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📅 Apr 19, 2025 04:05
If I change my hairstyle after registering and need to have my photos retaken, is it possible to do the shoot at a different branch? The branch where I registered is quite far from home, so I’d prefer to have it done at a closer branch if possible…
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If I remember correctly, your assigned branch is determined by the address on your ID.
You should be able to take your photo there as well, and if your address has changed, wouldn’t your registration be switched to the branch that covers your new area?
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📅 Apr 18, 2025 12:54
What do you think he really meant by this? I spoke on the phone today with a married man I met at a nightlife establishment—not through papa-katsu—and whom I’m seeing. Him: “I want to see you soon.” Me: “It’s going to be way too long until we can meet again.” Him: “I’ll somehow make time during Golden Week. We have to do it at least once.” Me: “Do what?” Him: “We need to meet at least once. You’ll have a boyfriend again soon anyway.” It...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Though I don’t really know the situation, they’re married too, so even if you made another boyfriend or a FWB, I don’t see the problem.
Since you’re dating, if they say they want to, you might as well go along with it.
It doesn’t come across as bragging—more like an amusing status update.
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📅 Apr 18, 2025 07:32
If a papa (male supporter) asked you to be exclusive and told you to quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), would you all leave? Even if you continued in secret, he’d find out eventually, right?
💬 Answer from ダイ:
Precisely because this kind of relationship is unconventional, I think it’s important to be honest.
So if a man asked me to make him my only partner, I’d initially turn him down.
If he seemed willing to offer a sufficient allowance, I would honestly say:
“I don’t know yet whether our relationship will last. If things continue and I come to trust you, I’ll make you my only partner.”
If that wasn’t acceptable to him, I’d say goodbye from the start, figuring that things woul…
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📅 Apr 18, 2025 01:32
I was close with a man in his late 50s who’s married, and we’d been together for three years. But we started arguing more and could no longer understand each other, so I decided to end things. Even after that, he’s called me repeatedly and sent me lots of messages saying I was the person he loved most and asking if he could at least transfer some money to me. I’m unsure whether I should accept it or how to respond. I had decided to use ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
It may depend on whether you’ve shared private information, such as your address, with the other person.
There’s also a possibility that your personal information could be identified from the bank account you provide. So if they say they’ll transfer the money and ask for your account details, your address or other information could potentially be exposed.
If the other person already knows that information, I think it would be fine to accept the transfer. But if they don’t, …
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📅 Apr 17, 2025 17:06
About Dating Type B2 B2… “Things may develop from the second meeting onward / if we don’t click, I’ll decline after the first meeting.” I believe that’s what B2 means, but if I feel during the first meeting that we’re not a good match, should I avoid exchanging contact information? Even with someone I don’t think I’m compatible with, I exchange contact information out of courtesy. (I also worry that refusing to exchange contacts would b...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
I also suggest exchanging LINE contact information, just in case.
I feel bad about having to tell someone on the spot that there won’t be a next time.
If it’s only LINE, I can always block them if they keep contacting me afterward.
As you’d expect from the women at Universe Club, I’ve never met anyone who made me feel I had to use the block function myself.
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📅 Apr 17, 2025 15:48
Do club staff check social media? On X, I occasionally come across posts from people who seem likely to be Universe members—papa-katsu supporters or women—sharing stories and complaints about their first meetings. Can staff generally figure out which member’s account it is based on the content of the tweets? (Like, “This person had a reservation at that type of restaurant near [station], so this tweet and account must be theirs!” lol.) ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
They probably wouldn’t.
Even if they did, there’s nothing they could really do with information that may or may not be true, and they couldn’t use it to affect the club’s ratings.
They don’t seem to have that much free time, either. Maybe some people do it as a hobby, but it wouldn’t really accomplish anything, would it?
Are you worried because the person asking the question has been complaining on a private account?
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📅 Apr 17, 2025 10:40
He’s very enthusiastic over LINE, but when we meet, he barely says a word. On top of that, he always chooses upscale, quiet restaurants, so I really have to watch what I say. Any advice on what I should talk about?~~~
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Since it’s a hassle, why not just avoid talking?
You could simply smile quietly.
Since he’s proactive on LINE, he probably doesn’t dislike you.
