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📅 Jul 9, 2025 15:45
Question about how often to invite a man to meet My papa is married and lives alone during the week because of a work assignment away from home. I’m always the one who reaches out and asks to meet, and he agrees to see me. He’s also told me that it’s okay to contact him even if we don’t have plans, and—probably because he was tipsy—said he’d like to see me once a week. But since he has to pay my allowance and the hotel costs every time ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If we go by the idea that the person who wants to meet should be the one to initiate, it sounds like you’re the one who wants to meet more.
Since they said they’d like to see you once a week, I think you should stay in touch at a pace that allows you to meet once a week.
That said, this question is very similar to the one right before it. Could it be the same person testing how to make it look like they’re not the same person?
No, I may be reading too much into it—it could…
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📅 Jul 9, 2025 14:59
I confessed my feelings to someone I like, and he told me he wants to keep things transactional with me. He’s an older healthcare business owner. Does “I want to keep things transactional” mean exactly what it sounds like? He doesn’t want to date me, but he’s fine with continuing to see me—he just wants to keep things transactional. What do you honestly think?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
““What do you think?”” is a stock phrase used by someone who’s been obsessively hanging around here for a while. I assumed they were just studying the respondents’ behavior and that no one would answer, but someone actually did.
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📅 Jul 9, 2025 14:42
I currently receive ¥100,000 for each overnight stay when we meet. At first, I was only thinking about myself, so I was simply happy to receive that much. But the more often we meet, the more I’ve come to like him. Whenever we meet, he prepares various drinks and arranges a hotel, so I feel I must be putting quite a financial burden on him. I also understand that, since he’s married, he has expenses related to his family. If I told him ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> From a man’s perspective, which would make him more likely to want to meet: continuing to meet for the current allowance, or reducing the allowance?
You’re the one who knows the man in question. I think you should first carefully gauge his personality and what he does and doesn’t like before taking action.
There’s also a chance he’ll cut ties as soon as you bring up reducing the allowance, and you’ll no longer be able to see him.
So the safest option is probably to leave…
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📅 Jul 9, 2025 06:03
I’m new to this. When I ask a woman what allowance she’s looking for, she often tells me to decide. Based on the going rate, I usually suggest something like 20,000 yen for dinner and 50,000 yen for an adult relationship (intimate). But we don’t usually go straight to a hotel when we meet—we’ll have dinner first and then go to the hotel. In that case, is the usual understanding 20,000 + 50,000 = 70,000 yen? I’ve also had dinner at the h...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If this was an offer through Universe Club and it’s your first date, their rules require you to give her a token of appreciation called transportation money during the meal.
So if you answered “Meal 2,” you first need to give her 2 at the meal. If nothing was specified, then 1 is fine according to the rules.
The woman cannot ask for 2 for the first meeting under the rules. So if the man only wants to give 1, doesn’t want to pay a penny more, and is fine with not continuing …
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📅 Jul 7, 2025 11:10
I’m a woman in my 30s with a child. I currently see someone I met through an app on a regular basis, but I’m also interested in joining a dating club and am considering registering. There’s one thing I’m worried about. My child is still young, so there may be times when I have to cancel an appointment because of a sudden fever or illness—possibly the day before or even the morning of. In situations like this, are there any penalties? I’...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well.
After joining, if you cancel on the day of your first date—or cancel without contacting anyone—you’ll be permanently banned, regardless of the reason.
I believe canceling the day before is treated similarly, but if you can provide proof of a valid, understandable reason, you may only receive a lower rating and a note stating that you canceled the day before.
For dates after the second one, your previous track record …
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📅 Jul 5, 2025 17:54
I’ve recently started becoming interested in relationship clubs. I prefer curvier women, but are most of the women slim?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Yes, of course. People with a good figure are generally the main focus.
Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses.
Dating clubs aren’t particularly good at catering to plus-size women, so I’d suggest trying a snack bar that specializes in curvier women instead. I think you’ll get better value there, too.
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📅 Jul 5, 2025 14:41
I’m interested in joining a dating club, but I’m 155 cm tall and weigh 70 kg, so I’m overweight. Rather than being curvy, I’d say I’m more of a chubby girl with an E-cup bust. When it comes to my looks, men I’ve met through dating apps and similar services have told me I’m cute or beautiful. Would there be any demand for someone like me? Would a dating club be too difficult for me?
💬 Answer from アンディ:
Start by going to the interview.
If you pass the interview, there may be a chance you’ll receive an offer. I personally don’t make offers to curvy women, but there may be supporters who specifically prefer plus-size women. I’ve also seen women with that body type listed among the female members on some sites.
