What’s the difference between an exclusive dating club and a delivery health service? You’re paying money either way, right?

This person also seems to be someone whose gender and age change. I have a papa (a male supporter) I’ve been seeing regularly for over four years, and he’s been supporting me. No matter how close we become, I still keep it strictly as a transactional relationship through the dating club... 2025/01/19 15:47 Female, 20s, Universe female member 32616 I’m currently seeing three women on a regular basis. I haven’t told any of them about the others, and if possible, I’d rather not tell them... 2022/03/31 23:50 Male, 40s, Universe male member 32616

That’s completely different. A dating club only arranges things up to a meal, so afterward, the woman is free to decline any further relationship. So even if you offer to pay, I don’t think the woman will necessarily go to a hotel with you. Some women dislike men who meet them expecting something like sex work.

The level of beauty is completely different. I’ve never seen a woman as beautiful as the ones at Universe Club in a delivery health service. I’d like to request a replacement.

In the adult entertainment industry, women can’t refuse customers (though some men do get banned), whereas with a dating club, women can turn someone down. With adult entertainment, the prices are fixed, but with a dating club, while the introduction fee paid to the club is set, the allowance given to the woman is negotiated. The services are also predetermined in adult entertainment, but with a dating club, the two people decide together whether or not to have sex and what they’re comfortable doing. If you can’t understand that distinction, I think a delivery health service would be better for you. Personally, I find dating clubs far more satisfying than adult entertainment... But if you can’t be considerate toward women, or if you think a dating club is just the same as a delivery health service, you probably won’t know how to use one properly and won’t have a good time, so I wouldn’t recommend it. You might even get kicked out after one incident for being a problem papa. You should stick with a delivery health service...

Confusing it with uncertainty.

If you’re a member and still can’t tell the difference, maybe you’re just not very good at thinking things through. I believe the difference is between dating and providing sexual services.

They’re fundamentally different, but depending on how people view and use them, they can overlap or even seem almost identical. The moment you think of it as paying money, they’re essentially the same. And if you think of it as money paid by the hour, there may not be that much difference either—for either men or women. Even without handing over money, people may meet for errands, moving, looking at properties, simply getting around, shopping, outings, or leisure activities, and still consider it a relationship through a dating club. Even with a delivery service, there can be relationships that don’t involve money. Dating clubs can involve all kinds of arrangements, depending on the individuals and the relationship between them. The range is incredibly broad, from either perspective. Delivery services and the adult entertainment industry, on the other hand, generally follow set patterns. Whether it’s a dating club or the adult entertainment industry, relationships that don’t involve money can still develop. With adult entertainment services, once a private relationship develops—whether as romantic partners or confidants—there may be no payment involved even when things become intimate. In contrast, with a dating club, payment may still be involved even after the relationship becomes close. A dating club is based on the idea that the papa (a male supporter) wants to give an allowance and contribute in some way to the woman’s life. That’s why the allowance continues to exist not simply for the purpose of intimacy, but also to please her and be helpful to her. In that respect, it’s quite different from the adult entertainment industry, even when the relationship becomes as close as that of a couple.