I’m seeing my monthly papa in an NN arrangement (without protection).

Actually, after reading a few of the earlier questions about finishing inside without a condom, I realized I hadn’t done it lately. So today at lunch, I asked the girl who’d been staying over since last night: “When’s your next period supposed to be?” “Maybe in about two weeks.” “Then I guess finishing inside is out. I’ve been feeling horny and want to do it bareback for the first time in a while. Starting today, you’re back on bareback duty for a while.” “Ehh, come on…” “You were on bareback duty before too, weren’t you? Why did we stop again? Was it because one of the girls got chlamydia and we decided there was too much risk, so we’d use condoms?” “If you finish inside me, I’ll get lonely again whenever I’m by myself and want to see you more and more. What are you going to do about that?” “Shut up. Stop whining and just spread your legs. There—my bare dick. You should be grateful to have been appointed to bareback duty. Out of about ten girls, you’re the only one, so you’re basically number one. Feel honored. Try saying, ‘Welcome home, Your Bare Dickness.’” “Welcome home, Your Bare Dickness. Ahh, if you put that in me, I’m going to feel lonely again tonight…” “Yeah, with no condom, I can really feel how wet your vagina is. It feels so good and slippery.” “Ahh, ahh… What are we going to do if I get pregnant?” “Just shut up and be my human fleshlight. I’ll finish outside, but it only takes one sperm to cause fertilization. Two or three may already have gotten into your uterus in the pre-cum.” “Ahh, ahh…” This isn’t fiction—it’s an actual exchange. I tried to write it down as faithfully as I could remember. She doesn’t have another papa or a boyfriend, and I periodically get the urge to have sex without a condom, so I use her as my outlet when that happens. Rationally, I know I should use a condom, but sometimes when I get horny, my instincts win. As I’ve written several times before, I regularly pay to have her—and the other girls—tested for STIs. She isn’t on the pill, but if she did get pregnant, I’d absolutely take responsibility. You have to draw the line there, or you’re not human. So here’s the thing: wanting to have sex without a condom is a man’s instinct, so I’m not saying you must never do it. But if you’re going to, be prepared to face the consequences. A condom is a sheath, and your dick is a bare blade. Once you draw a live sword, you’re engaging in a matter of life and death—so you can’t complain if you end up getting killed. That’s what I mean.

I don’t date women who won’t use protection. There’s no way for anyone to know for sure whether they’re seeing multiple people. Even if they test negative at that moment, there’s still a possibility—however small—that they could become infected by someone else after the test and before seeing me. That said, in your case, if both of you are okay with it, I don’t see a problem.

Whether it’s the minority view or not doesn’t really matter. If you’re okay with it, there’s no need to worry about being in the minority—and just because most people feel that way doesn’t mean you have to follow the crowd. In the end, it comes down to whether you personally feel it’s right after considering everything. If you don’t like it, you can simply say no. Besides, you’re already in that kind of relationship, so what are you hoping to gain by asking for other people’s opinions now?

A long time ago, I dated a Mexican woman. She was a devout Roman Catholic, so for religious reasons, she always insisted on NN. It felt good (lol), and I loved her dearly, but I got into bed with her as if I were risking my life. Because of that? I became incredibly knowledgeable about women’s bodies—especially menstrual cycles. Since my knowledge gets the better of me, I hesitate even when I’m told, “Give it to me raw!” My solution? Handjobs. My current favorite is Emmy—she’s a handjob master. She teases me mercilessly (for over an hour), but the pleasure always makes me feel like I’m about to pass out. Highly recommended for old guys!

Honestly, I think it’s impossible to keep a generous papa (a male supporter) around long-term at more than double the going rate without going condomless. All my male friends say the same. Of course, regular STI testing, keeping the number of partners to a minimum, mutual consent, a high allowance, and a long-term arrangement are a given. In the beginning, when I could only manage five-figure amounts, condoms were non-negotiable.

- A long-term relationship where we’re exclusive with each other - Someone who sends me their test results every month without either of us having to ask I’ve had arrangements like this several times in the past, including intimate encounters without condoms. If both people agree to it, isn’t that okay? (*^^*) I feel like we naturally started sending each other our test results around the time people began saying syphilis was spreading.

Around 30% of the women who move on to an adult relationship are okay with not using protection. Of those, roughly half are okay with finishing inside. Of course, consent is always a prerequisite. For women who agree to that, I add extra and have them take the pill. Even for those who prefer withdrawal, I’ll cover the cost of an emergency contraceptive if they request it. There haven’t been any accidents so far.

With the women I’ve met here, condoms are always used.

I’m not using protection with the person I’m currently in an adult relationship (intimate) with. Of course, we’ve both agreed to this, and I’m not taking the pill either. I’ve been tested for STIs and shared the results with him.

If it’s under half, then it’s a minority, so it might be a minority. Since it doesn’t affect me personally, I don’t really care whether it’s the minority or majority. I don’t use one with the person I’m currently seeing.