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📅 Feb 2, 2025 20:09
It’s been about a month since I signed up. I received six offers all at once when I first joined, but now I’m not getting any more. Do offers really only come in at the beginning?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You’ll probably get the most offers while your profile is marked as new.
Unless someone searches specifically, profiles are displayed in registration-date order.
People can also search by rating, so if those first six offers boost your rating and give you a higher score, you may continue receiving offers. Since the offers stopped, though, I’d guess your rating probably didn’t increase much.
With an average rating, you’re likely to get buried among the other profiles. When …
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📅 Feb 2, 2025 15:04
Seriously, what do you all do when you’re at a hotel with your Universe papa and feel like you’re about to have diarrhea? Besides just trying to tough it out…
💬 Answer from Fuu:
When you say “serving customers,” is the questioner working in the adult entertainment industry?
I’d prefer them to take care of it before we get intimate and shower afterward, but if that’s unavoidable, then toilet first, followed by a shower.
I once had a monthly arrangement where she said her stomach hurt in the middle of things, lol.
As long as she washes herself thoroughly in the shower afterward, I wouldn’t have a problem with it.
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📅 Feb 1, 2025 23:35
With the papa (a male supporter) I’ve been seeing regularly for about five years, whenever a celebrity comes on TV, he always says things like, “This girl’s ugly, huh?” or “Wait, you think she’s cute?” I could just ignore it, but when he says that about women around my age, it bothers me and I end up talking back. Is there any way to get him to stop making those comments? Is it best to just let it go?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Maybe there’s really nothing else for them to talk about. It would be nice if you could get them to stop watching TV, though.
Since there’s not much else you can do, maybe just let it go in one ear and out the other. They might be saying it because they enjoy getting a reaction when you talk back, so perhaps it’s best to respond indifferently with a simple, “Yeah, exactly,” and leave it at that…
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📅 Feb 1, 2025 18:30
What’s the difference between an exclusive dating club and a delivery health service? You’re paying money either way, right?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
This person also seems to be someone whose gender and age change.
I have a papa (a male supporter) I’ve been seeing regularly for over four years, and he’s been supporting me. No matter how close we become, I still keep it strictly as a transactional relationship through the dating club...
2025/01/19 15:47 Female, 20s, Universe female member 32616
I’m currently seeing three women on a regular basis. I haven’t told any of them about the others, and if possible, I’d rather no…
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📅 Jan 31, 2025 16:14
For a re-registration interview, does it have to be at the same branch where I first registered? Also, will they ask in detail why I left?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Does the interview for re-registering have to be at the same branch where I initially registered?
Any branch is fine. Just choose the one you prefer and apply.
> Also, will they ask in detail why I withdrew?
I don’t think they’ll ask when you apply. You probably filled out a survey about your reason when you withdrew, so from the company’s perspective, that information likely isn’t necessary when you apply to re-register.
That said, they may ask about your reason for wi…
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📅 Jan 29, 2025 22:19
I need advice about my papa (a male supporter), who’s in his 60s. His body odor has become unbearably strong. We’ve been seeing each other for five years, and he gives me a fairly generous allowance each month. He’s also a genuinely good person, so I don’t want to end things. However, his odor gets worse every year. I always get into his car first, and I try to hint by opening the window as soon as I get in, but he probably just thinks ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If you don’t want to break up, I think it’s best to continue seeing him as you have been, without saying anything.
However, if you feel that:
“His age-related odor is just too strong,”
“I’m genuinely uncomfortable with it,”
“I’ve reached my limit,”
then telling him could lead to the relationship ending, but if you really can’t stand it anymore, I think you should say something.
I’m not sure how subtle you intend to be, but if you sugarcoat it too much, the message won…
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📅 Jan 28, 2025 00:52
There’s a papa who’s really bad at being on top. Like… even when I’m moving, he thrusts upward too, so we end up moving against each other and it doesn’t feel good at all. I want him to just stay still, but how should I tell him?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
Your ID is the same as the 50-something man’s.