Or, you’re going to his place after dinner, right? In that case, you could suggest a more casual, mid-range restaurant, like:
“This place is a bit too fancy.”
or
“I’d like to try a place like this next time.”
Something along those lines, maybe?
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📅 Apr 16, 2025 14:40
I’ve only done a few first meetings and dinner-only dates through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) before, but even the people who said they’d give me an allowance for the first meeting never actually paid me. They didn’t cover the cost of the meal either, and I’ve never received any allowance. Even when I asked for it, they just said, “I’ll pay you all at once next time~,” and left it at that. Is this something that happens oft...
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
It depends on whether you’re using Universe Club, an app, or something else.
With Universe Club, you receive ¥10,000 for the first dinner, listed as transportation expenses. It used to range from ¥5,000 to ¥10,000, but the rules were revised and it’s now fixed at ¥10,000.
With PATOLO, you can set your own transportation allowance anywhere from ¥0 to ¥20,000, so you’ll receive whatever amount you set. If you don’t receive it, you can ask for it yourself. If you’re uncomforta…
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📅 Apr 13, 2025 15:19
I’m sorry for asking so many questions. I’d really appreciate your answers. When I look at men’s profiles, some display ranks such as “Black” or “Platinum,” while others don’t show any rank. Can men choose whether to make their rank public or private? Also, do reactions or messages from women, such as “You seem wonderful,” have a significant impact on whether men send an offer? Are there men who won’t make an offer unless they receive s...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Men can hide their entire profile or hide their class.
“Nice profile”
Please think of it as something that’s better than nothing, at best.
My profile, Fuu, is currently private. When I made it public, I received some “Nice profile” reactions, but only about two came from women I’d favorited and actually liked. Since it costs money, I decided to prioritize my own preferences. In the end, I make offers from my favorites anyway, so I stopped making my profile public.
The kind…
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📅 Apr 13, 2025 01:38
The other day, I happily accepted an offer from a gentleman, but after the date was finalized, I was a little surprised to see that the restaurant the club sent me details for didn’t really seem suitable for going as part of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—it was a cute, girls’-night-out kind of place. Is this something that happens often? I assume he kindly booked a women-oriented restaurant, but I’m worried about feeling self...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Maybe a close call, lol.
Her profile said she doesn’t eat much, so I usually go with a meal in a private room. This time, I picked a café right by the station, but when I looked it up online more carefully, I found out that 90% of the customers were women.
That was close, that was close. I changed it to a hotel lobby lounge instead.
Even if it turns out I was mistaken, I’m glad I asked this question.
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📅 Apr 12, 2025 00:04
I’m jealous of Mack, the person who answered. I’m in my 50s and can only manage about twice a week. Mack, are you in your 60s? And you can go three rounds? You seem really healthy, too. If you have any tips for staying healthy, I’d love to hear them.
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Date◎Yume-san has left the site, I see. It’s been quite a while since those days in the column, hasn’t it? I’ve been fortunate enough that I could probably leave soon myself, but these days I feel that simply browsing isn’t so bad either.
Being able to finish properly inside a woman seems like a wonderful way to fulfill her desire for validation. I couldn’t be more envious.
I think both people feel happy when their partner is satisfied, and they experience a sense of connec…
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📅 Apr 11, 2025 12:20
On social media and elsewhere, I often see people say that women with good manners and education, classy women, and “ordinary” women are popular in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). But wouldn’t a woman who’s struggling financially enough to consider starting papa-katsu be unlikely to have grown up in an environment where she could develop those qualities? If she’s genuinely new to papa-katsu and poor, wouldn’t she be worried ab...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I sense some malice in the way you’re labeling people so definitively. Are you just bitter toward women who are thriving through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? lol
This is just my definition of “non-professional,” but as far as Fuu is concerned, I’m fine with entering a papa-katsu arrangement as long as she isn’t currently working in the adult-entertainment industry.
Even women who have had a pretty wild past or some experience in that industry are fine—as long a…
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📅 Apr 9, 2025 22:48
Emotionally Exhausted I’m mentally drained. Will papa avoid me if he thinks I’m emotionally unstable?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
“I got fired from my job.
I’m broke, but would you do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with me?
Please do papa-katsu with me because I’m so pathetic.
↓
No wayyy!
It’s the same for everyone.
Papa-katsu doesn’t work just because someone feels sorry for you.
No papa (a male supporter) is going to pay if he’s not enjoying himself.”
