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📅 Mar 21, 2025 02:57
What’s the best way to end things with a long-term papa (a male supporter)? Should I tell him by email to avoid any trouble, or meet him in person and tell him directly?
💬 Answer from カズ:
There’s no one definitive way to end things.
And when you say “a long-term papa,” that could mean seeing each other once a month for a year—or practically living together for ten years.
You should probably realize that your question is about as clueless as asking, “What’s the best way to meet a young, cute girl and take her home that same day?”
Personally, I’ve ended relationships through face-to-face discussions, and other times they’ve simply faded away after we stopped …
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📅 Mar 21, 2025 00:05
I just want to die. papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is making me mentally ill. Thankfully, I’ve been introduced to dozens of men through Universe Club. Although I’m often cut off after just one or two meetings, I’m currently doing this six or seven days a week, meeting one person a day. Some of the papas are kind, and I genuinely enjoy talking with them over meals. But when it comes to sex, I feel depressed and desperately want...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Isn’t it exhausting to think that you’re not allowed to do this or that?
“You mustn’t have an affair.”
“You mustn’t die?”
Why is that, exactly?
Because people around you say so?
I think you should be allowed to choose for yourself.
Is it really that wrong?
A friend of mine died by suicide.
Everyone kept saying that if you stayed alive, something good would happen, and they were angry with her.
But she was the one who was suffering.
She looked peaceful after she died.
I th…
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📅 Mar 19, 2025 00:56
I met the married man I’ve been seeing for the first time in a while today. I didn’t know he was married when we started seeing each other, but after I found out, we stopped meeting for some time. After several years together, he filmed us being intimate for the first time. He suddenly suggested it, which surprised me. When I asked why, he said it was because my body is beautiful no matter how many times he sees it. He may have filmed i...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you’re going to stop seeing him anyway, while keeping your hands clean—
he could probably make money by posting the footage of you two together on FC2 or Pornhub behind a paywall.
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📅 Mar 17, 2025 08:33
When making an offer to a female member, how much weight do you place on the star rating—the club’s assessment of her? If a woman seems wonderful based on her profile and photos but has a low star rating, would you pass on making an offer? Or do you use the number of stars as your main basis for evaluating her? I’m asking because I’d like to learn from everyone’s experiences and insights. Thank you in advance.
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Basically, I prefer making offers to women with fewer stars, like Type B or A.
On the other hand, I usually don’t make offers to five-star women.
One-star women are my absolute favorite.
The club coordinator contacted me about one woman, saying:
“She’s only someone Mr. Loser could handle, so please consider making her an offer.”
So I offered her a letter date, but she’s canceled on me eight times in a row on the day of the date, and I still haven’t met her even once lol…
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📅 Mar 16, 2025 23:55
If the allowance were the same, would you rather do it with protection or without?
💬 Answer from ダイ:
Since there are risks involved, if the allowance is the same, normally you’d use a condom.
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📅 Mar 15, 2025 17:49
This is about an app other than Patro. I’m meeting someone who says they’ll consider an adult relationship (intimate) if we hit it off after the first meeting. What should I say if I want to turn him down? Would he be too hurt if I just said, “I’m sorry”? lol Maybe I should use my period as an excuse?
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
Whenever I read questions like, “What should I say?” I find myself, much against my will, feeling murderous (lol).
There are two reasons:
1. It’s embarrassing—they’re asking a bunch of strangers about something that only benefits them, without using even a single cubic centimeter of their own brain.
2. “I don’t want to hurt the other person” really means “I don’t want to get hurt myself,” yet they’re completely unaware of that.
If the person asking had asked me the same qu…
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📅 Mar 14, 2025 23:16
I’ve been seeing a papa (a male supporter) a few times since the end of last year. Lately, he’s been saying things on LINE like, “I’ve seriously fallen for you,” “I want us to date,” and “I want to make you my wife.” When we talked on the phone the other day, he even asked, “How much would I have to give you every month to have you all to myself?” I thought it would be a hassle if he got too serious, so I’ve been wondering what to do. I...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Thanks to Mac, I don’t have to take troll posts seriously and answer them, which is a big help.
Still, why are they so obsessed with this Q&A site?
Do they have nothing better to do?
