I heard that most of the men doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) here are in their 30s, but I looked into it and found that there are also men in their 40s and 50s.

Most male members are in their 40s and 50s, followed by those in their 30s. For details, check the club’s website: https://universe-club.jp/newsroom/123220/ You should state in your profile that you’re not interested in men in their 40s; otherwise, you may receive offers from them. If you think about it, older men may be more likely to have money. And if a man in his 30s is successful, wealthy, and handsome, he could probably have sex without paying an allowance, so there are likely fewer of them. Also, many male members here don’t want to show their faces. To get what you’re looking for, a dating club probably isn’t the right place. The allowance may be lower, but try your luck independently on matching apps, dating sites, X, and so on. Based on the way you’ve written this, I don’t think you’ll do well here, so please don’t join.

Sweetie, you don’t seem all that bright, so let this old man (or should I say old geezer?) explain it to you. That said, what I’m about to write may be a lie, so take it with a grain of salt. You see, Uchu Club is basically funded by the membership fees, annual fees, and offer fees paid by its male members. Of course, there are some men in their 30s who can afford it, but I’d guess the majority are in their 40s or older. I haven’t actually looked into the numbers, but I imagine many of them are older than your father. No, I’m not complaining. As someone who’s already reached retirement age, I hesitate to say this, but it’s probably perfectly normal not to be able to imagine getting intimate with someone unless she’s in her 30s. Still, the solution is simple: just have them write in your profile that you’re only accepting offers from men in their 30s. And they all lived happily ever after.

With a letter date, it’s also possible to have them send you a photo before meeting. There was one girl who asked me to send her a photo beforehand, so I did. That said, I don’t really see much need for a man in his 30s to meet women by giving them an allowance, so I think it’s perfectly reasonable to look at it that way… As the name suggests, papa-katsu is probably meant to be with someone older than a papa.

> I heard there are a lot of men in their 30s doing papa-katsu here. The person who told you that was clearly lying. For one thing, the age breakdown is published on the official website. Anyone who tells a lie like that is probably trying to deceive you. They seem like the type who makes promises but takes no responsibility, so I’d assume that what they say about other things may be lies too. That said, even if you point out the lie, someone like that may twist the conversation around by saying, “That’s not what I meant—it’s just that there are more than you expected, right?” So be careful, because a smooth talker may simply reframe things so it sounds like they never lied. By the way, the age breakdown of male members is listed here: https://universe-club.jp/men/male-data/ It says the largest group is men in their 40s, at 36%, followed by men in their 50s, at 31%. > If there were profiles, it would be ideal if you could set an age limit without displaying the restriction itself. You can only set an age limit through your profile. However, if women start saying things like that, men may respond by asking not to have their own ages displayed, which means you could receive offers from men whose ages are unknown. In the first place, think carefully about whether setting an age limit is really meaningful. Would you be okay with someone in his 30s who looks like he’s in his 50s? Conversely, would you really want to miss out on meeting someone in his 50s who looks like he’s in his 30s? Unlike dating apps, Universe Club is a system where men choose women, so men generally don’t register profile photos. (Some do make their photos public because they think it will help women feel more comfortable, but they’re in the minority.) Unlike working with a sex worker, you can decide after meeting the person. So you could set your relationship type to B2, have dinner only on the first day, and decide what to do after that once you’ve met. Also, even if someone looks over 50, many men turn out to be great once you talk to them. Some are considerate toward women precisely because they have more life experience. That’s why I think it’s best to meet, talk, and then decide.

Age restrictions can’t be set in the app. You can ask them to include their age in their profile. You can only check what the other person looks like before meeting if they’ve uploaded a profile photo.