like sex work”?
Does that mean you had worked in the sex industry before?
I’m not entirely sure, but just as history has no “what ifs,” thinking about what you should have done differently in the past won’t change anything.
Instead of dwelling on what you should have done, if there’s no problem with your life now, you can simply keep living it as you are.
>I feel a little bad about declining all those offers and promises and then leaving.
You should be able to do it…!
If your heart is truly filled with remorse…!
You can prostrate yourself and apologize anywhere…!
Even if that means…
Scorching your flesh…
Burning your bones…
Right there on a hot iron plate…!
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Dating Type D means she’s “proactive,” but it doesn’t promise that she’ll agree every time. So I think it’s fine to choose which offers to accept.
I occasionally hear about women who weren’t even Dating Type D but received so many offers that they had almost daily dates arranged and started feeling overwhelmed. Some women have even had their profiles hidden because they were getting too many offers.
I think you should ask them to hide your profile and stop accepting offers once you have a few.
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you have experience in the adult entertainment industry and the “sex-work vibe” is basically the same as what you’ve experienced, register under B2 or C.
If you don’t have that experience, you’re better off not registering.