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📅 Dec 24, 2025 02:05
I previously asked for advice here, and I’d like some more guidance about the married man in his early 50s I’m currently seeing. He wants to spend the entire time we’re together having sex—six hours straight—and I’m fed up with it. The allowance is generous, so I kept putting up with it, but it became too much mentally. I made excuses about our schedules and didn’t see him for two months. I met him again yesterday for the first time in ...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
As for whether the questioner’s papa is guilty of papa-harassment, I’d say it’s clearly papa-harassment. But there are countless papas like that.
Just as women look for good value for their money and time, men do too.
I believe that being a papa is all about being used by women. That’s why I even tell the girls they can call me an ATM.
Since last night was Christmas Eve, this ATM was extremely busy. I met five girls yesterday alone, so I didn’t have time to go on dates. I …
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📅 Dec 23, 2025 21:35
I’m a female member who signed up at the beginning of this month. During my interview, I was told that profile photos are normally retaken every six months, but that I could request a new photo session outside that schedule if I asked. I haven’t received many offers, so I’d like to have my photos retaken. Is there a general guideline for how many months after the initial photo session this can be done? I’d feel bad asking the staff to r...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Since you weren’t prepared, you’d probably get the same result even if you had your photos retaken.
Most memberships last six months, so I think you should spend those six months preparing before going in for another shoot.
Work hard for six months to:
- Lose weight and slim your waist
- Define your face line
- Learn natural makeup
- Find clothes that suit you—ideally classy, feminine styles like GRL dresses
- If you have refined features, try brands like Darich
That’s ju…
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📅 Dec 22, 2025 23:18
I can’t reach ejaculation during the second round. That’s the kind of relationship we have, and thankfully my partner asks for a second round every time, so I oblige. But I end up drenched in sweat and completely worn out without being able to climax. They seem really satisfied, which makes me happy, but I can’t help feeling a little frustrated… I heard that tadalafil can shorten the refractory period, so I started taking it. It definit...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
What’s expected is—
I envy you.
With Fuu, the basic pattern is going for a second round. I feel like I could probably manage a little more, but it’s rare to be allowed to go more than twice.
Some things you could try are abstaining from masturbation for a few days before meeting, varying the location, technique, position, and angle, or getting excited with sexy lingerie or cosplay.
With Fuu, each woman has certain positions and angles that feel best for her, so if you fin…
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📅 Dec 22, 2025 11:00
I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for the money, but being intimate with older men is far more unpleasant than I imagined. To cleanse my palate, I end up using women’s escort services and having sex with all kinds of handsome men. Sometimes I hate going to sleep while the memory of a disgusting older man is still fresh, so I’ll go straight to one of those services after meeting him. I end up spending the money I earned ...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
We “old guys” are basically sewer rats—we’ll complain that a PJ’s private parts smell even though our own breath stinks, then end things after just one meeting.
If you can’t put up with that, why not work at a men’s esthetic salon?
Once you become a popular therapist, you can make around ¥2 million a month doing “clean” services.
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📅 Dec 22, 2025 07:29
I’m thinking of signing up here, but are the perks really that different between the various membership levels?
💬 Answer from だて◎ゆめ:
Each class has its own characteristics.
After that, meet with them, hear what they have to say, and decide for yourself.
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📅 Dec 21, 2025 21:43
Because of my work schedule, I’ve only ever met people in the evenings, but starting next year, I’m thinking of trying daytime meetups too. There are plenty of private dining spots for evening meetings, but it’s surprisingly difficult to find them during the day. How do you all handle this?
💬 Answer from アンディ:
When I meet someone in the evening, we sometimes dine in a private room or at the counter, but during the day, it’s usually just tea at a coffee shop. Staying out for too long gets tiring.
During the day, we either part ways after tea or go from tea to a hotel. At night, it’s drinks followed by a hotel.
I’m not really a fan of lunch either, but I meet people with clear boundaries and a set approach.
As everyone has mentioned, there are probably plenty of restaurants with p…
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📅 Dec 21, 2025 19:44
Many technical intern trainees, particularly those from Vietnam, seem to be attractive and also interested in earning more money. Despite this, why is it that none of them register with dating clubs? Is it because the industry hasn’t done enough to reach out to them or provide information? Or could they face some kind of penalty—such as being sent back to their home country—if their registration or work were discovered? I’d like to unde...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Scary, really scary.
