Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Jan 6, 2026 22:39
Nice to meet you. I’m just an ordinary university student attending school in Tokyo. I currently have one papa (a male supporter) whom I’ve been seeing for about two and a half years. We have very similar tastes and values, and I always have a great time with him. I’m also happy with our relationship as it is. He’s a single man in his 50s, and we meet about once or twice a week. In addition to covering my rent and utilities, he also giv...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
Isn’t around 50,000 yen per meeting pretty standard?
If you’re meeting six times a month, that seems a little low to me.
I don’t need gifts, so personally, I’d be happy with things like Starbucks gift cards or a massage.
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📅 Jan 6, 2026 22:26
It must have been quite a while ago, but I remember a respondent named Megumi. I was wondering how she’s doing. I was reminded of her after seeing a question about women in their 30s. There were also people like Marika. I find women whose inner beauty shines through more appealing than girls who are simply young, and conversations with them are much more fulfilling. The fact that they’ve stayed in my thoughts says a lot. I hope they’re ...
💬 Answer from 迷わない70代:
Megumi… that brings back memories. She was such a wonderful person. Thanks to her, I had the chance to meet Mac and Kazu too, and our playful adventures as a group of four are fond memories. Kazu, thanks again for driving back then.
The only thing I regret is that, even though we spent so much time together, things never quite progressed to anything more intimate… haha.
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📅 Jan 6, 2026 21:35
I know it varies from person to person, but I wanted to ask: What kind of women do you think receive the most offers? I’d appreciate any insights you can share—for example, age, profile type, overall vibe, hairstyle, body type, and so on.
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
Just going by the fact that she gets a lot of offers, she seems like someone within reach of many male members, so perhaps:
- Her class doesn’t go as high as Black
- Her type is B2 or C
- Her allowance doesn’t seem particularly high
- She doesn’t come across as a professional escort
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📅 Jan 6, 2026 17:59
I registered as a member two years ago and met several wonderful papa (male supporters). I then took a break because of job hunting and school, and when I tried logging in again after such a long time, I couldn’t log in for some reason… Does your membership get automatically canceled if you take a break from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? I was also hoping to update my profile photo.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If you don’t respond to the six-month renewal confirmation, your membership will automatically be canceled.
We do this because keeping women registered when they’re no longer actually available to receive offers would be unfair to the men, and we also don’t want it to seem as though we’re falsely inflating the number of female members.
There’s no penalty for being removed in this way, so if you schedule re-registration, you can register again almost like having new photos t…
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📅 Jan 6, 2026 12:38
How many months after registering do offers usually keep coming in? It says six months is the guideline for getting new photos taken, but would four months be too soon? I haven’t heard anything at all since around the three-month mark.
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
If you discuss it with the staff, they may be willing to accommodate a reshoot.
It’s also possible—though only slightly—that they may offer advice or make allowances for things besides a reshoot, so it might be worth messaging them on LINE, even if you don’t expect much.
If your feedback so far has been positive, there’s also a chance the staff may recommend you or introduce you to someone.
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📅 Jan 5, 2026 23:14
Dear Maezawa-san and everyone, I’m a female member in my 30s whose profile you kindly took the time to review after I accepted Maezawa-san’s generous offer. I’m writing here to express my gratitude to you and everyone else. Maezawa-san and everyone, thank you very much for your thoughtful responses. I’ll take your feedback seriously, analyze my strengths and weaknesses, and work on improving myself. In particular, since aspects such as ...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
This pattern is interesting, so I hope some of the other female members will follow suit. I’m also open to reverse offers. My answers may be blunt, but I’m extremely kind to anyone I make an offer to.
> The main photo is unbelievably awful.
I agree. It’s practically malicious—or at least feels like harassment. The staff said they “did their best,” but I honestly wonder what exactly they did their best at.
With the right presentation, you have the potential to attract many …
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📅 Jan 5, 2026 18:01
I’m the one who asked earlier about the appeal of women in their 30s and what they’re looking for. Maezawa-san and everyone, thank you for your answers earlier. Taking you up on your kind offer, I contacted the staff member currently assisting me via LINE and asked them to have Maezawa-san review my profile. If possible, I’d really appreciate it if you could check whether there are any issues with my profile. I’d be grateful for any fee...
