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📅 Jul 7, 2025 11:10
I’m a woman in my 30s with a child. I currently see someone I met through an app on a regular basis, but I’m also interested in joining a dating club and am considering registering. There’s one thing I’m worried about. My child is still young, so there may be times when I have to cancel an appointment because of a sudden fever or illness—possibly the day before or even the morning of. In situations like this, are there any penalties? I’...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well.
After joining, if you cancel on the day of your first date—or cancel without contacting anyone—you’ll be permanently banned, regardless of the reason.
I believe canceling the day before is treated similarly, but if you can provide proof of a valid, understandable reason, you may only receive a lower rating and a note stating that you canceled the day before.
For dates after the second one, your previous track record …
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📅 Jul 5, 2025 17:54
I’ve recently started becoming interested in relationship clubs. I prefer curvier women, but are most of the women slim?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Yes, of course. People with a good figure are generally the main focus.
Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses.
Dating clubs aren’t particularly good at catering to plus-size women, so I’d suggest trying a snack bar that specializes in curvier women instead. I think you’ll get better value there, too.
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📅 Jul 5, 2025 14:41
I’m interested in joining a dating club, but I’m 155 cm tall and weigh 70 kg, so I’m overweight. Rather than being curvy, I’d say I’m more of a chubby girl with an E-cup bust. When it comes to my looks, men I’ve met through dating apps and similar services have told me I’m cute or beautiful. Would there be any demand for someone like me? Would a dating club be too difficult for me?
💬 Answer from アンディ:
Start by going to the interview.
If you pass the interview, there may be a chance you’ll receive an offer. I personally don’t make offers to curvy women, but there may be supporters who specifically prefer plus-size women. I’ve also seen women with that body type listed among the female members on some sites.
In any case, give it a try and judge the outcome for yourself.
Hope this helps.
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📅 Jul 5, 2025 10:30
Haven’t there been more A-type women lately? I can understand it if they’re strikingly beautiful and young, but… I suppose it’s still better than someone registering as B1 when they’re actually A-type. Papa supporters, if there’s an A-type woman who’s exactly their type, do they make an offer without hesitation?
💬 Answer from アンディ:
I’m not really sure. I don’t feel like the number has either increased or decreased.
You can still be turned down even with a B rating, so if you want to move forward with someone for sure, why not search only for C or D and ignore the rest?
Besides, even if the number of A-rated women has increased, worrying about it won’t change anything.
Personally, even if I find someone attractive, I’m not usually that interested if she’s an A. That said, I have made offers a few time…
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📅 Jul 2, 2025 10:19
How much wealth would someone need to be able to give their mistress ¥3 million a month? Let’s also assume they can provide extra money for shopping. This isn’t being written off as a business expense.
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
Apparently, I’m considered ultra-high-net-worth. The usual definition is having ¥500 million in net assets, generally excluding real estate. Supposedly, that’s 0.04% of Japan’s 50 million households—is that really true?
What I’m trying to say is that your assets and your sense of money are two different things. I get nervous if a single meal costs more than ¥30,000 per person—never mind spending ¥3 million a month—and I can’t even taste my food.
Sorry this was absolutely no…
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📅 Jul 1, 2025 16:06
Nice to meet you! I’m new to this and considering signing up with Universe Club. If there’s anything I should be careful about or know in advance, I’d really appreciate your advice.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
When starting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) through a dating club such as Universe Club, it’s very important to avoid trouble and risks while staying safe and protecting yourself. Here are the main points to keep in mind:
Safety and protecting yourself
- To avoid being identified, don’t share personal information such as your real name, address, workplace, or school.
- Don’t tell them your home address or nearest station, and decline rides home.
- Share the date …
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📅 Jun 30, 2025 21:37
My papa’s demands have been escalating, and I’m reaching the point where I can’t keep up. My parents got divorced, and I’m now living with my mother, so my circumstances have changed as well. Is it okay to continue the relationship until he naturally loses interest and ends things? We’re seeing each other half as often now, and he complains about it, but he still hasn’t cut me off. He’s the type to make threats, so I’m scared to be the ...
💬 Answer from アンディ:
Blackmail…? Some people really do exhausting things.
Assuming they have some leverage over you, such as personal information or compromising details, it might be best to gradually distance yourself.
It may turn into a game of chicken, but until they give up, you may have no choice but to put up with it. You should also gradually change the dynamic—for example, start refusing one out of every three requests instead of agreeing every time.
