It’s simple. Just reply once to let them know you don’t want to meet again. I wouldn’t do this myself, but if they keep pestering you on LINE, you can simply block them. I honestly don’t understand why some people—men or women—can’t do that. I’m not particularly strong-willed either, and I’m just as timid as anyone else, but if I don’t want to meet someone, I tell them clearly. It’s easy once you try. Give it a shot!
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I’m the kind of older guy who can’t say no.
Whenever I get the feeling that she’s expecting money even when we can’t meet, I end up giving in.
I’m probably not cut out for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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You could just give vague, noncommittal replies and wait for them to get the hint—or, if you can’t be bothered, simply block them outright.
I’ve also been blocked twice in the past after having a first meeting with someone.
Hope that helps.
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If you don’t have another date arranged, I think it’s fine to block them on LINE.
There’s no point making excuses or apologizing. It’s better to block them as soon as possible so they can give up and move on to dating someone else.
The sooner you block them, the better.
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Why not say you’re busy, or that you’ve already made other financial arrangements?
From my perspective, if a woman isn’t proactive about coordinating schedules, I just move on quickly and look for someone else.
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If you’ve only met once, you probably haven’t shared much personal information with the other person. If you think of it as simply letting them know via LINE, you can either tell them directly or just stop replying, so it doesn’t seem all that difficult.
In fact, men fairly often say that women stop replying, so I sometimes think this may be the least burdensome option for women.
And if you block them, you won’t receive any more notifications.
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Personally, I only meet women who invite me, so I don’t know how women usually turn someone down.
If a woman I don’t want to see again invites me, I’ll give some vague excuse, like being busy, and she’ll usually get the hint. Occasionally, someone will ask again after waiting a while, but if I keep dodging them, they eventually give up.
There have been a few who continued contacting me anyway, and in those cases, I simply told them honestly that I didn’t want to meet again.
If you’re so troubled by this that you had to ask, then honestly, I think you’re fundamentally unsuited to this kind of activity.
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