It’s probably safest not to get involved.
If anything happens, the authorities may start scrutinizing the whole operation, and the system itself could even be shut down.
Someone I know is a board member of an organization that accepts technical intern trainees. Just one trainee getting pregnant becomes a major incident—it ends up in the newspaper, and they’re pressed over their supervisory responsibilities by the authorities. It sounds like a real ord…
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📅 Dec 21, 2025 14:05
People have been discussing the difference between C and D, but what’s the difference between B2 and C? Based on the answers below, it seems like what C involves would also apply to B2.
💬 Answer from マックさん:
When the degree to which a woman’s legs are spread is expressed as an angle, 0–30 degrees is A, 30–60 degrees is B1, 60–90 degrees is B2, 90–135 degrees is C, and 135–180 degrees is D. The previous question was, “Once it goes beyond 90 degrees, aren’t the legs already spread, making the distinction pointless?” This time, the question is more like, “Is there really any point in dividing things so finely around 90 degrees?”
Let’s try explaining why questions like this come up …
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📅 Dec 21, 2025 02:41
Is there really any need to distinguish between types C and D? I’m a C type, but from a woman’s perspective, C and D are basically the same, aren’t they? Since I say that I’m willing to go to a hotel on the first date if we hit it off, I feel like I can’t really refuse. It would be incredibly awkward, and it could even lead to problems with the man. Also, with dinner only, the allowance might vary depending on the person. And since I’m ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
This is from the official Universe Club website:
- Dating Type B2
【From the second meeting onward】 The first meeting is dinner only.
There’s a possibility that the relationship may develop from the second meeting onward.
- Dating Type C
【Depending on the chemistry】 If you hit it off, there’s a possibility that the relationship may develop from the very first day.
- Dating Type D
【Proactive】 If you make a smooth invitation from the very first day, there’s a possibil…
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📅 Dec 20, 2025 10:19
I don’t understand the difference between Relationship Types C and D. How are they different? Both involve that kind of relationship from the very first meeting, right? I’ve heard that Type D is unpopular. If the arrangements are basically the same, why is that?
💬 Answer from 負け男:
I think D types are unpopular for these three reasons:
1. They seem like they sleep around a lot
2. The papa has a hard time turning them down
3. There’s zero sense of pseudo-romance
Older guys are a sentimental bunch, so they want the real thing. If genuine romance isn’t possible, they at least want a simulated romance—even if it’s just an act. D types give the impression that they’re rejecting that kind of pseudo-romance. It’s a matter of perception, though.
The di…
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📅 Dec 18, 2025 21:03
I’m unsure whether it’s okay to take a 21-year-old college student to New York. I promised to take a college student who lives on her own with little interference from her parents. My concern is that if we went without telling her parents, there might be no one to contact in case something happened. We’re planning to stay at a fairly nice hotel, but it’s not the kind of hotel a college student would normally stay at, so she probably wou...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
At 21, you’re legally an adult, so it seems like parental consent shouldn’t be necessary.
If something happens, and you’re married too, then if there’s an accident or anything, it’ll all come to an end eventually anyway, right? lol
If you worry about every little thing, what are you going to do about the fact that you haven’t told your parents you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? lol Just kidding…
Economy class is definitely tough because there’s so littl…
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📅 Dec 17, 2025 14:00
Is it too much to want business class when traveling overseas with my papa on a 12-hour flight? I really love my papa, and he’s wealthy, but he can be a bit stingy. He always flies economy and only uses business class occasionally. We’re planning to travel abroad over the New Year holidays, but business class is extremely expensive during that period, so he booked us economy. This will be my first overseas trip with him. Before the trip...
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
If you want to go on an overseas trip, then I suppose it could be considered a luxury. But if you don’t actually want to go and are only going because your papa (a male supporter) wants to, then I don’t think it’s a luxury.
It doesn’t sound like you’re in a relationship where you can discuss your preferences and decide together what kind of date to have.
(If you’re genuinely struggling but can’t say anything, you must be putting up with a lot for the money.)
Try not to le…
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📅 Dec 17, 2025 11:19
I’m Kida, the representative of Universe. I’d like to take this opportunity to ask the respondents here for their opinions. This anonymous papa-katsu question box has been around for nearly 10 years now, and I feel that regular updates are necessary for it to continue developing. However, because it uses Universe Club’s domain and system, it’s difficult to make major independent changes. After giving it some thought and hearing opinions...