Try to find the courage to make tho…
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📅 Jun 30, 2025 18:42
I’m seeing a married man (52) who has a wife, a son, and a daughter. Whenever we meet, he talks about his family. Is he trying to set a boundary and warn me not to cross the line? I have feelings for him and want to go all the way with him, but he won’t have penetrative sex with me. He says he doesn’t want me to regret it or end up disappointed, so he never penetrates me. Instead, it’s become our routine for me to pleasure him orally. W...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I occasionally hear about men who talk about their families.
I think they probably just want to brag about what a wonderful family they have. Since they can’t brag about it elsewhere, they’re simply showing off to the women they meet here. So I think you can treat it like any other boast and not read too much into it. There probably isn’t any deeper intention behind it.
> He won’t let me do it because he says he’d disappoint me, so I always get him off with my mouth.
I thi…
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📅 Jun 30, 2025 15:34
I want to connect with a handsome celebrity. Are any celebrities registered as members of Universe Club? Also, where should I go to meet them?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I don’t think the question itself really means anything.
Even if there were a handsome celebrity on the site, there’s no way to know whether he would make an offer to you, so you can’t even know if you’d be able to meet him.
(In fact, I imagine someone would be concerned about information leaks when meeting a person who asks questions like this. Even if he wanted to meet you, they might decide they couldn’t arrange it.)
“Celebrity” can mean many different things. There’s …
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📅 Jun 30, 2025 09:06
Hello. This isn’t exactly my first time here, but I have a question. I’ve been active with Universe while also meeting people through dating sites. Most of my arrangements have come from dating sites. The terms have varied, from 15,000 yen with no allowance for intimacy to various other arrangements. I was used and discarded. I received 15,000 yen and put it in my wallet, but afterward I found that only 5,000 yen was there. I’ve been fe...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Himawari,
Thanks for sharing.
Everyone sees things differently, but personally, Fuu doesn’t think working nightlife or in the adult entertainment industry is the same as having a lot of experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
People currently working in adult entertainment have sex with multiple clients a day, and I’ve heard there’s a high chance—around 50–80%—that they’re infected with some kind of STI. So personally, I avoid making offers to or dating t…
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📅 Jun 30, 2025 08:17
I sometimes see female members blur their faces, probably because they’re worried about being recognized. Personally, I only check the comments, videos, and other details of women whose first listing photo gives me a good impression, so I haven’t even clicked on profiles with blurred faces. I’ve heard that some women will send a clear, unblurred photo if you contact the club. But even if two women look alike, I feel that having a blurre...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Realistically, people with blurred photos will probably receive fewer offers.
Every now and then, though, I see someone whose face is blurred but who has a high rating, like Platinum, and I get curious about opening the “premium” section to see if they might be a hidden gem, haha.
But when it comes to actually making an offer, it feels like a waste of money, so in reality, I don’t.
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📅 Jun 29, 2025 13:57
How do you tell a man you’ve met once that you don’t want to see him again? It’s especially difficult when he messages you on LINE as if it’s already been decided that you’ll meet again.
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
It’s simple. Just reply once to let them know you don’t want to meet again. I wouldn’t do this myself, but if they keep pestering you on LINE, you can simply block them. I honestly don’t understand why some people—men or women—can’t do that. I’m not particularly strong-willed either, and I’m just as timid as anyone else, but if I don’t want to meet someone, I tell them clearly. It’s easy once you try. Give it a shot!
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📅 Jun 29, 2025 12:54
When you meet a girl on a monthly arrangement (or a pay-per-meeting arrangement), do you vary the allowance depending on whether you’re intimate or not due to her period or other circumstances? (For example, ¥10,000 without intimacy and ¥50,000 with intimacy.)
💬 Answer from Fuu:
True, lol.
As Maezawa-san said, it might be best to ask a woman about it.
With Fuu, I usually casually ask about her period date and cycle after we’ve met two or three times. Women honestly probably want an allowance equivalent to an adult relationship if they’re going to meet, so if you ask casually and without making it feel sleazy, quite a few will answer—when you’re in a private room, of course.
The monthly partner I used to be closest with even sent me screenshots fr…
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📅 Jun 29, 2025 11:08
Have you ever contracted an STI? Depending on the infection, you may not be able to be intimate until you’ve fully recovered. With chlamydia, for example, it seems you have to refrain from sexual activity for at least a month. How do you explain something like that to your monthly arrangement partners? I recently started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and now have someone I see regularly in an adult relationship (intimate). If...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s pretty common these days, after all. If you’re active on here a lot, it’s bound to happen eventually.
It’s happened to me too. When it does, I tell the women involved and ask them to get tested and treated before our next plans.
There have also been times when a woman told me her boyfriend or another papa (a male supporter) had been affected, so just to be safe, I got tested and treated as well.
