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📅 Jan 24, 2025 01:54
My papa (a male supporter) forced me to finish inside me. What should I do from here? I’ve been seeing this papa for about a year. I know both his real name and address. When I met him four days ago, he forced himself on me and ejaculated inside me. I begged him repeatedly to stop, but he overpowered me and did it anyway. I was terrified. He said he “got carried away emotionally,” and when I asked him to pay for the emergency contracept...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
After a papa I had just met finished inside me without my consent, he ditched me at the hotel and ran.
At the time, I was just completely stunned.
I was crushed by the sense of disbelief and betrayal.
However, since we met through this kind of site and went to the hotel consensually, I couldn’t involve the police...
I was already taking the pill regularly, but I still took emergency contraception right away and got tested for STIs—once at the time and again two weeks la…
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📅 Jan 23, 2025 22:57
A papa I’ve been seeing for about three months has suggested taking a domestic trip together next time. If he arranges both plane tickets, will I have to tell him my real name? (So far, I’ve only given him my club name.) If there’s any way to avoid revealing my real name, I’d prefer to keep using my club name. I’d really appreciate any suggestions…(;_;)
💬 Answer from Fuu:
For domestic travel, you don’t need a passport or ID, so you can travel under a fake name.
Why not ask your papa to book everything under your club name?
In my case, I’m treated as his wife, so I use my own surname and my club name as my first name.
It would be hell if there were a plane crash, but if I were dead, I guess it wouldn’t matter anyway lol.
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📅 Jan 21, 2025 19:53
How can I cut ties with a papa I dislike? I’ve finally reached my limit and want to make a clean break with someone. Every time we meet, he makes plans with me as far as four months in advance. When it’s that far ahead, I don’t have a good reason to decline, and since I already have plans booked up to three months from now, it’s hard to just block him. I’m willing to put up with meeting him for the dates we’ve already agreed on, but I h...
💬 Answer from だて◎ゆめ:
You sound tired of this arrangement.
If you want to end things, I think it’s best to simply say, “I’m tired, so I’d like to end our arrangement.” Since there must have been enjoyable times as well, you could add, “Thank you for everything up to now.” That should be enough.
This kind of relationship generally has an ending. As they say, “All’s well that ends well!”
Let’s reset and start fresh for now.
I think your papa (a male supporter) would accept that if you put it tha…
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📅 Jan 20, 2025 22:24
I was registered here before, over a year ago. I’m considering registering again, but I’ve gained a little weight since then, and I’ve never really been considered particularly cute, so I’m worried I might not receive any offers even if I re-register. Do people still receive offers after registering again? Also, there was someone I exchanged contact information with last time, but he later left the site, so I stopped contacting him. Wou...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’d suggest rejoining with the mindset that you can always give up if you don’t receive any offers.
Since you’ve had an offer before, it doesn’t seem like there’s absolutely no demand for you.
It depends on why things ended with your previous papa, but I think it would be okay to reach out to him.
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📅 Jan 20, 2025 18:40
Are there any good-looking guys at dating clubs? I recently met someone who was registered with Universe, but honestly, he was an unkempt older man. (He said he goes to lounges, but I guess if you have money, your clothes and appearance don’t really matter?) Has anyone here ever met a handsome guy??
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Even if you’re handsome, you may think you can have sex without an allowance, but it’s probably best not to expect there to be many.
Being well-groomed often makes things more enjoyable for the papa (a male supporter), so you may find papas who are better than the ones you’ve met.
It really comes down to luck.
One good thing about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is that even after accepting an offer, you can still turn it down if you’re uncomfortable. So if you do…
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📅 Jan 19, 2025 19:20
I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). For an adult relationship (intimate) after the first meeting, do people usually go to a hotel after lunch or dinner? Is it also normal to go straight to a hotel? I assume it depends on the time of day you meet, but what do you all usually do? I’d appreciate your advice.
💬 Answer from いっつ・みぃ:
We did sometimes go straight to a hotel, but we rarely had sex immediately after entering the room.
We’d eat in the room, enjoy a movie or some games, or leave our bags there and go out to grab something.
If the date is enjoyable, I think it’s fine even if the order is reversed.
It’s me.
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📅 Jan 19, 2025 15:47
I have a papa (a male supporter) I’ve been seeing on a monthly arrangement for over four years. No matter how close we become, I still consider it a transactional relationship through a dating club, so I never share personal information such as my real name, address (I’ve only told him a general area, such as the ward I live in), or company name (I’ve only mentioned the general industry), regardless of how many years we’ve known each ot...