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📅 Jan 28, 2025 00:41
A man I’ve met three times gave me a piece of jewelry. If I don’t wear it when we meet next time, will I hurt his feelings? I’d appreciate some insight into what men might be thinking. It was a heart-shaped ring, and when I looked up the price, it was around 15,000 yen. I was genuinely happy to receive a gift even though it wasn’t a special occasion. But honestly, rather than the price, I found myself thinking that a heart-shaped design...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I’d wear it, for sure! I’d even send you a LINE message with a selfie so you could see me wearing it.
If I really didn’t like it, I’d gradually stop wearing it while we were seeing each other.
And if he asked, “You’re not wearing it?” I’d say:
“I’m sorry, I lost it… Next time, I’d be happy if you got me a simple necklace instead of a heart one—or something I genuinely want, if there is anything. I’m really, really sorryyy. Even though you went out of your way to buy it for…
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📅 Jan 27, 2025 18:40
I’m a student who borrowed money from my papa (a male supporter), with the agreement that I’d pay it back once I started working. I borrowed just under ¥200,000, but when I changed phones, I couldn’t transfer my LINE account and lost access to it. I really want to get in touch with him somehow—what should I do? I’m anxious every day, wondering if I’ll be sued if things stay this way.
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
As everyone says, you should contact the agency ( ˙꒳˙ )
If your partner says it’s okay now, I don’t think you’ll be sued, so please try to stay calm (* ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)”
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📅 Jan 27, 2025 18:13
I’m a 21-year-old virgin with no experience. When doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’m usually asked to move from dinner to an adult relationship (intimate). Should I tell them I’m a virgin before the first meeting? I’ve already made dinner plans with several people who initially suggested starting with dinner. I told them I’m a beginner—would that be okay? If I meet someone kind, should I stop being a beginner with him, ...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I’d start with a letter date, so I’ll say that upfront.
If you’re the type to meet in person right away, being told that the adult relationship would be with a virgin might make you nervous, so have the club mention it in the notes section. Then, just to be safe, ask the man again for confirmation when he brings up an adult relationship.
When I was a virgin, I went to a hotel, but it hurt so much that it didn’t work. On my third hotel date, I said, “It hurts so much, but it…
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📅 Jan 27, 2025 16:22
I’m a 21-year-old virgin with no experience. When doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’m often expected to move from dinner only to an adult relationship (intimate). Should I tell them I’m a virgin before the first meeting?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
I do think you should tell him, but without a little more background and detail, it’s hard to offer any advice.
Try searching for “virgin” on the Q&A site—you’ll find plenty of similar posts.
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📅 Jan 27, 2025 15:46
People often tell me I’m beautiful rather than cute. Does that mean I’m not particularly attractive?
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I’m usually told I have a cute look, but there are still quite a few people who tell me I’m beautiful.
My makeup and clothes haven’t changed, so maybe people just see me the way they want to see me??(´･ω･`)
Like they’re looking at me through a beauty filter?(´･ω･`)？
If you’re not particularly trying to look cute, I’d be happier being called beautiful and gorgeous too ◌⑅⃝♡*ℋᵅᵖᵖᵞ*♡⑅⃝◌
I’m jealous!
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📅 Jan 27, 2025 09:21
I’m the person who posted a question yesterday (my board ID was 97166). Thank you all for your various opinions. They were very helpful. In the past, I caught an STI several times through the club (from receiving oral sex without a condom), so I had told my partner that I wanted to be informed if they started seeing more people. I think I only mentioned it once, though. That’s why I felt even more strongly against what happened this tim...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
On the other hand, I have a question for you: Why do you go out of your way to change your ID?
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📅 Jan 27, 2025 08:55
I previously asked about how emotionally difficult an adult relationship can be for me. I was previously registered as a C/D type, and thankfully received more offers than I could handle—several dozen, in fact. But if I registered as an A type, or as a B1 type with the possibility of progressing to an adult relationship after meeting for meals three or four times a month for at least six months, would the number of offers honestly drop ...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I think you’ll be fine if you can find a nurturing papa who’s willing to wait patiently!
It might be a good idea to explain that having an adult relationship with someone you were afraid of or didn’t really know was emotionally difficult for you.