In any case, give it a try and judge the outcome for yourself.
Hope this helps.
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📅 Jul 5, 2025 10:30
Haven’t there been more A-type women lately? I can understand it if they’re strikingly beautiful and young, but… I suppose it’s still better than someone registering as B1 when they’re actually A-type. Papa supporters, if there’s an A-type woman who’s exactly their type, do they make an offer without hesitation?
💬 Answer from アンディ:
I’m not really sure. I don’t feel like the number has either increased or decreased.
You can still be turned down even with a B rating, so if you want to move forward with someone for sure, why not search only for C or D and ignore the rest?
Besides, even if the number of A-rated women has increased, worrying about it won’t change anything.
Personally, even if I find someone attractive, I’m not usually that interested if she’s an A. That said, I have made offers a few time…
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📅 Jul 2, 2025 10:19
How much wealth would someone need to be able to give their mistress ¥3 million a month? Let’s also assume they can provide extra money for shopping. This isn’t being written off as a business expense.
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
Apparently, I’m considered ultra-high-net-worth. The usual definition is having ¥500 million in net assets, generally excluding real estate. Supposedly, that’s 0.04% of Japan’s 50 million households—is that really true?
What I’m trying to say is that your assets and your sense of money are two different things. I get nervous if a single meal costs more than ¥30,000 per person—never mind spending ¥3 million a month—and I can’t even taste my food.
Sorry this was absolutely no…
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📅 Jul 1, 2025 16:06
Nice to meet you! I’m new to this and considering signing up with Universe Club. If there’s anything I should be careful about or know in advance, I’d really appreciate your advice.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
When starting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) through a dating club such as Universe Club, it’s very important to avoid trouble and risks while staying safe and protecting yourself. Here are the main points to keep in mind:
Safety and protecting yourself
- To avoid being identified, don’t share personal information such as your real name, address, workplace, or school.
- Don’t tell them your home address or nearest station, and decline rides home.
- Share the date …
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📅 Jun 30, 2025 21:37
My papa’s demands have been escalating, and I’m reaching the point where I can’t keep up. My parents got divorced, and I’m now living with my mother, so my circumstances have changed as well. Is it okay to continue the relationship until he naturally loses interest and ends things? We’re seeing each other half as often now, and he complains about it, but he still hasn’t cut me off. He’s the type to make threats, so I’m scared to be the ...
💬 Answer from アンディ:
Blackmail…? Some people really do exhausting things.
Assuming they have some leverage over you, such as personal information or compromising details, it might be best to gradually distance yourself.
It may turn into a game of chicken, but until they give up, you may have no choice but to put up with it. You should also gradually change the dynamic—for example, start refusing one out of every three requests instead of agreeing every time.
Try to find the courage to make tho…
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📅 Jun 30, 2025 18:42
I’m seeing a married man (52) who has a wife, a son, and a daughter. Whenever we meet, he talks about his family. Is he trying to set a boundary and warn me not to cross the line? I have feelings for him and want to go all the way with him, but he won’t have penetrative sex with me. He says he doesn’t want me to regret it or end up disappointed, so he never penetrates me. Instead, it’s become our routine for me to pleasure him orally. W...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I occasionally hear about men who talk about their families.
I think they probably just want to brag about what a wonderful family they have. Since they can’t brag about it elsewhere, they’re simply showing off to the women they meet here. So I think you can treat it like any other boast and not read too much into it. There probably isn’t any deeper intention behind it.
> He won’t let me do it because he says he’d disappoint me, so I always get him off with my mouth.
I thi…
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📅 Jun 30, 2025 15:34
I want to connect with a handsome celebrity. Are any celebrities registered as members of Universe Club? Also, where should I go to meet them?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I don’t think the question itself really means anything.
Even if there were a handsome celebrity on the site, there’s no way to know whether he would make an offer to you, so you can’t even know if you’d be able to meet him.
(In fact, I imagine someone would be concerned about information leaks when meeting a person who asks questions like this. Even if he wanted to meet you, they might decide they couldn’t arrange it.)
“Celebrity” can mean many different things. There’s …
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📅 Jun 30, 2025 09:06
Hello. This isn’t exactly my first time here, but I have a question. I’ve been active with Universe while also meeting people through dating sites. Most of my arrangements have come from dating sites. The terms have varied, from 15,000 yen with no allowance for intimacy to various other arrangements. I was used and discarded. I received 15,000 yen and put it in my wallet, but afterward I found that only 5,000 yen was there. I’ve been fe...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Himawari,
Thanks for sharing.