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Everyone,
Thank you all for your answers!
I completely forgot that I’d asked the same question back in November, so I ended up asking it again.
Sorry for being such an attention seeker!
I’m glad I got to hear everyone’s perspectives again. Many of you went out of your way to mention that you were offering encouragement, but both you and I understand that it won’t be easy.
It might end up being something deliberately offline—at a pub, for example—or perhaps something like…
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📅 Dec 16, 2025 23:34
I’m not sure whether I should speak to men using polite language or casually. I often find myself wanting to get closer to men I’ve met a few times. But I usually end up continuing to use polite language, so after meeting a few times, would it be okay to ask him whether he’d prefer me to keep speaking politely or switch to a more casual tone, and then talk casually? What do you think?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I prefer speaking casually, so if this looks like it might be a long-term arrangement, please switch to a more casual tone early on.
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📅 Dec 16, 2025 17:42
Thank you in advance. I’m a female member who just registered this month. I have a few questions about Letter Dates. - In your experience, roughly what percentage of Letter Dates actually lead to meeting in person? An estimate is fine. - Approximately what percentage of all Universe Club members use this service? - When I went to my interview, I didn’t really understand what Letter Dates were, so I declined. Does declining leave a bad i...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you want to receive even a few more offers, I think it’s fine to allow letter dates as well.
Usually, you exchange LINE contact details directly and communicate that way, so it’s pretty much the same as Pato. If you’ve used Pato, you’ll know that cancellations at the last minute and suddenly losing contact can happen there too.
That said, even clubs have same-day cancellations.
Since the offer fee for a letter date is lower, if you don’t want to deal with stingy papas, …
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📅 Dec 16, 2025 14:30
What’s the appeal of making an offer to a B1 woman who’s just signed up and has no experience?
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
It can be a fun relationship when both people are looking for a B1-type arrangement—that’s all.
If the man is looking for a C-type arrangement, the woman may become fed up if things progress to an adult relationship and he then expects it every time afterward.
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📅 Dec 16, 2025 12:57
Is the transportation money I receive for dates (around ¥5,000–¥10,000) subject to tax? Since it’s considered transportation expenses, would it be tax-exempt? I’m embarrassed to say I don’t know much about this, so I’d appreciate any advice.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Yes, it is subject to taxation.
First, regarding Universe Club, the rules for transportation expenses have changed. It’s now a flat ¥10,000, rather than ¥5,000–¥10,000.
That said, it’s okay for the papa (a male supporter) to give more than the standard amount—for example, ¥20,000–¥30,000 for dinner only (no intimacy).
(It’s not okay for the woman to demand more than the standard transportation expense. Also, this “transportation expense” is actually compensation for accom…
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📅 Dec 16, 2025 00:42
The papa (male supporter) I’m seeing tried to book me for all day on December 23, 24, and 25, around Christmas. Do you think he’s genuinely falling for me?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
The chances are pretty high.
You may also be partly at fault for making the questioner catch real feelings, so be careful.
Or maybe you’re just bored.
Fuu is bored too. I try to be considerate of my monthly arrangement partners, so I don’t schedule dates on event days.
Last New Year’s Eve through New Year’s Day, I had a monthly partner who spent the holidays with me. Yes—after seven years of papa-katsu, Fuu finally caught real feelings for someone (gross, I know).
Then, …
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📅 Dec 15, 2025 16:55
What type do the men here usually make offers to? I was previously registered as Type C, but after changing to B1, I stopped receiving offers.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
C is the best.
After all, this is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Most papas sign up because they want an adult relationship (intimate).
In terms of value for money, Fuu would only make offers to C.
There are women who’ll go out for meals or drinks without having to pay them.
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📅 Dec 15, 2025 14:10
When looking through the members’ page, I sometimes see profiles marked “available exclusively to secret female members.” How are arrangements with women whose profiles aren’t publicly listed handled? Do staff members approach you individually with recommendations, or do they suggest someone if you ask for advice? And do women who choose to remain secret tell the staff something like, “Please only introduce me to men like this”?
💬 Answer from ダイ:
When I was a Black member, a staff member introduced me to a secret woman.
I think you should become a Black member too and ask your assigned concierge for advice.