I’m seeing a married man (52) who has a wife, a son, and a daughter.

I occasionally hear about men who talk about their families. I think they probably just want to brag about what a wonderful family they have. Since they can’t brag about it elsewhere, they’re simply showing off to the women they meet here. So I think you can treat it like any other boast and not read too much into it. There probably isn’t any deeper intention behind it. > He won’t let me do it because he says he’d disappoint me, so I always get him off with my mouth. I think this is simply a case of him losing his erection during sex. It’s understandable that he’d worry about disappointing his partner if he went soft halfway through. Depending on the situation, it could even hurt the other person’s feelings. So I think he’s decided to stick to oral only. I wouldn’t bring it up too much. Just assume that everyone is different and continue seeing him as you have been.

What are you expecting from that seemingly useless married man? It does sound like he’s treating you as a convenient blowjob machine—an easy sexual outlet. If you still like him, then you might as well keep giving him oral. But if you can’t stand being in a relationship without sex, I’d think you should break up with him and date someone else who will have sex with you.