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📅 Apr 5, 2025 18:31
I’m considering re-registering with the club, but what’s the current atmosphere like at Universe Club? When I used it before, there were many gentlemanly men, but after reading posts and reviews on this forum, I’m wondering if things have changed… I’d appreciate any feedback!
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’ve been a member for five years, and honestly, the questions haven’t changed much.
It hasn’t gotten better or worse. At the end of the day, it’s still papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
You probably just happened to receive an offer from a papa (a male supporter) you considered a gentleman during your earlier time doing it.
Since Japan’s economy as a whole is declining, the number of wealthy papas may gradually decrease over the long term.
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📅 Apr 5, 2025 17:09
I’m thinking about registering again for the third time, and I have a couple of questions! 1. Will male members be told that it’s my third registration, or will it simply say “re-registered” no matter how many times I sign up again? 2. Are there any other dating clubs besides Universe that you’d recommend for women in the Gold Class? And please don’t say, “If you’re not beautiful, you might as well use an app.” Sorry!
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Since it’s only a re-registration, I doubt they’d notice it was your third time unless they were paying especially close attention to your profile.
I can’t speak for the other dating clubs, but I think this one is the safest. Why not restart here and with Pato at the same time?
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📅 Apr 1, 2025 17:28
About the profiles of female members on Universe. How much do women usually write in their profiles—the section where they can freely add comments? I write things like a self-introduction, my personality, what I envision for a date, and “I’d love to talk with men like this!” I also revise it from time to time, but I haven’t received any offers or favorites, which feels pretty discouraging. I’ve heard that male members place more importa...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I looked at the 11 newest women with over 100 favorites, and only one of them had written a comment.
That one comment was 111 characters long.
I also noticed that, when searching through the women’s listings, very few had the “Comment from the woman” section displayed. Women who haven’t written one don’t have the section displayed at all, so I was worried it had been discontinued without my realizing it and even asked another staff member about it.
Regardless of the number…
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📅 Mar 31, 2025 11:20
I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). When meeting for a meal as part of the arrangement, should I make a reservation every time? Is it considered bad manners or off-putting to meet first, ask what they feel like eating, and then find a place spontaneously?
💬 Answer from 負け男:
For a woman I’m meeting for the first time, I’ll make the reservation myself.
With my monthly arrangements, they usually make the reservation. One advantage of having the girl book it is that it lowers the chances of a last-minute cancellation.
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📅 Mar 30, 2025 21:14
Is there a Sugar Mommy too?
💬 Answer from カズ:
If your English is poor, you don’t have to force yourself to write in English. This is basic middle-school English.
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📅 Mar 30, 2025 20:31
I’ve only exchanged messages with this papa, and for our first meeting, he suggested watching a movie at his place for two or three hours. He offered an allowance of 10,000 yen and said there would be no adult relationship (intimacy), so I agreed to 10,000 yen since there wouldn’t be any intimacy. But then he specified that I wear flimsy loungewear that’s basically like underwear. Is this normal?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
What do you think?
Why would you accept an offer to meet at his place?
You got lucky. It’s fortunate that was all that happened.
Aren’t you scared?
You need to be more careful about your safety. That’s an offer you should’ve turned down.
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📅 Mar 30, 2025 10:50
I’m curious why the allowance differs between “生中” and “生外.” Why is that?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Well, maybe it’s something people in their 20s just can’t understand yet. You might get it in another 15 to 20 years.
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📅 Mar 30, 2025 09:27
What would be a reasonable allowance? Could you tell me the going rates for Platinum and Gold women?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Patro lists the amounts women are looking for, so it may help as a reference.
Some women are fine with a lower allowance if the man is young or a handsome older guy.
Others have a set minimum amount.
You’ll get a better sense of it once you start making offers, so at first, think of it as tuition and try making plenty of offers.