💬 Answer from 日月新:
Your comments from women, papa-katsu interviews, and videos all really bring out your personality. In both a good and bad way, you seem like someone who won’t disappoint people when they meet you in person.
As others have already pointed out, it’s hard to say that your content will resonate with a wide audience. But you don’t seem like someone who can put on an act or pretend to be tougher than you are—you come across as very genuine.
You’d be better off valuing the connect…
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📅 Jan 5, 2026 14:41
I’ve been reading past questions to learn. In a question from a few days ago, a woman in her 20s said she received favorite registrations from 30 men shortly after signing up, which really surprised me. I’ve been registered for a month, but only seven men have added me to their favorites. I’ve received just three offers. I’m in my 30s. I wondered if the number of favorites and offers drops sharply once you’re in your 30s, but in a past ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Conversation skills, a comfortable sense of closeness, and that perfect feeling of being a couple that comes from experience.
Being proactive and responsive in an adult relationship (intimate), looking attractive enough to rival women in their 20s despite being in their 30s, and the contrast in their figure.
That feeling of being accepted, and how they fulfill my need for validation.
Those are probably the main things.
With beautiful women in their 20s, I also feel like I…
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📅 Jan 5, 2026 01:12
I have a question about how things usually progress. If I receive an offer, would it be considered unacceptable—or make me unpopular with the man—if I do a first meeting, a second date that’s dinner only (no hotel), and then include a hotel from the third date onward? Also, do you think there’s a chance I could receive transportation money for the second date? I’m inexperienced, so I’d appreciate any advice.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
There are different relationship types, so as long as you choose one that matches your expectations, you shouldn’t get any complaints from your papa.
Excerpt from the Universe Club website:
A Type: **Dinner Dates** — Basically, you’re looking for dates involving tea or a meal. You’re not looking for a relationship that includes intimacy.
B1 Type: **Take It Slow** — After going on several dates and seeing if you click, the relationship may develop further.
B2 Type: **Start…
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📅 Jan 4, 2026 15:05
I’m a Type C. I unexpectedly got my period on the day of my first date. I’m thinking of wearing a menstrual disc and going ahead with the date. It seems like an adult relationship (intimate) is still possible while wearing one, but should I tell him that I have it in? He might notice something when touching me with his fingers, and there’s also a chance of leakage, so I’d feel bad if he’s sensitive to blood. If I should tell him, I’d ap...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
I’ve never used a menstrual disc myself, so I’m not familiar with the actual experience or finer details of using one. I hope you understand. That said, from your question, it seems that what you’re concerned about isn’t so much whether it’s possible, but rather being considerate toward your partner.
Considering that you’re a C-type woman and this is your first date, I don’t think there’s any need to bring up your period right from the start. It would probably feel most natu…
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📅 Jan 2, 2026 20:17
I keep getting sticker-only LINE messages from a guy who’s genuinely fallen for me. A Christmas sticker at Christmas, a New Year’s sticker at New Year’s—nothing else. On ordinary days, he’ll just send a link to somewhere he wants to go next, without any text. He’s the type who expects me to keep the conversation going by asking things like, “What’s this?” or saying, “It’s Christmas, isn’t it? Let’s meet again sometime!” Lately, it’s bee...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
I’m a seriously lovestruck older guy, so I sent New Year’s greeting stickers to almost all the girls. Typing out a message is such a hassle.
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📅 Jan 2, 2026 01:32
Do you think some people might feel that, because they climax too quickly, it would be a waste to give an allowance for an adult relationship (intimate)?
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
If he takes advantage of finishing quickly and considers the job done, you might feel like your allowance was wasted.
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📅 Jan 1, 2026 11:50
I’m thinking about signing up. Every year, I gain about 5 kg over the New Year holidays, but I lose it again within about a month. Would it be better to register after I’ve lost the weight? I’d like to sign up as soon as possible, but I’m unsure whether I should get in shape first.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Is it better to register once my weight is back to normal?
Yes, it would be better to wait until your weight is back to normal.
The reason is simple: they take your photo during the interview.
They often decide whether to view your full profile based on that photo, so if you want men to look at your profile details, it’s best to have the most flattering photo possible. After viewing your full profile, they decide whether to make an offer.
