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📅 Jan 10, 2025 11:51
I’ve been seeing one particular woman two or three times a month for an adult relationship (intimate) for about six months. Of course, she also has adult relationships with other men through the club, and apparently has two other regular monthly arrangements. Every time we meet, she asks whether I’d consider a monthly arrangement instead of paying an allowance each time. I’d appreciate everyone’s opinions on pay-per-meeting versus a mon...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
A papa who makes the poster feel comfortable, I guess.
You two meet pretty often.
A monthly allowance equal to three pay-per-meeting dates, but in reality you only meet twice?
Something might come up, though...
I’m a little jealous.
If I met someone that often, I’d probably get bored lol.
The adult relationship must be really good.
Personally, I’d rather meet three people once a month than one person three times a month, so I might not be able to fully understand h…
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📅 Jan 9, 2025 09:14
The other day (1/7), I came here for advice because a papa told me he had a latex allergy and wanted me to let him go without protection since he would cover the cost of my birth control pills. After reading everyone’s answers, I realized that I wasn’t the only one who felt something was wrong, so I’ve decided not to see him a second time. I’d like to send him a LINE message turning him down without causing any hard feelings. How should...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
“I absolutely can’t have sex without a condom, so I’d prefer not to continue seeing you.”
That seems perfectly fine to me.
Your reason is clear, and regardless of whether it might offend him, you’re simply stating the facts.
However, if he says he’d still like to see you again with protection, you could say:
“I’ll end things immediately if you ever suggest or bring up having sex without a condom again. Is that still okay with you?”
If he agrees, you might consider contin…
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📅 Jan 8, 2025 16:15
Thankfully, I received offers through Universe Club and met several people with an adult relationship (intimate) involved. I somehow kept pushing myself and trying to make club activities work, but having an adult relationship became mentally exhausting and physically impossible for me, so I ended up quitting. If it were dinner only (no intimacy), I could genuinely enjoy this, but the adult side is just too hard for me, and I’m depresse...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I’m a pretty emotionally troubled papa-katsu girl myself, but the first step down a dark path was when I ate feces for money.
If you don’t have to keep doing things against your will, it’s better not to. If you’re not in financial despair, I think it’s okay to leave papa-katsu behind now.
Or you could use papa-katsu as an opportunity to become more sexually uninhibited.
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📅 Jan 7, 2025 06:39
Nice to meet you. I’m a 20-year-old woman registered with the club as a Type C. I joined the club about a month ago. So far, I’ve received an offer through a letter date, met one man for tea and then an adult relationship (intimate), and made plans to see him a second time. When we met in person, my impression was that he was calm and had a lovely smile. However, maybe I’m overthinking things, but there are aspects of his messages that ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I think the latex allergy is probably a lie, but to verify it, you could have him hold a latex condom in his hand and see whether his hand turns red.
Even if it is genuine, as Mac-san wrote, the 0.01 mm and 0.02 mm ones aren’t made of latex (even Okamoto’s aren’t), so using those shouldn’t trigger an allergic reaction. I believe the thinnest latex ones are 0.03 mm.
This is a bit off-topic, but since the 0.01 mm and 0.02 mm ones aren’t latex, some people may find them uncomf…
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📅 Jan 5, 2025 20:39
Reading the answers got me thinking—aren’t men in their 50s who look like they’re in their 30s basically nonexistent?? You’ve never actually seen one, have you? I feel like they’re either unkempt old guys in their 50s or 50-something guys trying way too hard to look young...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
It’s the same as when a woman’s profile on Universe Club says “D-cup,” but once you go to a hotel and she undresses, you think, “That’s obviously a B-cup, isn’t it?”
So we’re even—please kindly go easy on us for being old guys too. m(__)m
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📅 Jan 5, 2025 14:35
I’m thinking about registering again. How many years do you keep my previous information on file?
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
At places that facilitate introductions between men and women, the usual pattern is:
- The men are mostly regulars.
- The women are mostly new, first-time participants.
Because of this structure, information distinguishing new women from everyone else will probably need to be kept for at least another 20 or 30 years.
Women have a good chance of finding someone quickly as newcomers, while many men may never find a match and end up becoming regulars.
