Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 23:10
I always find the posts here helpful. A man with Universe membership on PATOLO messaged me saying he wanted to talk, so we exchanged messages a few times. We never discussed an allowance or anything like that—just ordinary conversation—but then he said he was busy and couldn’t make me an offer right away. Months have passed, and things are still the same. Does he only want to exchange messages? What are men like this trying to get out o...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
When sending an offer, they may message several people at the same time and see how each person responds.
Since Patro doesn’t have classes, I don’t think this is limited to black-class members specifically.
If the number of messages is overwhelming or you find it annoying, you can just ignore them.
Though, you might miss out on offers from people who don’t ignore you...
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 21:40
It’s so emotionally draining that an adult relationship is basically a prerequisite. I’m a female member. The staff told me that Type A gets very few offers, so I switched to Type B, but honestly, the fact that an adult relationship is still expected makes me feel like crying. Spending time at hotels is genuinely painful. I put up with it every time, but I’ve reached my limit and feel sick. Are there really no papas (male supporters) wh...
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
Wouldn’t it be better to change your relationship type to A, even knowing that offers may become harder to come by, or consider another approach?
Among the people I’m currently seeing, some mainly want to go out for meals.
You’ll need to make an effort to become someone they want to meet—even for dinner only (no intimacy)—with an allowance.
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 20:08
I’m dating someone who’s a B2 type, and I’d like some advice on negotiating the allowance for our next date. At the end of our meeting, should we simply agree to see each other again, exchange contact information, and decide on the allowance later via LINE or something similar? Or should I negotiate the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate) next time first, then exchange contact information once we’ve reached an agreement? If t...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I only offer C, so…
When you explain the terms over LINE, you really have to be careful with your wording. Otherwise, it can come across as cold, and the nuances may not get across properly.
So I talk about it in person. I bring up the terms at the end of the meal. If we agree, we move on to the next step. If we can’t agree, we go our separate ways.
In Fuu’s case, it’s become pretty rare lately for us not to reach an agreement. Sorry to brag, but my five-plus years of expe…
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 16:32
I’m thinking about signing up, and I looked through the women registered in Hiroshima. Are there no women registered in Okayama?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Universe Club operates nationwide, but in practice, it’s limited to the major cities.
Women generally have to come to a branch for their interview, so there aren’t many women registered from prefectures without a branch.
That said, if you saw Hiroshima, I assume she had her interview at the branch there. In that case, you probably could have asked the staff directly and gotten an answer on the spot instead of posting here...
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 11:11
About Genital Herpes The other day, I met a C-type woman and we went to a hotel. For our first meeting, I used a condom and avoided kissing or other mucous-membrane contact. “I decided this after referring to Mack-san’s previous answers.” We decided to continue seeing each other, but afterward, she told me over LINE that she had genital herpes. I felt bad for her, but I ended the relationship because genital herpes can’t be completely c...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
You were the one who was worried about delayed ejaculation, right?
If it were me—or rather, this actually happened with one of the college girls I’m currently seeing—I’d feel positively about her for being honest. At our first meeting, when we discussed getting tested for STIs, she told me, “I have genital herpes.”
She said she’d contracted it six months earlier and still occasionally had outbreaks, so she takes one valacyclovir tablet every day. Apparently, it’s covered by…
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 10:40
What is the sex life of women in the D type generally like? Are many of them involved in promiscuous relationships on a regular basis?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Offer to a D-type and ask her.
I’d love to hear how it goes, so please share the results here.
I guess there are quite a few women who enjoy sex. In the past, I offered to three? D-types.
After making the offer, I found out that one had appeared in amateur AV videos. Another had previously worked at a delivery health service and now apparently goes out drinking locally to get picked up and has a lot of casual encounters.
The third seemed fairly ordinary, so I offered her …
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 09:58
I’m not sure what to do when a man can’t finish. It doesn’t happen often, but occasionally a man will say he can’t make it all the way tonight. When he wants things to go on for more than two hours, or wants to take a break and then start again, I honestly don’t know how far I should accommodate him. If he can’t finish, it’s also exhausting to have him keep touching my breasts the whole time… He’ll say things like, “I can’t finish becau...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
That really would be difficult.