How much gaining 5 kg affects y…
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📅 Jan 1, 2026 00:48
I’m a woman in my 20s and just joined. It’s only been a few days since I registered, but thankfully, more than 30 people have already added me to their favorites. However, I’ve only received one offer so far, and I’m starting to worry that no more will come. (Of course, I’m very grateful to have received even one offer...) I’ve been sending “You seem lovely” messages to people I’m interested in and updating my calendar, so I feel like I...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Since it’s the year-end and New Year period, the papas aren’t very active either, so for now, just wait and see.
If 30 people have added you to their favorites, you’ll probably get some offers.
If not, then prepare and try again in six months—retake your photos and revise your profile comments.
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📅 Dec 31, 2025 09:05
Have any men ever had an offer turned down? There’s someone I’d like to turn down, but I’m worried I’ll stop getting offers if I do. Why do I have to accept every offer?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You’re allowed to turn down an offer. Women can say no in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), too.
However, if you’re going to decline at the offer stage, it’s probably best to explain your reason to the club. Otherwise, it could hurt the club’s impression of you and possibly affect the comments they leave on your profile.
For example, you could say that you’d rather not proceed because you work in the same industry.
Turning down one offer won’t make the offers stop …
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📅 Dec 31, 2025 07:15
Does it feel good for a man to continue when a woman isn’t wet?
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
Generally speaking, when a woman isn’t sufficiently lubricated, intimacy is more likely to feel burdensome or painful for her than pleasurable. A woman’s body is very honest: natural lubrication usually comes when she feels good, safe, and relaxed. That said, the body can also lubricate reflexively as a form of self-protection even when she isn’t enjoying herself, so being lubricated doesn’t necessarily mean she’s completely into it emotionally.
As for how it feels for men, …
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📅 Dec 30, 2025 20:39
I’m curious about the order in which the women are displayed... I search with the sort order set to “Registration date — newest,” and at first the women are shown in ABC order. But when profiles for D and E are added, I’d expect them to appear as DEABC. For some reason, though, the order sometimes ends up looking like ADBCE. It’s not a major problem, but there isn’t a setting to display them as DEABC, is there...?
💬 Answer from システムエンジニアの会員:
Speaking from an engineer’s perspective, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the system.
It’s likely that the person had registered earlier, but their profile was only shown to you later.
Even after someone registers, it’s fairly common for their profile to remain hidden while staff introduce them to select members first.
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📅 Dec 30, 2025 17:48
I’m a male member in my early 60s and have been with the club for about a year. I started noticing some gray in my pubic hair and would pluck it whenever it bothered me. But lately, there have been more and more hairs to pluck, and it’s becoming a hassle. If I keep going, I’ll end up completely bald down there, won’t I? So I wanted to ask: To the men: I assume no one dyes it, but do you just leave it alone? Pluck the gray hairs? Or get ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I have a few white hairs mixed in too, but they don’t really bother me.
I get a haircut before meeting a woman, and keeping it short and even makes them much less noticeable.
I’m very careful about body hair, haha.
I get my eyebrows trimmed at a salon every month.
I always make sure my nose hair isn’t showing by using a nose-hair trimmer.
I shave my beard.
I trim my armpit hair and VIO area regularly.
There are some good full-body shavers out now, so I recommend g…
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📅 Dec 30, 2025 17:13
I’ve been registered for less than a month, so I’m still a beginner. The first woman I met (C-type) was wonderful, and we had an adult relationship on our first meeting. Would it be rude to go straight to a hotel for an adult relationship the second time we meet? If we have dinner first and then go to a hotel, I worry that the long time commitment might be a burden for her. I feel she might actually prefer going straight to the hotel, s...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
When you meet for the second time, try asking:
“Are you hungry?”
“Where would you like to go?”
This lets you spend the time in a way that suits her. You can probably tell from her reaction if she only wants to go to a hotel.
Some girls will say they’re hungry and take you somewhere they want to go. Others will say they’re not hungry or “anywhere is fine,” and, after you ask a few more questions, may end up stopping by a convenience store before heading to a hotel.
I think…
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📅 Dec 30, 2025 14:45
When will you reopen after the New Year holiday?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
We’ll be open from 11:00 AM on January 3, 2026.
Please send your offer by 8:00 PM today. We’ll be closed starting tomorrow.