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I confessed my feelings to someone I like, and he told me he wants to keep things transactional with me.

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He’s an older healthcare business owner. Does “I want to keep things transactional” mean exactly what it sounds like? He doesn’t want to date me, but he’s fine with continuing to see me—he just wants to keep things transactional. What do you honestly think?
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““What do you think?”” is a stock phrase used by someone who’s been obsessively hanging around here for a while. I assumed they were just studying the respondents’ behavior and that no one would answer, but someone actually did.
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Since no one’s answered, I’ll say a little. You can take it at face value. We’re both completely clear that this is a transactional relationship. Well, I’m married, and there’s more than a 40-year age gap between us. She also wants to get married someday, so that may be part of it too… But that doesn’t mean our relationship is like visiting a sex worker. Ever since we started seeing each other, we’ve been in touch every day, both messaging and replying. I’d say we’re probably more than just friends. Among all the men she’s been involved with, I’m currently the one she’s been seeing the longest.
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