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📅 May 8, 2025 14:10
I can’t afford to take another year to prepare for my exams, so I’m thinking about selling my virginity. How much could I realistically get? Is there anything I can do to raise the price?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Even if you market yourself as a virgin, it’s only a one-shot deal, so it may not be very efficient.
It’s probably more realistic to get lots of offers here, build up several monthly arrangements with papas, and earn your allowance that way.
Your looks, attitude, and the quality of the adult relationship will all matter, so do your best.
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📅 May 8, 2025 10:29
Is it harder to get offers if you have tattoos or smoke?
💬 Answer from 石橋 誠一（スタッフ）:
Ishibashi from the staff here. I’d rather have neither, but if you have other strong selling points, I think you’ll still receive offers.
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📅 May 5, 2025 02:12
I’m scheduled to go on a date tomorrow with a woman I made an offer to through Patro. She agreed as well, and the system shows that the date has been confirmed. The setup fee has also been settled. About three days ago, I sent her a message with the meeting place and time, asking her to confirm that everything was okay. However, she hasn’t replied—or even appeared online. Since it’s now the day before the date, I sent another message as...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I understand how you feel, but this kind of thing happens to a certain extent in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so you’ll have to accept that it’s sometimes unavoidable.
If you go tomorrow and get a last-minute cancellation, your points will be refunded, so you can make another offer.
If you don’t like that, since you’re a club member, you could have the club make the offer for you.
I’ll share Fuu’s secret trick with you. This is honestly valuable enough to char…
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📅 May 3, 2025 03:41
I have a question about a female friend. At the time, she was a 21-year-old college student. While she was dating her first ex-boyfriend, apparently he made all of his ex-girlfriends take birth control pills and never used condoms. Around the time she started dating him, she messaged me on LINE: “Seriously, this guy is dangerous.” “He didn’t finish inside me, so I don’t think I’m pregnant, but isn’t this terrifying?” “Do you know about ...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Around 7–9% of women still get pregnant even when taking low-dose birth control pills.
Putting that aside, once a man gets an STD even once, he gets scared and starts using condoms.
Going without one is only something the woman asks for—in my case, anyway. I’m in the higher-paying range when it comes to allowance, so I think women use going without a condom as a bargaining chip to keep me around.
There’s one woman in my monthly arrangement and one occasional partner who do…
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📅 May 2, 2025 22:56
How can I get my papa to increase my rate? Ideally, I’d like it to jump all at once to ¥400,000 or ¥500,000, like with hosts or cabaret clubs. But I have no idea how to make that happen. I want to make him feel good and inspire him to give me more on his own, without constantly talking about money. How do you get your clients to raise your rate and make tens or even hundreds of thousands in one go? I’d really appreciate any advice. Look...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Well, there’s no easy, dreamlike deal like that in the real world.
It sounds like H○ka, the Osaka hostess, was ultimately going all out for her big-spending clients, too.
You might have a chance if you have exceptional qualities and receive an offer from a wealthy, generous papa (a male supporter), but…
Unless you become No. 1 at a major hostess club and go all out for several big-spending clients, I don’t think what you’re hoping for is realistic. That’s simply the realit…
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📅 May 2, 2025 14:08
My papa keeps bragging about how accomplished his daughter is. She took an extra year before getting into Kawasaki Medical School, failed the national medical licensing exam once, passed on her second try, and apparently works as a doctor now. I looked up Kawasaki Medical School’s entrance difficulty score, and it was 60. I graduated from Tokyo Institute of Technology, which has a higher score. I know private and national universities m...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
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I see.
It’s okay—you’re doing great too.
Was that okay?
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📅 May 2, 2025 04:59
I’m still pretty new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). How can I get my papa (a male supporter) to increase my allowance? Ideally, I’d like it to jump all at once to ¥400,000 or ¥500,000, like with hosts or cabaret clubs. But I don’t know how to go about it. I want to make him feel so good that he’ll want to give me more on his own, without me constantly talking about money. How do you all get your customers to raise your rat...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
This feels like a bait question, so I’ll take the bait!