💬 Answer from いっつ・みぃ:
I think it really depends on how the other person feels.
“Keeping a comfortable distance” means something different to everyone.
If sharing some personal information helps us get closer, I’ll do that. But if revealing personal details becomes uncomfortable, I won’t.
That’s just me.
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📅 Jan 19, 2025 04:35
I’m in my 30s and plus-size—well, more like overweight. Even so, the men I’ve met so far have told me things like, “You’re incredibly cute,” “Are you really in your 30s?” and “Your body is so sexy,” and they’ve been very satisfied with our time together. I often have people come back for repeat dates, and some have even genuinely fallen for me… I’ve thought about moving into the nightlife industry, but I don’t like that I wouldn’t be ab...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
For your next offer, why not mention the average allowance listed on this club’s website?
If you’re getting quite a few offers, then rather than being “in demand because you’re overweight,” maybe you’re actually a cute, curvy girl?
Men often like women with feminine curves more than women realize.
Sorry, but that kind of Fuu isn’t my type. I prefer slender women, and my 기준 for making an offer is roughly:
height − 110 ≈ weight, ±5 kg
I also don’t choose women who are too …
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📅 Jan 18, 2025 11:21
A question for the men: When you make an offer to a woman, do you check whether she’s single or married? If she’s married, would you decide not to make an offer?
💬 Answer from 日月新:
Whether someone is married is listed on their profile.
Dating a married person can potentially expose the man to a claim for damages for adultery, even if there is no sexual relationship. Some people may have a sexual preference for dating married individuals. Otherwise, this information alone would generally be a negative factor when deciding whether to make an offer.
Even so, some women may still want to meet him.
As for whether to hide the fact that he is married, I thi…
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📅 Jan 17, 2025 15:24
I’m thinking of signing up again. Is there any chance the papa I met here before will find out that I’ve re-registered?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Tell the club the club name of the papa (a male supporter) who made you an offer before, and ask them to hide his profile.
These days, profiles of papas (male supporters) who have made an offer are automatically hidden after the offer, but you may need to ask if you want to register again.
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📅 Jan 17, 2025 13:32
Whether it’s a friends-with-benefits partner, a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) partner, or a girlfriend, once I’ve been seeing someone for a while, I start developing feelings for them and lose my sexual desire. Is this common? Sometimes I think I should cut ties and find someone new, but I do like the person—it’s just that I no longer feel sexually attracted to them. What should I do?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
According to several studies, the genes wired into us as animals supposedly cause sex-related hormones like dopamine to decline after about three or four years in a relationship.
Apparently, men experience more pleasure when they sleep with other women, as it helps them leave behind more offspring. So the “three-year limit on romance” theory may not be entirely wrong.
When it’s the same partner in the same environment, the stimulation fades. If you’re with the same person, …
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📅 Jan 17, 2025 10:18
I’m a female member. If I send a man a “You seem wonderful” message, will he usually make an offer fairly soon if he’s interested? You can make an offer for a date a little later, right? How many days should pass without receiving an offer before I assume he’s not interested?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
They may already have several monthly arrangements and a packed schedule, so they simply can’t take on anyone else.
Or the questioner may just not be their type.
And the small number of attractive older papas may be receiving lots of “You seem wonderful” messages, so you might not get chosen.
I’d treat sending “You seem wonderful” plus a message as better than doing nothing, but not much more. If you want a papa, send plenty and think of any occasional offer as a bonus.
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📅 Jan 16, 2025 12:41
I have a question about birthday presents for a papa (a male supporter). What should I say to a papa who didn’t give me anything for my birthday, yet asks women for presents on his own birthday?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
How about saying, in a cute way, “You didn’t get me anything for my birthday~”?
I think the key is to say it sweetly.
They might even respond, “I’ll buy you something now—what do you want?”
Even if they don’t, at least you won’t have to buy them a birthday present.
Then, despite saying you wouldn’t get them anything, you could surprise them with an inexpensive gift, like a pen costing a few thousand yen. (It doesn’t have to be a pen—anything is fine.) I think they’d be ha…
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📅 Jan 16, 2025 06:48
My papa has a large number of business cards with his own name on them. What kind of situation could this indicate? I hit it off with a papa who contacted me through Universe, and we’ve been seeing each other for several months. The other day, his wallet and business card holder were left out while he was taking a bath. Out of curiosity, I looked inside and found his business cards. The first one was from the company he told me he works...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Many men own multiple companies. However, some also carry fake business cards to deceive people. So there’s no definitive answer here.
