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I was scouted by a high-end dating club.

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I get the impression that they mainly recruit young women (though I can’t say for sure since that’s just based on what I’ve seen). I hate the way I look, but does being scouted mean I can feel confident about my value—and sex appeal—as a woman?
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Thinking positively seems like a good thing. There’s honestly far too little information to know for sure, but if it helps you feel more confident in your value as a woman—your sex appeal—then I think it’s fine to see it that way. However, if you’re asking what I think about the situation itself, then: Scouts apparently start by approaching a large number of women. It’s common for them to approach 100 women before managing to recruit even one. Since they have to approach 100 women within a few hours, they couldn’t reach that number if they only approached exceptionally attractive women. So I imagine the usual approach is to speak to 100 women who are above average in appearance. Of course, scouts are paid by the establishments—and apparently receive ongoing commissions for as long as the woman remains active—so they won’t approach women the establishments would consider unsuitable. But that doesn’t mean they only approach stunning women. At Universe, for example, women around the GOLD class level may also be approached, and occasionally even women at the Standard level. In other words, they seem to approach women who are attractive enough to be accepted. That said, more attractive women tend to earn more, which means the scout also receives larger payments. The higher a woman’s value—her sex appeal—the larger the scout’s ongoing commission will be. So you may be able to get some idea of how highly they value you based on whether the scout continues to give you personal advice afterward or simply leaves you on your own. If a woman is considered highly valuable, they can introduce her first to a dating club, then to a hostess club, then to a delivery-based adult service, and finally to a soapland. The farther along that path she goes, the larger the scout’s ongoing commission becomes, so the scout may continue giving her attentive advice until she says she wants to earn even more. That isn’t necessarily because the scout is kind; it’s because she’s a golden goose who can make them a lot of money. Since money is deposited every month without them having to do much, they naturally become attentive and willing to advise her. Conversely, I suspect they may not put as much effort into women who don’t seem likely to earn them much. Of course, scouts are people too. Some are kind to everyone, while others introduce you somewhere and then leave you completely on your own.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
You may have good reason to feel confident, but be careful not to get deceived. If someone tells you about a Dubai opportunity or claims you can make a huge amount of money, remember that offers that sound too good to be true can be dangerous. Please don’t forget that the safest and most reliable option is to stick with an established service like Universe Club.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Personally, I’m wary of establishments that advertise themselves as “upscale.” A lot of scouts are unreliable, so I wouldn’t take everything they say at face value—listen with a grain of salt. That said, if they’re encouraging you to register with a dating club, you probably do have the looks for it.
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Andy, a member. I don’t know much about upscale dating clubs, but if there’s a difference compared with Universe Club, then it’s great that you registered with them. You mentioned your value, and since you’re being scouted, I think you should feel confident in yourself. If your goal isn’t to accomplish something specific through this, but simply to gain a sense of validation, then I’d say you’ve been very successful. That’s great! Hope this helps.
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