It’s true that there are papas (male supporters) who give 500,000 or 400,000 yen for just one dinner a month—and they continue doing so. Apparently, even if they have a fight, they come back again.
If, like the person asking this question, both people place value on money above all else, that kind of arrangement is possible.
That said, in such cases, I imagine you would have already achieved it by now. Apparently, som…
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📅 Apr 29, 2025 12:58
I just started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and had an adult relationship (intimate) with someone I was meeting for the first time. It started with light kissing, then kissing and licking all over, deep kissing, going down on me, light foreplay that became more intense, and trying various positions. Whenever I seemed uncomfortable, he would stop, give me a light kiss, stroke my head, speak to me gently, and wipe me off. Are ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’m sure it varies.
But to the person asking the question: were you okay with it, or did you dislike it?
A papa who can adapt to the woman he’s with is probably in the top 5%—a passing-grade papa.
Doing too much isn’t good, but neither is doing too little. Since he isn’t just focused on himself, I’d say he’s probably one of the better papas.
With girls who enjoy sex, Fuu does a lot of oral and foreplay, and gets more intense until they finish.
With cooler girls who aren’…
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📅 Apr 29, 2025 01:29
What’s going through a man’s mind when he masturbates while video-calling on LINE? Yesterday, the papa I’ve been seeing for about four years asked me to “show him your breasts” and “show him down there” while we were video-calling on LINE. Apparently, he had already taken off his pants, and while I was showing him, he started masturbating on his own and even ejaculated. Actually, this has happened three times now. The first time, we wer...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You made the first move, so you’ve awakened your papa’s kinks lol.
Maybe he keeps asking for remote masturbation because you’re doing it for free, without an allowance?
If you make it properly paid and suggest an allowance, maybe he’ll ask less often?
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📅 Apr 28, 2025 14:16
The other day, I was talking with some friends, and the topic came up: Who would you rather date—a handsome guy who’s 165 cm tall, an average-looking guy who’s 180 cm, or a slightly overweight, average-looking guy who’s 165 cm? Our opinions were split right down the middle. Which one would you rather date?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Which would you prefer: a stunningly beautiful woman who just lies there, or an average-looking woman who’s very responsive and enthusiastic?
I guess it comes down to personal preference, lol.
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📅 Apr 27, 2025 23:35
Is there anyone looking for a serious, exclusive connection? Lately, I’ve been looking for someone who wants to connect exclusively with each other, but I’m finding it a little difficult...
💬 Answer from だて◎ゆめ:
Me too, to some extent.
In my case, I found someone relatively easily.
I’ve been seeing the same woman for eight years now. For the first six months or so, we weren’t exclusive, but as Mac mentioned, we both prioritized protecting our identities and preventing sexually transmitted infections, and I think that naturally led to us becoming exclusive.
During the first year, I was constantly eager to make new offers, but after that, our relationship became stable, and I gradua…
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📅 Apr 27, 2025 07:17
A papa who changes the amount depending on whether protection is used or not sees women as objects, right? He offered ¥80,000 without protection and ¥50,000 with it. I’m scared he might have an STI.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Originally, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is about paying for sex, so I don’t think it’s all that different.
The woman’s side sees her papa (a male supporter) as money, right? She wouldn’t have sex with him without payment.
Personally, I wouldn’t call him a “thing.” He’s still a person—someone who makes me feel really good.
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📅 Apr 25, 2025 14:36
I haven’t made any connections at all since signing up...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Right now, it’s mostly the same person repeatedly posting prank questions.
When that’s all there is, newcomers don’t feel comfortable asking questions, and since the posts aren’t useful to anyone, genuine consultations gradually disappear.
Of course, having some questions is better than having none, but is this really a situation we should just accept as it is…?
How far has this drifted from the site’s original purpose…?
Are we going to remain in a situation where someone…
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📅 Apr 25, 2025 07:29
Is the amount of sperm released during ejaculation proportional to how good it feels? Sometimes my papa (a male supporter) ejaculates a large amount. Does that mean it felt better than usual?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
When it’s day after day, I sometimes can’t ejaculate much, so I feel like it’s more pleasurable when I leave some time in between and then release a larger amount.
