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Jun 30, 2025 08:17
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Personally, I only check the comments, videos, and other details of women whose first listing photo gives me a good impression, so I haven’t even clicked on profiles with blurred faces.
I’ve heard that some women will send a clear, unblurred photo if you contact the club. But even if two women look alike, I feel that having a blurred face dramatically lowers the chances of receiving an offer. What does everyone think?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Realistically, people with blurred photos will probably receive fewer offers.
Every now and then, though, I see someone whose face is blurred but who has a high rating, like Platinum, and I get curious about opening the “premium” section to see if they might be a hidden gem, haha.
But when it comes to actually making an offer, it feels like a waste of money, so in reality, I don’t.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
It doesn’t really matter what everyone else thinks.
If a questioner doesn’t want to make an offer, they simply don’t have to. And women who receive offers even with their photos blurred will still receive them.
Rather than seeing it as a disadvantage, women could view it as a way to filter out narrow-minded men who judge people solely by their faces or appearance, or who mistake papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for something like the sex industry. After all, meeting men like that may not lead to a meaningful connection.
Whether you make an offer or not is entirely up to you.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
As you understand, people usually look at the photos first and only read the staff comments and other details if they’re their type, so your offers will clearly decrease.
I assume you’re worried about being recognized, but if that’s the case, why not simply refrain from registering instead of doing it halfway?
Unless, of course, you have the looks to qualify for the secret class.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Yes, you’ll probably receive fewer offers as a result.
That said, women are choosing that option for themselves, so I don’t see a problem with it.
Personally, photos don’t matter much to me. Even if they’re blurred, I’ll make an offer if a woman’s profile description catches my interest.
If she’s a female member of a club, I can generally expect her to be reasonably attractive. And if she has bangs or a gummy smile, we can simply part ways after dinner.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t pry into my partner’s private life, and I don’t take photos together, so I’m probably more compatible with women who feel the same way.
That said, I do use photos and videos as a reference, so if they’re not available even upon request, I probably wouldn’t go as far as making an offer.