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📅 Apr 9, 2025 16:14
How do you usually give someone their allowance? For monthly arrangements, do you pay in cash? Are there any other methods? I’m self-employed and don’t want to use my bank account in a way that might raise suspicions with the tax office, so I currently pay in cash. However, the ATM withdrawal limit is around ¥200,000, and making multiple withdrawals would be both conspicuous and inconvenient. Ideally, the women would report the income t...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
Since Lawson and FamilyMart have a ¥200,000 limit, I usually withdraw cash at 7-Eleven. I bank with Shinsei Bank.
When I need to withdraw more, I do as Paper Airplane says. Sumitomo Mitsui Banking Corporation also allows withdrawals of up to ¥2 million.
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📅 Apr 9, 2025 13:18
How much is the going rate for a one-night, two-day trip? Based on past questions, it seems to be around ¥200,000.
💬 Answer from シアトル:
Calling male members “female members” is ridiculous.
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📅 Apr 9, 2025 01:22
At 148 cm, 75 kg, and a G cup, would it be difficult for me to join Universe? I’m still a virgin, but I’m considering an arrangement with an adult relationship (intimate).
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
It does feel like the person who usually switches between pretending to be a man and a woman when asking questions accidentally made this one a female member from a man’s perspective.
(Maybe they couldn’t decide whether to frame it as a man’s question or a woman’s question?)
First of all:
“148 cm tall and 75 kg”
That’s going to be a major obstacle.
Personally, if she were fun to talk to, had a cute or beautiful face
(though with apps, it’s possible she might look beaut…
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📅 Apr 8, 2025 14:40
I have a papa (a male supporter) offering 600,000–900,000 yen a month for about six adult relationships (intimate). We haven’t met yet. The terms include having unprotected sex while I’m on the pill, receiving the full month’s allowance in cash at our first meeting, not seeing any other papas, and meeting even during my period. Given all that, the amount doesn’t seem very reasonable. Could this be a scam?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> The amount doesn’t seem particularly reasonable.
I’m not sure what you consider “reasonable” or what amount would qualify, but you could simply ask for whatever amount you feel is fair.
If you think around ¥200,000 is reasonable, just tell him that you’d like around ¥200,000 a month.
> Being handed the full amount at the first meeting
If you receive the money at the first meeting, it doesn’t sound like a scam. And if you’re worried about someone disappearing afterward, …
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📅 Apr 8, 2025 11:45
This is about traveling. It’s more of a casual exchange of opinions than a serious concern, so I’d be happy to hear your thoughts. The other day, I went on a four-day, three-night overseas trip with a woman I’ve been seeing for a long time. I’m truly grateful that she’s stayed with me this long and even agreed to travel together. Personally, I find a one-night, two-day trip too hectic. Two or three nights is enjoyable, but with four nig...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I only travel with people I have a monthly arrangement with, or a similar level of closeness, so there’s no extra charge for travel.
Whether we’re intimate or not, and even if I’m on my period, the allowance stays the same. In reality, we’re usually intimate about once every three days when I’m not on my period. I might not do it more often unless I’m asked, though. Maybe I just have a low sex drive.
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📅 Apr 6, 2025 14:22
I made an offer through patolo using the “order date” option, but it’s still being ignored and looks like it may end without going through. I’m a little surprised because every offer I made through Universe Club was accepted. I’m wondering if the proposed meeting place or time was the problem. Would it seem strange to make another offer through Universe Club with a different meeting place or time? Even if the offer is accepted and we me...
💬 Answer from だて◎ゆめ:
Me too, a little!
Well, I thought it’d be better to quit.
You should make offers to the promising new people joining.
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📅 Apr 6, 2025 05:00
A question about dining out: Do any of you go to teppanyaki counters? I’m a man in my 40s, and she’s a beautiful teenager, so we obviously look mismatched. She says she’s perfectly fine walking around with me or sitting at a regular table in a restaurant. For our next date, we decided to try teppanyaki. The chef will be right in front of us, and they’ll be able to hear our conversation. Do you all just gather your courage and go anyway?...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’d avoid it.
I’ve been to both teppanyaki and sushi counters, but I felt people around us were watching pretty closely.
It’s difficult unless the tables are spaced quite far apart.
For meals, I usually choose a table—or a private room if I want to relax.