I made an offer to a B1-type woman and we’ve been on about five dates. When I asked about moving forward to an adult relationship (intimate), she said she’d just started hair removal and wanted me to wait 6–12 months. What do you all think?
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For someone who belongs to a dating club, is this a valid reason to turn someone down, or not?
Also, would you continue seeing her or move on?
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LOL.
If he hasn’t brought up an adult relationship by the fifth meeting, you’re clearly being treated like an easy target.
If you meet once a month and this is your fifth time, I’m guessing he plans to say he’s getting hair removal and keep collecting his allowance for another 5–10 meetings without any physical relationship. You’re being targeted for dinner-only dates for over a year.
If you enjoy that kind of back-and-forth, then by all means keep it going.
I’m impressed you’ve put up with it for five meetings. Fuu, who prefers short-term showdowns with C, could never be that patient...
Everyone has their own preferred arrangement, so I won’t criticize you. If you’re enjoying it, then I hope it works out for you.
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I feel like I’ve said this several times before, but a dating club isn’t a sex-service business.
If you think you’ve been turned down, you’re probably better off looking for another woman. If you believe she genuinely means what she said about waiting 6–12 months, then you can simply wait.
What other people do is irrelevant. If you feel it won’t work, just give up and look for someone else.
In the end, it comes down to compatibility. Even if a woman wants a papa (a male supporter) for dinner only (no intimacy), there are men who can still win her over.
If that approach sounds like too much trouble, you should make an offer to women with Dating Type C from the start. That’s what the dating type is for, so there’s no point complaining that you couldn’t win her over.
You should focus on finding a woman who’s a good fit for you.
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If I can wait six to twelve months, I’ll wait. If I can’t, I simply won’t.
When I make an offer to someone in the B1 category, the goalposts may shift, so I don’t make offers in the first place—and I’m not going to wait around for an uncertain timeline.
I suppose someone might wait if they have their own way of interpreting the goalposts or are completely smitten.
Not just in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—if you’re the kind of person who can wait until a woman is ready to allow it, then you can probably wait.
I can’t.
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Even after your first hair-removal session, you’re smooth right afterward, so that’s not a reason to wait. If the relationship is going to progress, she’ll actually want you to see the results.
With B1, even without discussing an adult relationship (intimate), girls who are open to moving things forward will usually be ready to take that step after meeting about five times.
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It simply means she’s letting you know that she doesn’t want to move on to an adult relationship (intimate). There’s nothing strange about that.
If you enjoy continuing to see each other for dates without intimacy, you can keep it going. If not, it’s best to look for someone else.
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What exactly are you asking when you say, “What do you think?”
I don’t think the reason really matters. Is there something wrong with telling someone from a dating club to wait?
Once I realize that I don’t click with a woman or our schedules don’t work, I stop seeing her.
I honestly have no idea what you’re trying to ask.
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