For women, standing out…
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📅 Jan 4, 2025 15:28
I heard that most of the men doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) here are in their 30s, but I looked into it and found that there are also men in their 40s and 50s. Is it possible to set an age limit for matching? Ideally, I’d like to be able to set an age restriction without having it displayed on my profile. Also, can I see a man’s profile photo before matching? My father is in his 40s, so I think anyone over their early 40...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Most male members are in their 40s and 50s, followed by those in their 30s.
For details, check the club’s website:
https://universe-club.jp/newsroom/123220/
You should state in your profile that you’re not interested in men in their 40s; otherwise, you may receive offers from them.
If you think about it, older men may be more likely to have money. And if a man in his 30s is successful, wealthy, and handsome, he could probably have sex without paying an allowance, so the…
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📅 Jan 3, 2025 19:36
Have any of you ever gotten deeply involved with someone? If you had a wife and kids, were you able to get through it without everything falling apart? We’ve broken up and gotten back together over and over, with conversations like, “If we can’t get married, then…” coming up each time. I can’t find anyone on Premium Black who compares to her, so I’m unable to let go and it’s really painful.
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Are you in love with each other, or are you simply caught up in the relationship? Which is it…?
Getting deeply caught up is arguably one of the unique perks of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for the papa (a male supporter).
In romance, relationships, and marriage, it seems more accurate to say that both partners are in love rather than that the man is simply caught up in it.
Whether it’s love or being caught up, both can make you feel happy. So what stage do you …
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📅 Jan 3, 2025 18:33
Have you ever gotten in over your head?
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
“Getting hooked” is truly the perfect way to describe this kind of club activity.
Men in particular—and women too, perhaps—can develop a syndrome where they can’t break away once they realize they’re getting something from their partner that they can’t find elsewhere…
As men (and women?) get older, those things become harder to find elsewhere, which makes them more valuable—and pulls them even deeper into the rabbit hole.
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📅 Jan 3, 2025 09:16
It says that if you cancel a date on the day of, you may be charged damages. Does anyone actually get billed for this?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Judging from online legal consultations, there have apparently been actual cases where someone was sued for damages after canceling a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) arrangement.
Since this is a civil matter, basically anyone can file a claim.
If you ignore it, the other party may take the matter to court. If that happens, you’ll need to submit a written answer.
If you neither submit a written answer nor appear in court, you may be treated as having accepted the o…
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📅 Jan 3, 2025 00:53
I’ve heard that getting new photos taken moves your profile higher in the listings. Does simply booking a new photo session have the same effect, or does it only change once the photos are actually retaken? I was wondering because the number of people adding me to their favorites has suddenly increased over the past few days.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
For the situation within the club, I’d suggest taking a look at Maezawa-san’s answer.
Another possibility is that if you’ve been on dates recently, the ratings and feedback may have been added, which could have increased your stars.
Hopefully, getting new photos taken will lead to more offers.
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📅 Jan 2, 2025 17:59
Do you ever reach out to women you haven’t seen in a while? A few men I met only once message me every year around New Year’s or during the month we first met through a setting. They originally made me offers more than five years ago, before COVID. I can’t tell whether they’re messaging casually, thinking they might get lucky, or because they genuinely want to reconnect. What do you think their intentions are? I’ve always ignored their ...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
If it’s someone you’ve only met once or so:
Around New Year’s Day and the New Year holidays, I sometimes get LINE messages from women I offered to meet the previous year but have only met once or so, asking things like, “When can we meet next?” or “Are you free sometime this month?” (I’ve even met up with them in response.)
There’s really no particular need for the man to message first.
For women, New Year’s may be a good opportunity to send a LINE message, but with a dati…
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📅 Jan 2, 2025 13:21
I had a fortune-teller read the woman I’m interested in, and they got her personality surprisingly right. Apparently, she’s also had relationships with men before… *sigh* I didn’t give her name, though—can they really tell that from her date of birth?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Isn’t it kind of concerning if someone is over 20 and has never dated anyone of the opposite sex?
Wait—are you specifically looking for a virgin?
Don’t put your faith in fortune-telling. Why not just ask her yourself? Paying for a fortune-teller is a waste of money.
