My papa has a large number of business cards with his own name on them. What kind of situation could this indicate?
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I hit it off with a papa who contacted me through Universe, and we’ve been seeing each other for several months.
The other day, his wallet and business card holder were left out while he was taking a bath. Out of curiosity, I looked inside and found his business cards.
The first one was from the company he told me he works for (Company 1), but after that, I found cards from one different company after another—10 companies in total. None of them listed a job title.
When I searched for the company names, most of them didn’t have websites. Company 1, which he says he works for, doesn’t have a website either. Three of the others came up in my search, but they had old, cheap-looking websites related to a certain form of public betting. The names of the representatives were different people.
I’m not sure whether these companies are actually operating, and it made me anxious, wondering how he earns his money and what kind of person he really is.
I assume he has multiple jobs, but what kinds of employment arrangements could explain this? The companies related to public betting especially make me uneasy, in a bad way.
I know there’s probably no point in worrying about it, but do you and the people you’re seeing know where each other works?
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Many men own multiple companies. However, some also carry fake business cards to deceive people. So there’s no definitive answer here.
If you have a good relationship with him, I’d suggest overlooking it and continuing to enjoy your time together as before.
Don’t worry about it too much...
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As for having multiple business cards, he may be an advisor or consultant for several companies, or he may be doing it for tax purposes. I used to carry business cards from five or six companies myself when I had a lot going on.
That said, a business card without a job title does seem odd.
Regarding a partner’s workplace—and personal information in general—we’ve continued seeing each other for years without sharing that information, in order to avoid unnecessary risks.
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You shouldn’t look through it without permission.
If it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and you’re receiving your allowance, it doesn’t seem like there’s a problem, though.
That said, it’s a different story if his words, behavior, or attitude are strange...
For example, there are sites that introduce corporate advisors, and some people serve as advisors for multiple companies and carry business cards. Others are self-employed, handling sales on a contract basis and earning performance-based compensation from several companies.
Fuu doesn’t know where her monthly arrangement partner works or lives. She treats it as papa-katsu and avoids the risk of disclosing personal information.
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I’m not sure what’s going on… I can’t tell whether it was good or bad to find out… (´ω｀) *sigh*
What do you mean by “publicly operated gambling”?
If you’re talking about horse racing, they might be a racehorse owner. Maybe it’s because of where I live, but there are a lot of racehorse owners around here.
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In my household, any items or documents found in my study are inadmissible as evidence.
Generally speaking, evidence obtained unlawfully is not admissible.
Incidentally, I have seven different business cards, but I pay my taxes properly and never miss an election or a visit to the family grave.
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I got the feeling that even if a woman who snoops through someone’s wallet without permission learned why a man carries multiple business cards, she’d only use that information for the worse.
Evil is drawn to greater evil. Unless you recognize it and break the cycle, you’ll never have a decent life—but I suppose it may take her several more decades to realize that.
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Did your partner see you?
We both know about each other. If she has a respectable daytime job, I’ve been invited to her workplace, picked her up there, and even been introduced to her coworkers when I ran into them…
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My monthly arrangement knows where I live, too.
He’s extremely well-known, so he may be using a fake name or identity. If you know his real name and he’s not actually that important, though, that would leave a bad impression.
If he’s paying you properly, there’s no need to worry about it. But if the payments keep coming indefinitely, he’s probably a papa you shouldn’t trust too much.
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