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📅 Mar 29, 2025 23:52
Quite a few men—there are several of them—present their desired terms as a six-hour full-time adult relationship without protection. Honestly, it’s far too mentally exhausting for me. Even if I agree once, I can’t continue and end up turning them down. At a bathhouse that involves penetration, say, for four hours...
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📅 Mar 29, 2025 23:51
Regarding stingy papas who try to get a better deal than they would at a sex service There are quite a few men who have approached me through Universe (more than one) and propose terms like meeting directly in a room at a cheap business hotel’s day-use rate, with no tea or meals outside, and spending four or six hours doing a full-time adult NN arrangement. Honestly, it’s just too mentally exhausting. Even when I accept once, it never c...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Why don’t you just tell him you’re not comfortable with it?
You need to say from the start, “I’ll be leaving after four hours.” Once you agree to it, that becomes the default. Are you really going to keep going for six hours?
Also, having a meal with someone you don’t even like while worrying about other people’s eyes sounds exhausting. So if it’s four hours directly in a private room, I can kind of see how that might work…
With Fuu, it also depends on confirming the woman…
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📅 Mar 27, 2025 19:15
About Long-Distance Papas A few of the papas who support me live far away. I made the effort to see them at first, but it’s gradually becoming a burden, and I’m torn about whether to tell them I want to end things. I live in a fairly remote area of Kyushu, and even though the papas in Tokyo, Sapporo, Kanagawa, Osaka, and elsewhere are wonderful, visiting them takes around six hours each way. Honestly, it’s becoming physically exhausting...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
Because of my line of work, I don’t want to meet anyone locally, so I always travel to their area.
It’s usually about three to four hours each way, so I meet up once a month, or twice at most.
Sometimes I make it a day trip, but I also enjoy traveling alone, so I’ll occasionally stay overnight and do some sightseeing.
That said, if it takes more than six hours each way, I feel that meeting once would be fine but maintaining the arrangement would be too much of a burden, so…
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📅 Mar 27, 2025 11:52
Has anyone discussed in advance what they would do if the woman became pregnant? If so, what arrangements did you make? If not, have you decided what you would do should that situation arise? I’d appreciate hearing from both male and female respondents.
💬 Answer from ダイ:
I always use protection, so we’ve never discussed it beforehand.
If it did happen, I’d suggest a DNA test, just as others have said.
It would be an extremely rare situation, but if the child really were mine, I think I’d ask her to have an abortion.
We’re not in love or having an adult relationship (intimate), so I don’t think there would be any conflict if I suggested that.
In that case, I would cover the cost of the abortion.
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📅 Mar 25, 2025 16:00
I’m a man who does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’m seeing a woman I’m close with in an adult relationship (intimate), and although we’ve only known each other for about three months, we’ve already met around ten times. She also says she doesn’t need an allowance when we’re just having dinner. Apparently, she works at a hostess club as well. One day, she asked me to come to the club, so I did. I told her that even if I spen...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Maybe it’s best not to overthink it and just enjoy yourself…
Some men like hostess clubs, going out with hostesses, and taking things further, while others dislike it (personally, I’m completely not into it…).
Everyone enjoys different things, so if you and the app or hostess get along, that’s probably what matters most.
Since she wants an allowance for an adult relationship but doesn’t want dinner, she seems to have a clear transactional, hourly-rate mindset and probably …
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📅 Mar 24, 2025 08:38
Having spent my youth without much romantic attention, I’d never had sex with a virgin before. Thanks to Universe, I was able to have a valuable experience with one woman. She was in quite a bit of pain the first time, but she got a little more used to it the second time, and reached orgasm from clitoral stimulation on the third. Even so, penetration still causes her some pain. She says she wants to be able to enjoy herself, feels scare...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Wouldn’t it be difficult to develop things right away?
I think you’d need some experience first, too.
I’m not a virgin, either, but I only recently had my virginity taken by another papa. He liked it when I was in pain, applied plenty of lubricant every time, and since it didn’t feel that good, I ended things with him. So I do have some experience.
Unless the papa has a preference for women who are in pain or inexperienced, I think it would be difficult.