Everyone sees things differently, but personally, Fuu doesn’t think working nightlife or in the adult entertainment industry is the same as having a lot of experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
People currently working in adult entertainment have sex with multiple clients a day, and I’ve heard there’s a high chance—around 50–80%—that they’re infected with some kind of STI. So personally, I avoid making offers to or dating t…
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📅 Jun 30, 2025 08:17
I sometimes see female members blur their faces, probably because they’re worried about being recognized. Personally, I only check the comments, videos, and other details of women whose first listing photo gives me a good impression, so I haven’t even clicked on profiles with blurred faces. I’ve heard that some women will send a clear, unblurred photo if you contact the club. But even if two women look alike, I feel that having a blurre...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Realistically, people with blurred photos will probably receive fewer offers.
Every now and then, though, I see someone whose face is blurred but who has a high rating, like Platinum, and I get curious about opening the “premium” section to see if they might be a hidden gem, haha.
But when it comes to actually making an offer, it feels like a waste of money, so in reality, I don’t.
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📅 Jun 29, 2025 13:57
How do you tell a man you’ve met once that you don’t want to see him again? It’s especially difficult when he messages you on LINE as if it’s already been decided that you’ll meet again.
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
It’s simple. Just reply once to let them know you don’t want to meet again. I wouldn’t do this myself, but if they keep pestering you on LINE, you can simply block them. I honestly don’t understand why some people—men or women—can’t do that. I’m not particularly strong-willed either, and I’m just as timid as anyone else, but if I don’t want to meet someone, I tell them clearly. It’s easy once you try. Give it a shot!
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📅 Jun 29, 2025 12:54
When you meet a girl on a monthly arrangement (or a pay-per-meeting arrangement), do you vary the allowance depending on whether you’re intimate or not due to her period or other circumstances? (For example, ¥10,000 without intimacy and ¥50,000 with intimacy.)
💬 Answer from Fuu:
True, lol.
As Maezawa-san said, it might be best to ask a woman about it.
With Fuu, I usually casually ask about her period date and cycle after we’ve met two or three times. Women honestly probably want an allowance equivalent to an adult relationship if they’re going to meet, so if you ask casually and without making it feel sleazy, quite a few will answer—when you’re in a private room, of course.
The monthly partner I used to be closest with even sent me screenshots fr…
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📅 Jun 29, 2025 11:08
Have you ever contracted an STI? Depending on the infection, you may not be able to be intimate until you’ve fully recovered. With chlamydia, for example, it seems you have to refrain from sexual activity for at least a month. How do you explain something like that to your monthly arrangement partners? I recently started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and now have someone I see regularly in an adult relationship (intimate). If...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s pretty common these days, after all. If you’re active on here a lot, it’s bound to happen eventually.
It’s happened to me too. When it does, I tell the women involved and ask them to get tested and treated before our next plans.
There have also been times when a woman told me her boyfriend or another papa (a male supporter) had been affected, so just to be safe, I got tested and treated as well.
Ping-pong infections are the biggest hassle, so I inform everyone I have …
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📅 Jun 29, 2025 02:22
Before joining a dating club, I was deceived by a man I met through a dating app. I know I was far too careless, but when we met in person, he was such a convincing liar and completely played the part of someone trustworthy that I believed him. He said he needed my details so he could transfer money under a mistress arrangement, so I gave him my bank account number, address, phone number, and full name. After we broke things off, he sto...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
There are plenty of people who try to scam others, so remember that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a one-on-one game. Women, please be careful.
Activities through Universe Club, Patro, or Universe Lounge are relatively low-risk, so I definitely recommend them.
The other person is at fault. Even if they have your personal information, there probably isn’t much they can do with it. The only thing I can think of is selling it as a list of people who are easy to sc…
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📅 Jun 28, 2025 06:53
I’m the person who previously asked about spending one night with my papa (a male supporter) by coordinating our schedules so we could meet after his work and on my day off. Thank you so much for all the advice! I have another concern, so I wanted to ask one more question. If we meet in the evening and part ways the next morning, would it be safer to bring everything in one large bag? Ideally, I’d like to bring one small rolling suitcas...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Meeting at night and parting ways in the morning, I feel like bringing a large bag would be a little awkward.
If you’re traveling together, going to various places the next day, and parting ways at night, then I can understand needing a change of clothes. But if you meet at night and leave in the morning, I don’t think it would seem that strange not to bring one.
I assume the idea is to be properly prepared because it isn’t a last-minute overnight stay. Even then, though, I…