However, if I wait four or more days, it’s as if my body forgets how to ejaculate, and I sometimes can’t get hard.
Maybe I’ll share some random thoughts too. Miu, the Type B girl I wrote about in my column, has decided to get married.
I recommended dating apps and a matchmaking agency, paid her enrollment and me…
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📅 Apr 24, 2025 04:01
【Men with extreme kinks are terrifying】 I’m a C-type female member, so I’ll go to someone’s room if the terms of the arrangement are acceptable. But a certain percentage of them completely change the moment we enter the room and start forcing their extreme kinks on me, even though they seemed fine over tea. Specifically: - Choking me (seriously enough that I can’t breathe) - Forcing enemas and scat play - Insisting on filming me against...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
People’s preferences vary widely, so there are certainly some who have the kinds of interests the questioner describes. Naturally, it’s reasonable to assume that some members of Uchu Club are like that as well. Among them, there may even be people who engage in things that can’t be done at adult entertainment venues, as you mentioned.
That said, people with those preferences are probably the exception. So if you’ve ended up meeting several men like that, I think there may al…
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📅 Apr 23, 2025 16:39
Could you tell me what information is required to register as a new female member?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Do you mean what kinds of questions you’ll be asked during the interview?
Or do you mean things like height and weight, and how much information is requested about those?
Either way, knowing in advance wouldn’t really help, since you’re expected to provide truthful information, so there’s nothing you can really prepare for. As for what they ask, it also varies depending on the staff member, making it difficult to prepare beforehand. In fact, asking questions unexpectedly ma…
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📅 Apr 23, 2025 06:19
A few days after receiving the offer, I was contacted by the man, who said he had decided to withdraw. In fact, about two months ago, I had another man withdraw after accepting my offer in much the same way. When this happens repeatedly, I can’t help but wonder why. If anyone knows what might be going through the minds of men who withdraw after making an offer, I’d appreciate your insight. Of course, if it’s due to unavoidable circumsta...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
There’s no additional information disclosed after the offer—your profile is everything.
If you’re talking about Patro, since it’s ultimately an app, there may be times when a papa (a male supporter) finds it easier to turn someone down.
If this is about Patro, did you perhaps send a strange reply when responding?
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📅 Apr 21, 2025 21:57
This may be an awkward question. I grew up in a troubled family for many years, and perhaps because of that, I have a hard time trusting people. I don’t really understand what it means to love someone. I work in a field where my appearance is part of what I’m selling, so I don’t think I look bad. But I’ve never had a boyfriend. Recently, I met an older man I’m interested in. My first impression of him was very good, but he’s wealthy and...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
This was an interesting question to me, so please allow me to offer my perspective.
Let me say this upfront: even if you, the questioner, have a personality that makes it difficult to trust people, that has absolutely nothing to do with your family environment.
You may not believe this, but personality issues and family circumstances are completely unrelated. In other words, if your personality is warped, that is primarily your own responsibility.
I’m not making fun of you…
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📅 Apr 21, 2025 19:40
I’d like to ask for advice on how to handle getting my period on a first date. I’m scheduled to meet a man next week for a group date, but my period is late and it looks like it may start that day. When I contacted the club, they told me they couldn’t inform him in advance. I’d be fine with having dinner only this time, but since I’m a C-type, I’m worried that he may be expecting more from the dinner with me and his friends. I’m also co...
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
I think most men would be fine with it as long as you let them know that you’re feeling unwell that day.
It might be easier to focus on dinner only if you tell him upfront.
Just because his dating type is C doesn’t mean things have to develop into a relationship, so if you don’t click after dinner, you can simply turn him down.
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📅 Apr 19, 2025 08:15
I’m thinking about signing up with a club, but while researching, I read that anything other than black hair isn’t well received. The underlayer isn’t a flashy color—it’s brown—but it’s fairly wide. Of course, I can cover it with my natural, undyed hair so it won’t be noticeable at first glance, but it becomes pretty visible when I move around or curl my hair… Would papas (male supporters) dislike an understated underlayer color too?
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Ask me anything—I just want to read Mac’s column.