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Jan 20, 2025 22:24
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I’m considering registering again, but I’ve gained a little weight since then, and I’ve never really been considered particularly cute, so I’m worried I might not receive any offers even if I re-register. Do people still receive offers after registering again?
Also, there was someone I exchanged contact information with last time, but he later left the site, so I stopped contacting him. Would it be considered a nuisance if I let him know that I’ve registered again…? I’m also open to an adult relationship (intimate).
When I was registered before, I received a few offers—probably because I had no prior experience with an adult relationship—and went out for dinner and had an adult relationship once. I ended up feeling satisfied and left the site.
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’d suggest rejoining with the mindset that you can always give up if you don’t receive any offers.
Since you’ve had an offer before, it doesn’t seem like there’s absolutely no demand for you.
It depends on why things ended with your previous papa, but I think it would be okay to reach out to him.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Since the staff at @@@@@ are rejecting every plus-size woman at the interview stage, it feels like men who prefer plus-size women have gone extinct within Universe.
→ So that’s why I haven’t received an offer in a year. I’m nearly extinct myself.
With fewer competitors, this is your chance. Standing out is what matters.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
It depends on how much weight you’ve gained.
There used to be men who preferred curvier women, but since the staff have been rejecting almost every plus-size woman during interviews, it seems that men who like larger women have practically gone extinct within Universe.
With that in mind, if you’ve gained a significant amount of weight, there’s a chance you may not receive any offers. However, if you have a charming personality or happen to have the kind of face a man likes, you may still get offers, so I think it’s best to re-register and see what happens.
> Would it be annoying if I let him know that I’ve registered again?
Even without registering again, if you weren’t rude when you ended things, many men would probably be happy to hear from you. You could send a message like:
“Would you like to see each other again, like we used to?”
Or simply let him know that you’ve been wanting to see him again.
It’s actually quite common to continue seeing each other even after leaving the club, so I think it’s best to value the connections you make.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
Ninety percent of the things you worry about never happen.
And even if something does happen, you’ll come up with more solutions if you think about it once it actually does.
If it were me, I’d re-register without hesitation, and I’d contact anyone I wanted to reach out to without overthinking the situation.
More opportunities come to people who take action than to those who worry before doing anything.
It’s me.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve made offers to women who re-registered several times, so I believe offers can still happen even after someone re-registers.
Even if you don’t mention that you’ve registered again, I think it’s fine to reach out. It’s actually fairly common to hear from women you haven’t seen in a while.
Since I stopped seeing them because something felt lacking, I wouldn’t want to meet even if they messaged me. I wouldn’t go so far as to call it a nuisance, but I would find it bothersome.