Before joining a dating club, I was deceived by a man I met through a dating app.
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I know I was far too careless, but when we met in person, he was such a convincing liar and completely played the part of someone trustworthy that I believed him.
He said he needed my details so he could transfer money under a mistress arrangement, so I gave him my bank account number, address, phone number, and full name. After we broke things off, he stopped responding.
There was also an adult relationship (intimate).
I realize I’m partly to blame, so I suppose I have to accept that the adult relationship happened without payment. However, I’m especially worried that he knows my full name and address.
I consulted the police, but they told me that unless moving is an option, the only practical thing I can do right now is close my bank account.
I also mentioned during our conversations that I live alone, which makes me a little scared.
If anyone has any idea what purpose he might have had in obtaining my personal information, I’d appreciate hearing your thoughts.
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂20s👑Universe female member
There are plenty of people who try to scam others, so remember that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a one-on-one game. Women, please be careful.
Activities through Universe Club, Patro, or Universe Lounge are relatively low-risk, so I definitely recommend them.
The other person is at fault. Even if they have your personal information, there probably isn’t much they can do with it. The only thing I can think of is selling it as a list of people who are easy to scam.
For your future activities, use the safe and reliable Universe Group, receive plenty of allowance, enjoy yourself, and forget about this.
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People like that can be found not only on apps but also at dating clubs, so please be careful.
That said, at a dating club, they’re forcibly banned as soon as they’re exposed. But being exposed means someone has already been victimized.
> What do you think the person intended to do by obtaining her personal information?
Of course, I assume it was to make the promise of a bank transfer seem more credible.
But it also seems possible that they wanted to prevent the woman from taking some form of revenge after realizing that the money would never be transferred and that she had been deceived.
You’ll probably be fine going forward, but if the other person brings up a monthly arrangement, you need to receive the first month’s allowance upfront, or you may get scammed.
Men, too, sometimes find that the other person stops responding after receiving the money. In the end, I think pay-per-meeting arrangements are probably the safest.
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Wasn’t the point to intimidate you like that?
We can only speculate about why—perhaps to prevent you from making a scene and claiming he’d taken advantage of you without paying, or perhaps he simply enjoys making other people feel uneasy.
Maybe he just liked collecting personal information. Maybe he wanted to make his supposed mistress arrangement seem more legitimate. Maybe he was serious when he asked for your address, but met the love of his life the next day. Maybe he was hospitalized after a traffic accident on the way home, or even died of a stroke that night.
Once you’ve already given the information, there’s no point dwelling on it—you can’t turn back time.
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