I cared for my husband for about ten years while he was ill, and he passed away last year. I always eat alone at home, so I’d like to occasionally go out for a meal or spend time together outside—and if we hit it off, perhaps pursue a relationship. I’m not looking to get married.

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I always wear glasses. Would men be put off by a woman who wears glasses?

Answer 1

I suspect there are quite a few women like you, and I believe the demand for this will only continue to grow. However, finding someone here who meets all your preferences may not be easy. Perhaps you could take your time looking on other dating apps as well?

Answer 2

The first half and the second half are completely different topics, so it almost seems like the usual person just wrote it. But if the question is: > Are women who wear glasses likely to be avoided? I think it depends on whether the glasses suit them. If they look good on her, I don’t think she’ll be avoided. If they don’t, it’s not so much that she’ll be avoided—it’s more that she probably won’t receive any offers. Actually, I feel the answer might be easier to find if you replace the word “glasses” with something else. Would you be avoided for wearing a hat? Would you be avoided for wearing a watch? That sort of thing. Of course, if it’s something unusual, I can understand wanting to ask. Even so, wearing something unconventional does make it more likely that people will avoid you. For example, it seems obvious without even asking whether a woman wearing a skull mask would be avoided. Naturally, there may be men who like women wearing skull masks, so some might say they wouldn’t avoid her. But then I can’t help wondering: what good does it actually do to ask?

Answer 3

I’m Andy, a member. As with the others, whether you wear glasses or not makes no difference at all. If you’ve been a member for 10 years, you probably already have a pretty good idea of whether you’ll receive offers, so please make your own judgment. I don’t know your age, so it’s hard to say, but perhaps you could explore other ways of meeting people as well—especially now that you’re no longer married. I hope this helps.

Answer 4

Appearance is what matters here. If you’re not particularly attractive, then things like being cheerful or sexy become important. Even if you brag about how unfortunate your life has been, I’m not going to pay money to someone gloomy. “I’m an unfortunate, pitiful papa. Please date me without an allowance.” → That’s a definite no here. I think you should look for a place where there’s demand for what you offer. It doesn’t seem like this is the right place for you. Find somewhere that suits you.

Answer 5

Glasses are perfectly fine. If you feel self-conscious about them and they bother you, why not try wearing contact lenses? Since you’ve been widowed and are single again, I think you’d be better off with an age-appropriate dating app or something similar—one that doesn’t assume marriage is the goal. Most of the women registered are between 18 and their mid-30s.

Answer 6

Glasses don’t bother me, but I tend to avoid older women.

I cared for my husband for about ten years while he was ill, and he passed away last year. I always eat alone at home, so I’d like to occasionally go out for a meal or spend time together outside—and if we hit it off, perhaps pursue a relationship. I’m not looking to get married.

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