If he starts thinking, “Maybe someday I’ll be able to have an adult relationship with her!” then you may be able to create the kind of deeply invested situation Mack-san was talking about, right? (❁´ω`❁)
If you don’t keep things w…
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📅 Jan 27, 2025 00:53
The other day, while we were having intercourse, my papa asked, “I can’t feel anything anymore—am I still hard?” He’s only in his 30s, but I’m wondering if he might have ED. He’s fully erect during foreplay, but often loses his erection when he tries to put on a condom. (He does things like licking my nipples while putting it on.) I’m wondering if that has something to do with it… This is a serious concern for me. Why does this happen? ...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
The first thing that comes to mind is putting the condom on quickly with your mouth, maybe.
I think the man should take the initiative in thinking about things like ED medication or drinks. Why not bring it up with him?
More dangerous than that is:
Condom goes on → he gets smaller → the condom slips off → he finishes inside without protection.
In other words, there’s a risk of contraceptive failure. STIs are scary too, so it might be best to be careful ( ܸ ⩌⩊⩌ ܸ )
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📅 Jan 26, 2025 18:34
Do you show your home to your married partner? Did seeing your home hurt her feelings so much that she cried? She (a former papa-katsu club PJ) wants to see the home I share with my wife and children. It’s a mansion in an upscale residential area, while she lives in a small one-room apartment in central Tokyo. We’re both serious about each other, and we sometimes spend time at her apartment. She’s also intensely jealous of my wife, whom...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
What do you mean? lol
If you told her, it would probably turn into a huge mess.
If you’re serious about that woman, why not leave your wife?
You’re rich enough to live in a mansion, aren’t you?
If you can’t do that,
why not at least buy her a condo?
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📅 Jan 26, 2025 17:53
I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Thank you so much for all the answers to my question last week on the 19th. They were really helpful. There’s something else I’d like to ask in a little more detail. When you spend time at a hotel, do you prefer a city hotel or a love hotel? Do many of you choose between them depending on the woman’s level? Personally, I agree that city hotels are more sophisticated, but I’ll still ta...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
I haven’t been to a love hotel or a regular city hotel in about two years.
I rented a private apartment near my office, and it’s so comfortable not having to worry about being seen that I went a step further and bought a two-bedroom apartment, furnishing it with a completely non-homey, love-hotel-style interior.
It’s economical too—I used to go to love hotels more than 30 times a month, so renting an apartment actually leaves me with money to spare.
That got me thinking: w…
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📅 Jan 26, 2025 14:07
I would appreciate the opinions of those with more experience. Please read the background below and let me know whether this is common, and what you think of how I’m handling the situation. Background I met a woman through this club—a freelance model in her 20s—and we had been seeing each other three or four times a month for about a year and a half. Not long after we met, neither of us felt the need to look for anyone else, so we both ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
People cheat even when they’re married, so I think you should do whatever feels right to you.
I’m someone who prefers seeing multiple people, so in the fortunate environment of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—a rare market where men have the advantage—I honestly don’t see any benefit to limiting yourself to just one person, at least from my perspective.
Sorry, but I really can’t bring myself to feel sorry for you.
Personally, I think if you keep seeing other women…
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📅 Jan 24, 2025 21:31
I’m seeing my monthly papa in an NN arrangement (without protection). Since he sees me regularly several times a month, I agreed to it, and we’re both consenting. Of course, I normally take the pill. That got me wondering: Are NN arrangements uncommon? When you have an adult relationship (intimate), do most of you always use condoms? I’d love to hear from both men and women for reference.
💬 Answer from マックさん:
Actually, after reading a few of the earlier questions about finishing inside without a condom, I realized I hadn’t done it lately. So today at lunch, I asked the girl who’d been staying over since last night:
“When’s your next period supposed to be?”
“Maybe in about two weeks.”
“Then I guess finishing inside is out. I’ve been feeling horny and want to do it bareback for the first time in a while. Starting today, you’re back on bareback duty for a while.”
“Ehh, come on…”
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📅 Jan 24, 2025 13:47
I’m looking for a woman to go out to dinner with in Nagoya. How should I go about it?
💬 Answer from Meg:
Oh my… Is dinner only really enough for you? What a waste. You’re surely still quite energetic, even in your 70s.
If that’s what you’d like, I’ll fly all the way to Nagoya for you ♡