If you have a good relationship with him, I’d suggest overlooking it and continuing to enjoy your time together as before.
Don’t worry about it too much...
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📅 Jan 15, 2025 16:57
I’m a female member. Where can I view my own profile video? I asked via LINE and was told I could check it through Patro, but I don’t see the video when I view my Patro profile.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I tried logging in from the female side of Universe Club, and sure enough, I couldn’t view the videos.
I also tried logging in from the female side of Patolo, but the videos filmed by the club weren’t available there either.
(Self-recorded videos are, of course, viewable.)
> When I asked via LINE, they told me I could check them through Patolo.
So which staff member is lying...?
For now (and I’m not sure about the future), it seems women can’t view the videos.
Then aga…
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📅 Jan 13, 2025 15:07
I’d like to ask: If we meet, have tea, get intimate, eat dinner, and spend six or seven hours together, what would be a reasonable allowance? I don’t mind giving more than necessary, but sometimes I wonder if I might be giving too little. The girls always thank me and have never complained, though.
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
Honestly, that’s a long time.
But to be honest, I guess it depends on the amount. Though, more than the money, it’s the time…
I suppose I wouldn’t mind staying longer as long as I don’t get tired, but I like being alone, so even four hours is exhausting for me. Just like Maezawa-san, I always say, “See you next time ♥,” even when I don’t really mean it.
If you take that seriously, the long-term arrangements might suddenly disappear, and you’d be left wondering, “Why? Why??…
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📅 Jan 11, 2025 12:36
There’s a woman whose looks are exactly my type, and we’ve been seeing each other about twice a month for the past eight months. She also has a very cute sense of fashion and owns several luxury-brand items. However, the more I’ve gotten to know her, the more I’ve felt a little uneasy after learning that she has experience in the adult entertainment industry, that most of her luxury items were gifts from men, and that she was someone’s ...
💬 Answer from 日月新:
The questioner’s taste and sense of style—finding designer-brand items cute—just happens to appeal to women with extensive experience in the adult entertainment industry and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
If she had a Birkin, she’d probably ask different older men to buy her several of the same one, keep just one, and sell the rest. Imagining the pile of deadbeat old guys behind it would really put me off.
Information about designer brands and the like is one str…
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📅 Jan 11, 2025 01:18
I’ve met a business owner who has a wonderful personality. He’s in his late 30s to early 40s, but he has age-related body odor. He’s very image-conscious, so is there a tactful way to get him to address it without hurting his feelings?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s a pretty difficult situation. You get used to smells, so you may not even notice them anymore.
If you can’t stand it even after showering before sex, you might consider talking to him about his age-related odor—perhaps while being prepared to end things if necessary.
If he’s wealthy, he might even be willing to spend money treating it.
There’s also a chance he could get angry and end things, so the decision is up to you.
If you’re bothered by someone’s body odor, you…
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📅 Jan 10, 2025 22:30
I’m the one who asked a question earlier. Thank you so much for your very valuable opinions—they’ve given me a lot to think about in such a short time. I think I’m going to take things one step further. I probably only have about another ten years of good health, so I want to live without regrets. Strangely, though, I don’t feel like leaving my family any money, even though I’d like to leave them the company. On the other hand, I do wan...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Even if you leave it to her through inheritance after you die, she’ll still have to pay inheritance tax. You’d also need to specify it clearly in your will, which could make your living relatives resent her. The larger the amount, the more complicated it seems—and they could probably make a claim for their reserved share.
So give that woman plenty while you’re still alive, haha.
As for why you feel that way, everyone’s different, so I think only you can truly understand you…
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📅 Jan 10, 2025 19:01
I’m having fun with the dating club, but I may be getting in too deep I joined last March. Before that, I had ordinary, non-transactional relationships with three people in their 50s whom I met through dating apps. However, whenever the relationship became serious, they would ask me to marry them, so I ended things each time. I’m single (my wife passed away), but I’ve never really been able to take the step toward marriage. I also tried...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
If you start wanting to know even their personal details, you’re pretty deep in（笑）
If you’re a mature adult, I think it’s better to take a step back and look at things objectively instead of getting sucked in.
When someone comes after you with such single-minded focus, it’s only natural to want to run.
Try seeing a few more people (*´д｀*) More!