I’m sure there are message boards besides this one, so maybe they come here because nobody takes them seriously elsewhere, while this site is full of sincere people who will actually respond to them.
I’m not sure how to answer made-up questions, but:
> So it’s safe to assume he’s not genuin…
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📅 Mar 14, 2025 17:32
It’s been six months since I first joined Univers. Including Univers and Patlo, I’ve met six women so far—two C, three B2, and one B1—and I’d like to share my impressions. I’m still seeing two of the C-type women and one B2-type woman for adult relationships and meals. Overall, I’ve noticed something and would love to hear about everyone else’s experiences. C-type women are generally registered on the assumption of an adult relationship...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
I haven’t been able to have an adult relationship with every B1 woman, but I’ve honestly never felt that I was being scammed by someone claiming to be an A-type.
Even with C-type women, they have the right to say no. I think the higher the hurdle, the order is A → B1 → B2 → C → D.
I’m a veteran member and feel like I’ve probably made offers to nearly 50 women.
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📅 Mar 14, 2025 09:02
I’m the one who asked the question earlier! Since there wasn’t anywhere to leave a thank-you, I wanted to post it here. Thank you so much for explaining everything in detail! ^^
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📅 Mar 14, 2025 08:02
What’s the going rate for the allowance if we just meet for tea or a meal the first time? Including transportation expenses, what would the usual total be? Also, I’d appreciate it if you could tell me the going rate for an adult relationship (intimate) as well. Sorry for all the questions, but I’d be grateful for any answers ( ; ; )
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Rather than focusing on the going rate, you can either be upfront about how much you want or see what they offer first.
Since it falls somewhere between adult entertainment and dating or marriage, I think either approach is fine.
It can be anything from a little spending money to a substantial amount. There are no obligations, quotas, or anyone getting angry at you, and I think it’s a world where any style can work, depending on the two people involved.
You can take the ad…
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📅 Mar 14, 2025 04:25
【How can I receive offers?】 Thank you as always for your help. I joined a week ago, although it took me a while to get the hang of logging in and setting up my profile, so today is effectively only my fifth day of being active. To receive offers, I’ve been reading men’s profiles carefully, showing genuine interest, and sending messages that encourage them to reply with questions. Men do add me to their favorites, but I haven’t received ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It looks like all you can do is wait.
I’m not sure whether you’re using a club or a patron-matching service, but wait about two more weeks. If you still don’t receive any offers, unfortunately, it probably isn’t a place where you’re likely to get offers.
You may need to try somewhere else. If you really want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you might have to lower your standards a little and try platforms like Happy Mail or X.
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📅 Mar 13, 2025 13:04
I’ve fallen in love with a papa even though I know he isn’t financially beneficial to me, and I just can’t bring myself to cut ties with him. I have a papa I’ve known for five years and been seeing for two. We met at a hostess club. At first, it was an allowance-based relationship, but he found out that I was making about ¥1 million a month working nights, that I had given him a fake name instead of my real one, and that I was practical...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Well, words can limit your actions, so as long as you keep saying you can’t break things off, I guess it won’t happen.
Maybe you’re the type who gets fired up by being on the edge and likes things to stay just barely within the limits.
They’re both just papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so the papas may not take it as seriously as you think.
Be careful.
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📅 Mar 13, 2025 09:31
I previously mentioned here that someone I had met several times suddenly canceled on the day of our meeting and then stopped responding. After that, I signed up for another site to look for someone new, but I found a profile so similar to the person who had canceled that I wondered if it might be the same individual. The username, profile, occupation, available locations and days, and even the wording of the messages were nearly identi...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You’ve already been left hanging once and feel awful about it. Even if you confronted him about how you feel, you probably wouldn’t feel any better. It’s pretty clear that it would only lead to more unpleasantness—possibly even not receiving your allowance—and pile more pain and frustration on top of what you’re already dealing with.
It’s just papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I think it’s best to accept that last-minute cancellations and suddenly cutting off contact…
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📅 Mar 11, 2025 12:43
I’m the one who asked the question below. “Please let me know your address if you have one” was a typo. Sorry for the confusion.
