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May 29, 2025 11:43
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think you should be fine, so try registering again.
The average age of male members has been going up, and compared with five years ago, I get the impression that more women in their 30s and 40s are registering. So even if you’re in your 30s, you should be fine as long as you still look attractive and youthful.
Personally, Fuu occasionally dates women in their 20s, but those relationships don’t last long. The monthly arrangements that continue tend to be with women in their 30s.
Lately, I’ve been getting more satisfaction from someone in her 30s who’s fairly attractive and amazing in bed than from someone in her 20s who’s extremely beautiful but not very responsive.
Though I do still see women in their 20s occasionally.
Unless you’ve aged dramatically, you’ll probably be fine.
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At Universe Club, there are women in their 30s who joined and received a five-star rating. Some women in their 40s also get plenty of offers.
So ultimately, it depends on your potential.
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顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Andy, a member.
As a rule, I only make offers to women under 30, but there are plenty of registered women over 30, including Black and Platinum members, so I think there’s definitely demand.
In the past, I made offers to two women around 40 through Pato, and we only had first meetings.
The reason was that I became interested because they had clearly read my profile carefully and sent me thoughtful messages. They were also consistent in communicating and replied courteously. They were attractive in person as well, just as they appeared in their photos and videos.
Hope this helps.
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
The best woman I’ve ever offered an arrangement to was in her late 30s.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a loser who can’t stop thinking about Mac’s Platinum girl.
Maybe I should make another surprise visit to Mac’s office, lol.
I’ve made offers to women up to age 34 before. Surely there’s demand for me from someone other than Mac, right?
As for me, I’m supposed to meet a woman who should really be Premium Black, but Universe Club completely got her rating wrong. She’s a Type C, which I’m not great with. I’d prefer to keep the first meeting dinner only.
I only have one Type C arrangement that’s still ongoing. I hardly ever make offers in the first place. This time, though, she was exactly my type, so I went for it.
I also have another source of excitement: I might finally meet the woman who keeps canceling at the last minute this weekend. She’s a letter-date girl, and she’s been canceling on me for about six months, so we still haven’t met even once. She’s a Black girl.
Though, realistically, she’ll probably fail to show again. I’ll be happy if we can meet sometime this year. She keeps canceling but invites me every time, so she’s somehow kind of cute. She probably has a mental illness.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Unlike matching apps, women around 30 tend to be quite popular at upscale dating clubs.
It feels as though the two have naturally divided into different roles: matching apps are for finding someone to have fun with, while dating clubs are for finding a mistress or long-term companion.
Of course, some men at dating clubs are also looking for someone casual, and some prefer women who are as young as possible. Even so, quite a few men specifically prefer women around 30.
With that in mind, I think 35 can still reasonably be considered “around 30.” And even women in their 40s receive offers if they’re attractive and appealing, so it’s fair to say that 35 is still far from too old.
I can’t say for sure how difficult papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) would be, but I do think it’s possible to meet men through Universe Club.
That said, regardless of age, a woman still needs to have qualities that make her appealing.
Conversely, there are also women around 20 who don’t receive any offers.
Obviously, it’s not a world where just anyone will do.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
It depends on your looks, personality, technique, and chemistry, but in my case, 35 would just about be within my range. The bar is higher than for women in their 20s, though.
If you had someone who stayed with you for six years, you must meet the minimum standards at least. Some men prefer mature, composed women, so I don’t think you need to give up.