The more women I meet through Universe, the more discerning I feel I’ve become. I’m currently seeing someone about once a week and giving her around ¥500,000 a month. She’s cute, reasonably well-educated, and easy to talk to—in many ways, she’s more than I deserve. Still, I’ve been applying to meet new women because I’d like to have about two more ongoing arrangements.

The answer is already in your heart, lol. There are all kinds of women, so I guess it comes down to luck. If you have the financial means, you can keep making offers until you find someone at the same level as your current partners. And if you don’t expect too much, maybe a transactional relationship can work too. Fuu is always looking for good women as well, but nobody’s perfect. As long as the adult relationship works, I prefer to divide the roles and enjoy the differences. How about trying a rotation system? For example, my monthly arrangements: ① 29 years old. Her face is average to slightly cute, but she has a great figure and is extremely sexy. She’s a natural, and since she climaxes quickly, the adult relationship is a lot of fun. She’s getting better every day lately. Women around thirty are great. ② 20 years old. Very trendy, with a Korean-style look. Her face and body are both gorgeous—a cool beauty. She doesn’t make much noise, but she’s incredibly tight and feels so good I can’t stop. She gets wet quickly, so I don’t think she dislikes it. We barely talk. She says she wants to meet for short periods, so I assume she’s hooked on Fuu’s package and money. I’m worried she’s getting too thin with Mounjaro. ③ 37 years old. I made her an offer recently, and she’s been registered with the club longer than I have. She started this before getting married and is still doing it despite having two children. She looks unbelievably young—like she’s in her twenties—and puts a lot of effort into her beauty routine. She’s amazing in many ways: very affectionate, gives off a girlfriend vibe, and you can even have a serious “falling-in-love” papa-katsu relationship with her. She works at a generous papa’s company while also having him invest in her own business. (Fuu has offered to help too, lol.) It’s the kind of setup often seen with mistresses. Somehow, maybe she had that area “modified” with her generous papa’s investment, lol. She seems to have recently had the popular hyaluronic-acid procedure, and the sensation is incredible. I’m guessing Fuu’s role is the fun, low-pressure papa. And so on. ④ A woman over thirty who seems like she used to be part of the old Minato crowd and probably had quite a glamorous past. She comes whenever I call. ⑤ A 23-year-old with a good overall balance: pretty face, great figure, and proactive about intimacy. But for some reason, I feel more refreshed after seeing women ①–③, lol. Maybe Fuu gets more satisfaction from women with a bit of a quirk. ⑥ A woman who might be running a “let’s meet” scam—our schedules never seem to line up. ⑦ Extremely beautiful, but probably formerly in the adult entertainment industry? She insists that she works in massage, but she makes me gargle iodine solution at the start and checks that area, so maybe she used to work in the sex industry, lol. I don’t see ⑥ very often, but I keep her on standby just in case something comes up, lol. (Yeah, this is getting out of hand.) I also occasionally meet up with women I used to date in Fukuoka and Sapporo whenever I travel there for work. Before COVID, I used to travel to those cities about once a month. Sadly, the woman in Osaka has finally stopped responding. Anyway, dating multiple women is fun. I highly recommend it. This is the kind of place where that dream can actually come true. If one slot in the rotation opens up, I just make a new offer right away. That becomes another new encounter, which is fun too. It keeps things exciting, lol.

Once you’re in a position to choose, it’s only natural for your terms to gradually become stricter. On the other hand, if people you choose keep turning you down, your terms will probably become more relaxed over time until it feels like anyone will do. I think that’s how most things work. If you’re unsure, I’d suggest continuing for a little longer. If you’re not troubled by it, then I think it’s fine to keep meeting various people as you are now.

I have an absolute ace I first offered to two weeks after joining Universe Club, and our arrangement has continued for over five years. She’s still my ace today. I also have one regular who ranks at least as highly as my ace, plus around ten more below her. No one can compete with the women at the top of the pecking order. I often feel that making offers is pointless, but I keep doing it, believing in miracles. I’ve had around 200 total dates arranged through Universe Club. The women lower down the pecking order are important too. Having them around keeps me from becoming emotionally dependent on the women at the top. To the person who asked: keep seeing her for as long as you can afford it.

Go deeper!! Try building the relationship so she’ll want to see you more—ideally every day!! That’s when you’ll start to see what papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is really about! Once a week? That doesn’t even count as datingーーーー! Since she’s receiving an allowance, you need to make her naturally want to see you more—to want to meet whenever she can, and even make time to see you!! As long as you keep doing things halfway, you’ll never attract more women you’re genuinely interested in!!

It was 10 years ago, so I’ve forgotten. ♪ We all grew through our struggles ♪

For me, someone becomes a regular if she’s someone I want to see at least once a month and the relationship lasts for six months or more. I’d say it happens roughly once in every 30 arrangements. It’s like repeatedly spinning the gacha until you get a good one. I don’t feel that my standards for women have risen all that much. Having three regulars is good for my mental health. After about a year, either person may gradually fade out, so I keep checking profiles and arranging meetings on a steady basis. It’s a cycle of finding one great match each year and having one relationship fade out each year. But I actually enjoy browsing profiles and the time between arranging a meeting and finally meeting in person, so it’s hard to quit the club.

Fuu sounds like she’s having fun 👍 I know what you mean. In the end, you realize that a long-term monthly arrangement is better, so making more and more offers becomes pointless. But since you seem to be well-off, keep making offers until you find one you’re happy with.

I think only one in ten arrangements lasts more than a year.

I think it’s perfectly natural to meet someone wonderful and end up using them as your benchmark. I personally love first meetings, so I have far more connections that didn’t continue than ones that did. Rather than expecting someone to be perfect, try looking for the qualities that are unique to them. You may be surprised to find that some people become truly one of a kind to you. This may sound like I’m just saying idealistic things and not being very helpful, but personally, I find it much easier and more enjoyable when I spread things out and don’t put all my focus on one person.

I haven’t even been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for a full year yet, so it’s hard to say. Basically, it comes down to compatibility and preferences, balanced with your own circumstances—including financial means. The girls who fit those criteria naturally stick around.

This is Fullerene! The idea that “the third meeting is the hurdle” seems to be true for you, questioner! We might be on the same wavelength, so I’ll share my own data. I hope it helps! (I counted based on my history on Universe, but because the system was changed, some of my older records weren’t carried over properly, so there may be a slight discrepancy.) I define “people I continued seeing regularly” as “people with whom the relationship lasted at least a year.” Over roughly seven years, I’ve met around 50 people, and 8 of those relationships continued for a year or more. So the one-year continuation rate is about 1 in 6. I don’t usually make many new offers unless I have room in my schedule, but for some reason, I feel that the people who make it to a year tend to continue regardless of when we meet. It sounds like you currently have room in your schedule, so why not go through as many offers as possible and embark on a journey to measure your own one-year continuation rate? lol