It’s been about a month since I signed up. I received six offers all at once when I first joined, but now I’m not getting any more. Do offers really only come in at the beginning?

You’ll probably get the most offers while your profile is marked as new. Unless someone searches specifically, profiles are displayed in registration-date order. People can also search by rating, so if those first six offers boost your rating and give you a higher score, you may continue receiving offers. Since the offers stopped, though, I’d guess your rating probably didn’t increase much. With an average rating, you’re likely to get buried among the other profiles. When you register again, your profile will once again appear near the top of the listings, so I suppose it’ll come down to whether you get offers then. Let’s hope for a lucky offer from a papa (a male supporter) looking for a hidden gem, lol.

It seems like the typical pattern for someone who receives around six offers at the beginning is: They get the most offers right after signing up, then things suddenly go quiet. After a few months, offers gradually start coming in again. So it’s not usually the case that you only get offers at the beginning. However, it’s rare for them to keep coming in at the same pace. Even if you’re not sure about someone who makes you an offer, you may come to like them once you go on a date and get to know them. So rather than turning them down right away, it might be better to keep them as an option.

In order of frequency, offers usually come on the first day, within three days, or within three weeks. After that, they tend to come only sporadically. Most people rarely receive offers after that point. Offers during the first month are valuable and generally indicate good potential, especially since men must have liked you enough to make an offer so quickly and without hesitation. Since you received that many offers right away, you’re a popular woman. There’s also a chance that occasional offers—or offers that come sporadically—will continue. However, to keep receiving offers consistently for a full year, you would likely need to receive considerably more offers within the first few days after joining. I think it would be a good idea to calmly reflect on that and make your own judgment. Considering a different dating club sooner rather than later is also one option. It may also help to upload several unedited private photos where your facial expressions are clearly visible. Full-body photos where you appear very small won’t be effective, so if you’re posting a full-body shot, it’s fine if you’re slightly cropped.

It varies from person to person. Some women still receive offers even long after registering.