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📅 Mar 11, 2025 12:26
A waitress at a family restaurant I often go to confessed her feelings for me. She’s a college student and is about to graduate and start working full-time. I usually meet women through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I’m not sure how to interact with someone who’s more “ordinary” and about 25 years younger than me. We’re going out for a meal soon, but should I give her money for transportation, or would that actually be ru...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Does anything really change when it comes to papa-katsu girls? Or are you just that careless with them? Aren’t you making sure they have a good time? Wouldn’t it be fine to treat them the same way and make it enjoyable?
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📅 Mar 10, 2025 23:43
【About Overnight Stays】 My regular papa has invited me to stay over many times. Since I’m grateful for his ongoing support, I couldn’t bring myself to refuse and have stayed over or traveled with him a few times. But whenever we spend a long time together, I feel so uncomfortable and drained that it becomes unbearable—almost like I’m living through hell. (It’s often from around 7 p.m. until 4 p.m. the next day.) Since then, I’ve started...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’m probably not one to talk, having once spent the night hooking up repeatedly, mistaken it for genuine feelings, and then been dumped by her, but—
This isn’t something you should keep doing if it’s becoming too much. If you’re struggling, I think it’s okay to say so.
If you don’t, they might misunderstand things like I did and think, “She’s fine with this” or “She must like me.”
Ah, I wonder if I’ll meet another woman who’s okay with staying over…
Being able to do it se…
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📅 Mar 9, 2025 23:25
Is this just an excuse? I can only see men as money. Even if he’s handsome, I don’t feel anything if he has no money. Even when someone tells me, “You’re cute” or “I like you,” I still feel that money is the most important thing—everything, really. I feel like I’ve become a rotten person. The world really does revolve around money, doesn’t it?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you want money, it’s lucky that you can see people as money. I honestly don’t understand why you think that makes you “rotten.”
Most women struggle because they can’t see money in everyone, so if you look at it positively, being able to tolerate any papa as long as the money is right makes you the ultimate papa-katsu girl.
You might as well go for the gross old men nobody else will deal with, as long as they offer a generous allowance.
Getting lots of allowance would ma…
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📅 Mar 9, 2025 13:53
I feel like I’ve suddenly started looking much older now that I’m in my 30s. I’ve often been complimented on my looks and figure by both men and women. But since turning 30, I feel like I’ve lost my spark—and, more than anything, my confidence. Do I still have a chance of receiving offers?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Sex drive may increase and female hormones may decline, but as male hormones become stronger, you might actually feel more energetic, don’t you?
There are plenty of confident, forward women in their 40s and 50s among my peers.
The average age of Japan’s population is around 48, and the largest age group keeps getting older each year. There will be more energetic papas in their 50s and beyond, and women’s demand will rise with age too.
Let’s both do our best to stay youthfu…
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📅 Mar 8, 2025 00:35
I’m the woman who previously asked for advice after a man told me he wanted to end things. Thank you for your responses. After speaking with him in a little more detail, I learned that one reason he had continued seeing me for so long was that the club staff introduced me to him, and I was the first woman he made an offer to. As he was introduced to more women, the number of relationships he had gradually increased until he found himsel...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
I really hope you’ll rejoin Universe Club.
You seem like an absolutely wonderful person, so I’m sure there are plenty of papas who would love to meet someone like you.
I’m still active myself because I’m hoping to meet women like you.
I was wondering what Paper Airplane meant by a “convulsive orgasm,” and then I remembered—yes, they do exist.
Maybe about one in fifty women, I’d say.
Their legs straighten out, and they really do stop making sounds. They’re moaning right u…
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📅 Mar 7, 2025 17:58
He ended things with me. I’d really appreciate hearing the opinions of the men here. He told me, “I always have a great time when we’re having dinner, but afterward, when we go to the hotel, I somehow got the impression that you weren’t really comfortable with it.” We would usually enjoy dinner for about two hours, then spend another two hours at a hotel. Personally, I do enjoy intimacy, and I believe I did my best to accommodate what h...
💬 Answer from 綾瀬なな:
I think the man simply got bored, found someone new he wanted to make an offer to, and moved on. That’s all there is to it.
Don’t let something like that stress you out. Just wait for a new offer.
What makes someone decide to end things?
Personally, I think people who register with a dating club tend to get bored easily, so when someone stops responding, I just assume they’ve lost interest.
In response to Paper Airplane’s answer…
After reading Maezawa’s answer:
**Update*…