Ping-pong infections are the biggest hassle, so I inform everyone I have …
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📅 Jun 29, 2025 02:22
Before joining a dating club, I was deceived by a man I met through a dating app. I know I was far too careless, but when we met in person, he was such a convincing liar and completely played the part of someone trustworthy that I believed him. He said he needed my details so he could transfer money under a mistress arrangement, so I gave him my bank account number, address, phone number, and full name. After we broke things off, he sto...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
There are plenty of people who try to scam others, so remember that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a one-on-one game. Women, please be careful.
Activities through Universe Club, Patro, or Universe Lounge are relatively low-risk, so I definitely recommend them.
The other person is at fault. Even if they have your personal information, there probably isn’t much they can do with it. The only thing I can think of is selling it as a list of people who are easy to sc…
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📅 Jun 28, 2025 06:53
I’m the person who previously asked about spending one night with my papa (a male supporter) by coordinating our schedules so we could meet after his work and on my day off. Thank you so much for all the advice! I have another concern, so I wanted to ask one more question. If we meet in the evening and part ways the next morning, would it be safer to bring everything in one large bag? Ideally, I’d like to bring one small rolling suitcas...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Meeting at night and parting ways in the morning, I feel like bringing a large bag would be a little awkward.
If you’re traveling together, going to various places the next day, and parting ways at night, then I can understand needing a change of clothes. But if you meet at night and leave in the morning, I don’t think it would seem that strange not to bring one.
I assume the idea is to be properly prepared because it isn’t a last-minute overnight stay. Even then, though, I…
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📅 Jun 27, 2025 12:49
Until now, I’ve only met my papa (a male supporter) after work, but we’re now going to spend a night together on one of my days off. When we met before, I carried my work bag and wore clothes that looked elegant, but now that we’re meeting privately, I’m unsure what to wear and bring. Since he’s very wealthy, I’m even more nervous that he’ll judge the quality of what I have on. I don’t usually wear earrings, but should I wear a necklace...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You could just ask him. I’m sure he’d appreciate it.
He’ll probably say, “What you usually wear is fine.”
As long as it’s clean and well put-together, something without a designer label might actually be better.
If you’re going out for French cuisine, a necklace or ring could be a nice touch. But if it’s room service, you probably don’t need to go that far.
It really depends on the time and place.
You could ask in a cute way, like, “I’m so happy I don’t know what to do!”…
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📅 Jun 27, 2025 12:23
To everyone who’s answered—men and women alike: How did you grow closer to your favorite monthly arrangement partner? Past partners are fine too, whether you were the woman or the papa. I try to maintain a comfortable distance without getting too close to the women, but as a result, I’ve found it difficult to really become close with anyone, and I’m not sure what to do. If I try to close the distance myself, I might put pressure on her....
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
You can probably get a sense of what kind of relationship someone wants by looking at the name they use on LINE—whether it’s yours or theirs.
People who use symbols, emojis, or just a single character are probably treating papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) as an activity, while those who use their real names are more likely to be looking for a relationship. Even someone using a single character may eventually share their personal LINE account if things develop into a …
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📅 Jun 25, 2025 02:10
Gentlemen, I’d appreciate your answers. When deciding whether to make an offer to a female member, do you take into account how many recent offers she has received? If so, is there a certain number that makes you hold off, thinking you’ll wait until things calm down a little before making an offer? Of course, I assume you make an overall judgment based on her profile, feedback, and other information, but I’d like to know how you view th...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I can’t know how many offers they’ve received, so I personally pay close attention to the number of stars.
If someone has a lot of stars, I take it as a sign that, at the very least, other papas (male supporters) were satisfied. I usually search by star rating, check their profiles, and go from there.
If they have very few stars, I assume there may be some kind of issue and refrain from making an offer.
I tend to avoid women who seem to be getting a lot of offers right aft…
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📅 Jun 24, 2025 14:47
I want to tell a papa (a male supporter) I’ve only met once or twice—and whose allowance is on the lower side compared with my other papas—that I’d be willing to see him again if he could raise it by about two, but otherwise I won’t be able to because my schedule is limited. Should I phrase it more indirectly? If negotiating for a higher allowance like this rarely works, I’m also considering simply saying I’m busy and gradually fading o...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I’m not the type who can speak up about things like that, so I’d probably just say, “I’m sorry,” part ways, and wait for the next opportunity to meet someone~ (T^T)
If he’s two sizes off from what you ideally want, I do think that’s a significant difference, but I wouldn’t say anything.
Still, like the other male respondents said, maybe it’s worth being honest first, then deciding whether to end things afterward!