A papa I’ve been seeing for about three months has suggested taking a domestic trip together next time. If he arranges both plane tickets, will I have to tell him my real name? (So far, I’ve only given him my club name.)
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If there’s any way to avoid revealing my real name, I’d prefer to keep using my club name. I’d really appreciate any suggestions…(;_;)
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For domestic travel, you don’t need a passport or ID, so you can travel under a fake name.
Why not ask your papa to book everything under your club name?
In my case, I’m treated as his wife, so I use my own surname and my club name as my first name.
It would be hell if there were a plane crash, but if I were dead, I guess it wouldn’t matter anyway lol.
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If you book directly with ANA, having your real-name mileage number makes things easier.
Of course, you can work around it if you say you don’t need the miles.
Personally, I wouldn’t want to travel with someone whose real name I don’t even know.
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Would it be a bad idea to talk to him about it, saying something like, “I’d love to travel, but I don’t want to reveal my real name”?
Some men may press you for the reason and ask, “Why?” so it may depend on the man. But if he genuinely values the relationship more than your name, he might say, “Okay, I’ll see what I can do,” and come up with a travel plan that puts your wishes first.
As others have mentioned, when traveling domestically, you generally aren’t asked to show your passport, and hotels and inns typically don’t verify whether the name you provide is your real one.
You also usually don’t have to show ID on domestic flights, so you may be able to fly under your club name.
That said, just because no one checks doesn’t mean it’s legal to enter a different name where your real name is required. It could potentially violate some law.
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If you haven’t had a chance to discuss it for three months, you can probably just continue using your club name, since you generally don’t need to show ID like a driver’s license for domestic travel.
You may also use the man’s surname for flights and hotels. From the man’s perspective, there’s really no reason to know your real name, so I don’t think it would cause any problems to keep things as they are.
If you know his real name, you could use this as an opportunity to bring it up. Otherwise, you could wait for a future occasion when you feel comfortable discussing it—such as moving, getting an annual pass, exchanging gifts, or getting a new driver’s license.
If you only meet once or twice a month, I think it’s perfectly fine not to share your real name.
From the man’s perspective, it may actually be better not to ask for your real name. It reduces the burden of remembering it and eliminates various concerns. Since he’ll hardly ever have a chance to say your real name, it can also be difficult to remember the correct pronunciation, especially if it’s an unusual one.
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Domestic flights don’t usually require ID verification, so you might be able to travel under your club name.
However, you could be asked to show identification for some reason, and since that would mean deceiving the airline, it could potentially cause problems.
If a woman insisted that her club name was her real name, I personally would consider her untrustworthy.
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