Personally, I wa…
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📅 Mar 23, 2025 23:04
My handler made me take out a ¥400,000 loan from a consumer finance company, but they still haven’t paid me back. I want to get it repaid as quickly as possible, and I’m using Wakuwaku. Should I start by posting that I’m looking for an adult relationship (intimate)? I want to pay it all back in one lump sum—should I say it’s for tuition or a scholarship? I’d really appreciate it if someone could give me a rough idea of how to go about i...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Generally speaking, people say fraud is difficult to prove, so fraudsters aren’t arrested very often. But when it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), it seems like people get caught quite quickly.
I think that’s because everything is discussed over chat, leaving behind evidence of the lies. Even if they discussed it verbally, they don’t seem to plan things as carefully as professional scammers would, so I still feel they’d be caught pretty quickly.
The proble…
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📅 Mar 23, 2025 20:39
Will I turn off my favorite papa if I send him another message? I really like the papa I’ve met twice so far. He tells me things like, “You’re cute,” but we haven’t been able to make plans for our next date, and I’m feeling lonely… Here’s how our recent LINE exchange went: P: Let’s go on a trip sometime. ↓ Me: Let’s coordinate our schedules next month. ↓ A few days later Me: When can we see each other next? ↓ A few days later P: How abo...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Don’t send another message.
Wait and see.
Whether he’s lost interest, genuinely busy, or short on money, you should probably be prepared to accept offers from other papas so that you won’t be hurt even if things end with him.
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📅 Mar 22, 2025 01:10
If I’d had a normal upbringing, I don’t think I would’ve started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Bullying. Overbearing parents. Violence. Do people who were raised with genuine love also do papa-katsu?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
The women I’ve continued with on a monthly arrangement are mostly fun, cheerful people who work regular day jobs—office workers, nurses, dental hygienists, and so on.
Some were single mothers who seemed to have had a difficult time raising their children, but when we met, they were bright and enjoyable to be around, so those arrangements continued.
Since it costs money, it won’t continue unless it’s fun for both of us.
So I probably couldn’t do it with someone like the per…
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📅 Mar 21, 2025 09:09
Regarding my regular papa (in his 60s), whom I dated for two years. After repeatedly stalking me and causing all sorts of trouble, he promised recently to pay me compensation for the trouble he had caused, but then never paid and stopped responding. We met at a nightlife venue. He repeatedly asked me to see him outside the club, but I wanted to avoid any trouble from meeting privately. So I explained many times what I could and couldn’t...
💬 Answer from 日月新:
You should consult a lawyer through your city or town hall, ward office, or local government’s legal consultation service.
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📅 Mar 21, 2025 07:47
I’m a woman in my 40s. I’ve never used a dating club or a papa-katsu app before. Is there any demand for women in their 40s in this world? For safety reasons, I’d prefer to register with a dating club if possible, but is it likely that I’d fail the interview simply because I’m in my 40s? I live in a rural area.
💬 Answer from 日月新:
There is demand for certain women in their 40s.
The women who are in demand and the person asking this question are two different people. So whether the questioner is in demand is completely irrelevant.
If a woman in her 40s fails the interview, she’s simply landing on the safer side of things, so isn’t that a good thing?
You won’t know unless you take the plunge yourself, right? Are you saying you’ll try it if the success rate is high, but not if it’s low?
Even with a hi…
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📅 Mar 21, 2025 02:57
What’s the best way to end things with a long-term papa (a male supporter)? Should I tell him by email to avoid any trouble, or meet him in person and tell him directly?
💬 Answer from カズ:
There’s no one definitive way to end things.
And when you say “a long-term papa,” that could mean seeing each other once a month for a year—or practically living together for ten years.
You should probably realize that your question is about as clueless as asking, “What’s the best way to meet a young, cute girl and take her home that same day?”
Personally, I’ve ended relationships through face-to-face discussions, and other times they’ve simply faded away after we stopped …