Depending on the infection, you may not be able to be intimate until you’ve fully recovered. With chlamydia, for example, it seems you have to refrain from sexual activity for at least a month.
How do you explain something like that to your monthly arrangement partners?
I recently started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and now have someone I see regularly in an adult relationship (intimate). If I meet someone new in the future to see whether we might be a better match, I imagine situations like this could come up, so I’d appreciate hearing about your experiences.
It’s pretty common these days, after all. If you’re active on here a lot, it’s bound to happen eventually.
It’s happened to me too. When it does, I tell the women involved and ask them to get tested and treated before our next plans.
There have also been times when a woman told me her boyfriend or another papa (a male supporter) had been affected, so just to be safe, I got tested and treated as well.
Ping-pong infections are the biggest hassle, so I inform everyone I have a monthly arrangement with.
There seem to be a lot more cases lately. (This is slightly off topic, but…) Is everyone hooking up like crazy through dating apps and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? It really feels more common recently.
Last Sunday, I had my first offer, and every love hotel in Kinshicho was fully booked—even in the middle of the day. I ended up wandering around but couldn’t get in. Pretty embarrassing. I should’ve chosen a love hotel that takes reservations. Still, everyone’s really going at it, haha.
As for prevention: get tested right away and know which hospitals can provide same-day results. As soon as possible afterward, gargle, wash your body with soap, and urinate.
Fuu gets doxycycline from a doctor they’re close with and takes it the same day as a precaution after an encounter. Apparently, it can prevent infection about 70% of the time.
Doxy-PEP should be taken within 72 hours after sex.
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There have been a few times when someone I’d been intimate with told me they’d contracted an STI, and I rushed to get tested.
Isn’t chlamydia usually treated with about a week of medication? Most clinics provide the results by the next day, so I’d say eight days.
Are you asking what I explain to my dating partners, and how? When it comes to STIs, I tell them that I get tested regularly and that we should inform each other if either of us contracts one.
What exactly do you mean by “those kinds of cases”? I think it’s possible to contract an STI even without seeing a new woman.
You seem to have a habit of leaving out the key points in your questions. It’s worth recognizing that you may have this tendency, while the other person is listening and filling in the gaps by imagining what you mean.
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