I had an adult relationship (intimate) with someone I met for the first time yesterday. We had exchanged lots of messages on LINE and talked on the phone, and he seemed like a nice person, so I decided to meet him. In person, he brought me a souvenir and even bought me some fruit, which made him seem very kind.

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However, he said he wanted the allowance for an adult relationship to be 1.5, which I felt was a little low. After negotiating, we ultimately agreed on 2. Everything went smoothly, he paid me, and I went home. He then messaged me on LINE to thank me, so I replied right away—but my message has been left unread for about three days now. He was originally very quick to respond, so I’m wondering if it’s because I negotiated the allowance higher than he wanted. He said he works in a technical profession and runs a small business on his own, but does that mean he doesn’t make that much money? His clothes were quite wrinkled, and his bag looked pretty worn out… Also, I personally thought 1.5 for an adult relationship was low. What does everyone think? I’d really appreciate hearing your opinions.

Answer 1

Do other dating clubs exchange LINE contacts before meeting? Do they call too? If so, that sounds pretty scary. If you think the offer is too low, I think you should turn it down. It’s unclear whether he stopped contacting you because you negotiated the allowance, because he wasn’t attracted to you as an adult partner, or because he’s the type of papa (a male supporter) who only wants a one-time meeting. On the other hand, if you felt he was low-paying, maybe it worked out for the best that he cut things off on his own.

Answer 2

I’m Andy, a male member. I don’t know anything about other dating clubs, so I can’t comment on whether the amount mentioned in the question is low. But if you’re judging solely by the allowance, you might be better off signing up with Universe Club. On Patro, hardly anyone is asking for that level of allowance, so you may attract a lot of offers as a result. Just something to keep in mind.

Answer 3

That may be par for the course at other dating clubs. Next time, negotiate by saying you don’t need the fruit or souvenir, so you’d like that portion in cash instead. The reason he didn’t become a repeat supporter may be that you were either a dead fish or turned the encounter into a complete bloodbath.

Answer 4

I don’t have any particular opinion about other people’s allowances. On dating sites and the like, I often see people asking for an allowance of 15,000 yen.

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