Tips Jan 18, 2025 11:21

A question for the men:

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When you make an offer to a woman, do you check whether she’s single or married? If she’s married, would you decide not to make an offer?
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関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Whether someone is married is listed on their profile. Dating a married person can potentially expose the man to a claim for damages for adultery, even if there is no sexual relationship. Some people may have a sexual preference for dating married individuals. Otherwise, this information alone would generally be a negative factor when deciding whether to make an offer. Even so, some women may still want to meet him. As for whether to hide the fact that he is married, I think he should carefully consider whether being honest is the wiser choice, given what could happen if the truth comes out. He might be able to argue against a claim for damages from the woman’s husband by saying that her profile on the club listed her as single, but that doesn’t really seem like a strong position. As an aside, “separated but living under the same roof” is practically meaningless, so men should be careful about that as well.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m even less likely to make an offer to women who work in nightlife, such as lounges, than to married women—unless they’re truly exceptional. Even then, it would only be a slightly higher possibility than that.
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Married men are a no-go—I confirm that when I receive an offer. If he were Satomi Ishihara or Keiko Kitagawa, I might consider it, but I avoid anything that could spark trouble. There are plenty of great girls to choose from among single men.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If she’s gorgeous, elegant, well-groomed, has a great figure, and is totally my type, I might consider seeing her even if she’s married. That said, I’m not going to pretend there aren’t drawbacks. As a rule, I choose unmarried women.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Here you go: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17302
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