Usually, I think the man would eventually give up, but I’m sure there are some who won’t.
Just to clarify, the condoms provided at love hotels are often inexpensive, so they tend to be relatively thick. Some men may have trouble finishing with thicker condoms.
For future reference, it might be a good idea to discreetly keep some 0.03 mm condoms (because they’re made of latex, men are less likely to notice a difference, and they’re the thinne…
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📅 Feb 11, 2025 01:59
Thank you for your response, Maezawa. I’m the person who asked the previous question. I wasn’t talking about Patro—I really mean Universe Club... I received a message through their official LINE account that looked like a bot notification saying, “A gentleman has sent you a question.” I was also able to view the gentleman’s name and profile. It felt like a method that was pushing the boundaries of what’s considered acceptable...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
My apologies.
Was that a feature limited to male Black members?
I never imagined that Black male members at Universe would do something so simplistic...
I understand how men feel, and staff have often been asked about allowances by men in the past as well.
Because there have been so many requests, we started asking women about their monthly target amount. But just because we ask their desired monthly amount:
They probably answer without really knowing, since they haven’…
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📅 Feb 10, 2025 23:40
Lately, I’ve been getting more messages from male members asking about my allowance instead of receiving actual offers. I asked the staff whether this was allowed, and they told me it was okay since these exchanges take place without staff involvement. I don’t do letter dates or patro, so I assume that’s where they’re asking me. But I can’t help feeling put off because it seems like the men asking are trying to save on the offer fee. As...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
At Universe Club, the staff mediate everything, so men won’t ask you about your allowance.
You could simply register with Universe Club and not sign up anywhere else, but if they ask, “Would you like to register with PATOLO at the same time?” and you agree without thinking, you’ll end up registered with PATOLO as well.
I assume this time you’re talking about PATOLO. In that case, if you enable “accept orders only,” men will no longer be able to send you chat messages. In ot…
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📅 Feb 10, 2025 14:04
Is this website affiliated with your club? https://universevip.club
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Of course, it’s not the official URL.
Everyone who sees this: don’t open the URL. There’s a risk your device could be infected with a malicious virus, so be careful!
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📅 Feb 9, 2025 20:57
I’ve been troubled because a man I went on one date with kept pressuring me to quit the club. Recently, I realized he hadn’t mentioned it anymore, and then found out that people you’ve gone on dates with are automatically hidden after a certain amount of time. Was this feature introduced because many women were being pressured by men to leave the club, like I was? And is it something that was added recently?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Is it because there have been so many cases of men pressuring women to leave that they’ve started hiding their profiles?
The reason it was made into a rule is explained in the information URL Kazu-san provided, and there’s nothing beyond what’s written there.
That said, staff had already been hiding women’s profiles individually after dates for some time. However, men often complained, and some staff would give in to those complaints and leave the profiles visible. There …
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📅 Feb 9, 2025 12:55
I have a few questions. I was contacted by a place called Universe Club and was told that, as part of an anniversary promotion, the membership fee is currently ¥10,000. Do promotions like that actually happen? When I asked who the representatives were, I was told that the executive managing director is Kaneko D〇, and the accounting department’s specialized manager is Tanimori〇. Is that true? I was also told to make three “nage-sen” paym...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
As announced on our official pages, we’ve recently received several reports of scams involving people impersonating Universe Club, so we’re also issuing a warning here.
https://universe-club.jp/information/132590/
https://universe-club.jp/information/fraud-case/
https://news.yahoo.co.jp/articles/3ad96385ba6a0496ac3661b50e18ad45fcbad7f8
Universe Club has also consulted with the police. If you’ve been a victim, please go to the pol…
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📅 Feb 9, 2025 02:53
On the PATLO app, I suddenly became unable to view the profile of someone I had gone on a date with. I can still see our past messages, but tapping their icon doesn’t take me to their profile, and the circle showing that they’re online is gray. Does this mean they blocked me?
💬 Answer from ダイ:
I just checked my own profile page and confirmed that it’s possible to send messages from the messaging screen.
Profiles becoming unavailable to view is standard behavior, just like with Universe Club.