You could use that money to ask her out on a date instead. Talking about romance is the best way to get the conversation going anyway…
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📅 Jan 2, 2025 13:03
I made an offer to a B1-type woman and we’ve been on about five dates. When I asked about moving forward to an adult relationship (intimate), she said she’d just started hair removal and wanted me to wait 6–12 months. What do you all think? For someone who belongs to a dating club, is this a valid reason to turn someone down, or not? Also, would you continue seeing her or move on?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
LOL.
If he hasn’t brought up an adult relationship by the fifth meeting, you’re clearly being treated like an easy target.
If you meet once a month and this is your fifth time, I’m guessing he plans to say he’s getting hair removal and keep collecting his allowance for another 5–10 meetings without any physical relationship. You’re being targeted for dinner-only dates for over a year.
If you enjoy that kind of back-and-forth, then by all means keep it going.
I’m impressed…
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📅 Jan 2, 2025 11:15
I’m already dreading getting messages from papa-katsu older men at the very start of the year. I wish they’d give me a break from the messaging for at least New Year’s—are these guys really that bored? Shouldn’t they be busy with their wives and kids, or visiting their own families and in-laws?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You don’t need to check LINE or reply until the day you go back to work, do you?
Some women may reply, though, so there’s a chance your priority could drop.
As for Fuu, my wife went to her parents’ house alone, and the kids are all doing their own thing and aren’t home, so I’m enjoying some free time like a single man.
I also thanked my monthly arrangement partners for everything and wished them a happy New Year. They all replied right away.
Normally, we mostly just excha…
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📅 Jan 1, 2025 18:06
I once got involved with one person and ended up developing real feelings for him. Maybe I’m prone to becoming emotionally dependent, but once I become intimate with someone, I naturally start to feel affection for them. That’s why I’m currently seeing three people in Tokyo and three in other parts of Japan. But in the end, I develop feelings for all of them. Having multiple partners only helps me keep myself from taking any one relatio...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
It’s only natural in a way, because if it weren’t that rewarding, you wouldn’t see the value in it or get hooked…
You could even say everyone gets involved because they want to become hooked.
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📅 Jan 1, 2025 15:50
I was previously registered, but I signed up as a Type D member and was immediately flooded with offers. Before long, meeting someone for the first time and having an adult relationship every day became the norm. It started to feel too much like sex work, which took a toll on my mental health, so I ended up leaving. In the end, I had to turn down numerous offers and prior commitments before quitting, and I feel a little guilty about tha...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
Even though you were struggling mentally, you managed to quit—good for you. Give yourself some credit.
Looking back over the past and dwelling on it is basically a waste of time, probably.
Instead, let’s worry about what to have for lunch tomorrow. I’m planning to make arrabbiata using cherry tomatoes and a can of whole tomatoes.
I’ll do my best.
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📅 Jan 1, 2025 11:42
We met on a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) site, but I ended up falling for him, and we’ve been dating without any money changing hands. We used to talk on the phone every night, but whenever we went on dates, he always seemed tired and like he wasn’t having much fun. Then he was transferred to another location and moved away. I understand that it would be difficult for him to stay in touch because he has a family, but I didn’...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
I believe this place serves not only as a place to ask questions but also as a form of emotional support, so I hope the person asking the question feels at least a little calmer by letting out their inner turmoil.
It’s perfectly possible to develop feelings for someone through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I can certainly relate to that—it’s only human.
That said, stopping the exchange of money was a mistake. Even though you met through a papa-katsu app, ending …
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📅 Dec 29, 2024 18:14
On the second day after completing my profile on Universe Club, I received an offer from a BLACK member. As of the third day, I’ve received likes from six BLACK members and eight Standard members. I’m sure I’m probably Standard, but are these numbers of offers and likes considered low?
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I’m not very familiar with the system, but I believe there’s a set order in which girls’ profiles become visible.
You should be able to browse them on different days in this order: Black ▶ Platinum ▶ Gold ▶ Standard!
Why not make your profile even more eye-catching?
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📅 Dec 28, 2024 20:55
What’s the difference between a Minato-ku girl and a papa-katsu girl? Can I meet Minato-ku girls at this club too?
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
Some people use “Minato Ward girl” to mean a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) girl who commutes from Saitama to Minato Ward to go out and have fun, while others use it for a well-off young woman who actually lives in Minato Ward…
An eternal mystery.