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Feb 2, 2025 15:04
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
When you say “serving customers,” is the questioner working in the adult entertainment industry?
I’d prefer them to take care of it before we get intimate and shower afterward, but if that’s unavoidable, then toilet first, followed by a shower.
I once had a monthly arrangement where she said her stomach hurt in the middle of things, lol.
As long as she washes herself thoroughly in the shower afterward, I wouldn’t have a problem with it.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I think men understand that bodily functions are unavoidable.
Just say, “I’m going to the bathroom,” and go. If you have really bad diarrhea and need to go several times, a man might think, “Hmm…” for a moment, but I don’t think that alone would usually lead to a breakup.
That said, there are all kinds of men, and you may come across someone narrow-minded enough to think, “I can’t forgive you for having diarrhea.” So I think it’s important to judge what kind of person he is.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve lived with my wife for decades, and I honestly have no idea whether she’s ever pooped—not that I think she hasn’t.
I suppose some people imagine that, like idols, women never use the toilet for number two.
That said, women generally spend longer in the bathroom anyway, so if they simply follow their usual routine, no one would suspect anything.
At events, the women’s restroom can have a line stretching for dozens of meters. Unlike men, who can’t always hold it, women can probably take care of it without anyone noticing.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Women normally rush to the bathroom, you know.
I immediately play music loudly on YouTube to use as a substitute for the sound-masking device.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is probably the kind of thing you’d normally talk about with other women your age who are also into papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), have a laugh, and get it off your chest—but maybe you don’t have friends like that.
I’m not trying to put you down by saying, “You must not have any friends.” I just mean you may not have anyone you can openly discuss papa-katsu with. For all I know, you might be sociable and have plenty of friends in your everyday life.
That said, venting online can sometimes lead people to trace things back to you from unexpected angles, so you should be careful. A Q&A site like this is probably fine, but be especially cautious on social media. “Women are other women’s worst enemies.”
Ideally, it would probably be best to make one or two real-life friends you can talk about papa-katsu with.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If she says she’s going to the bathroom, then she’s going to the bathroom.
She’s human, just like anyone else—of course she poops and sometimes gets an upset stomach.
And if you use the bathroom right after a woman, it can smell sometimes.
You’re getting hung up on something really strange. I’d expect people to learn this kind of basic social awareness in the early years of elementary school.