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📅 Feb 9, 2025 00:13
I’m having trouble with delayed ejaculation, and I usually end up asking my partner to finish me by hand. I’ve heard that Tenga can help with delayed ejaculation. If anyone has actually used one, could you share your experience? There are so many types, so I’d appreciate it if you could recommend which one is best.
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
Tenga is a brand name, and people generally think of it as a masturbator. Broadly speaking, there are penetrating and non-penetrating types, so it might be good to choose between them depending on what you want. You can order them online, but Don Quijote has a dedicated section with a wide selection.
My mentor is practically an “adult-toy professor” and boasts that he’s spent over 10 million yen on masturbators. According to him, “Which one is best depends on the person. Ask…
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📅 Feb 7, 2025 16:54
I met a relatively attractive young papa in his late 20s for an adult relationship (intimate). Since then, I’ve been having yellow discharge with a strong, unpleasant odor. Could this be some kind of infection...?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Well, if you think about it, it’s probably an infection—but did you get it from a young papa, another fuck buddy, or your boyfriend?
You won’t know, so with an STI, you really need to get to a doctor as soon as possible. If it spreads to organs beyond the genitals, it can become a serious problem, so I strongly recommend going to the hospital right away.
Ideally, if you’re going to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you should prepare for things like this beforeha…
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📅 Feb 7, 2025 07:57
Have you ever met someone through a club and thought that, despite various unavoidable circumstances preventing you from getting married, you’d still like to have a child together? I think it’s a feeling that naturally arises when two people truly, deeply love each other. For the child, too, I believe it would be happier to be born to two people who love each other than to a married couple whose relationship has gone cold or who are con...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
Absolutely not.
Thinking of the child, there’s a risk they could be subjected to hurtful comments at school and elsewhere, just like a child born to an unmarried partner.
For a child, having parents who get along matters less than having parents who lavish them with love and never hold back when it comes to providing for them.
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📅 Feb 6, 2025 08:29
What exactly is a LINE date, and how does it work?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I didn’t use the term “LINE dating,” but I assume it refers to the option of having a letter-style date via LINE.
You pay the club a setup fee, and the woman and man can communicate through LINE. That’s all it is—it isn’t really a date or anything like that.
If anything, it’s more like corresponding by LINE.
Naturally, women don’t get paid just for messaging on LINE. So if a man sends only short messages or isn’t good at messaging women, she may quickly stop replying, and …
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📅 Feb 5, 2025 22:55
I met a man for the first time through Universe. After having tea at a hotel lounge café, I told him I was okay with an adult relationship (intimate). He then said, “In that case, let’s grab something to eat and then head to a place. Didn’t you decide where we should eat?” I had assumed the man would make the reservation, but is it normal for things to work that way sometimes? We ended up going to a family restaurant that day, and I rec...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Could that happen?
There are all kinds of people out there, so I suppose it’s possible.
I can imagine someone asking something like, “What would you like to eat?” But I’ve never heard of anyone asking, “Didn’t you decide where we’re going to eat?” So I’d say that’s quite a rare case.
On the other hand, if you end up seeing each other regularly, you could say things like, “I’d like to try this restaurant next time,” which could be kind of fun in its own way.
(Though if h…
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📅 Feb 4, 2025 16:07
I’m a woman considering signing up with Universe Club. A friend of mine was registered as a Type C, but if I register as Type B1, will I receive significantly fewer offers? I just can’t bring myself to pursue an adult relationship (intimate), so I’d prefer to go on several dates first. Would you offer to a Type B1 woman?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
All older men have terrible body odor and breath that smells like a sewer. I don’t think you should join.
Can you calmly listen to their bragging, sexual harassment, and lewd stories?
I prefer B2.
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📅 Feb 3, 2025 20:49
If you’ve never tried papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you’re missing out (_ _*))
💬 Answer from カズ:
After reading Mac’s answer, I wanted to add my thoughts.
I believe that “people who ask about demand are rarely any good.” Whether to make an offer is an individual decision, so what exactly are they hoping to accomplish by asking someone else?
Even if they simply wanted to know someone’s personal opinion, age group, class, number of offers received in the past, and allowance amounts aren’t enough information to judge whether to make an offer.
And if they weren’t asking fo…