I ended up deactivating my account, but I registered as B2 about a year and a half ago and was fortunate enough to receive around five offers.

The following is, to put it mildly, the ramblings of someone with rather unusual tastes, so please don’t take it too seriously. Basically, re-registering means she’s been thoroughly used by some slightly chubby, balding guy—plain and simple. And of course, those are exactly the women I like. At the same time, though, I can’t help wondering, “Why did you come back?” So even if it’s a lie (though it really shouldn’t be), my particular fixation is that I’d like her to write about why she came back, embarrassingly as it may be. Naturally, I’d also want to know why she went from B2 to B1. In short, it’s been eight years since I joined, and the reason I’ve never made an offer to a re-registered woman, despite my unusual tastes, is the one described above.

> Since I’m re-registering rather than registering for the first time, will that leave a slightly bad impression? I don’t think re-registering in itself gives a bad impression. However, men who remember that you were registered before may have already decided not to make you an offer back then. Unless something has changed significantly, they probably just won’t consider you after you re-register either. > If I move down to B1, will I get fewer offers? It’s not that you’ll get fewer offers because you moved down. There are simply fewer offers to women in B1 to begin with. So, if you move to B1, I think it’s best to assume that the number of men who would want to make you an offer will drop to around one-tenth. For example, if five men make offers at B2, one-tenth of that is 0.5, so you might or might not receive an offer from one man. That said, some women do receive offers even at B1, so your appearance will probably be the biggest factor. By the way, why do you want to move to B1 this time? I’d be curious to know the reason. Is it because having to make a decision by the second meeting at B2 feels too difficult? After seeing that recent question about having an adult relationship on the third meeting, I thought it would be better to change the rules so that women had until the third meeting to decide at B2. Or is it that more women have started doing that? Still, most women can usually tell as soon as they meet a man whether he’s someone they could go for or someone they can’t. So I do think the current B2 system, where you’re expected to decide by the second meeting, is fairly reasonable.

You had five offers, but re-registered as a B1, so I’m guessing you currently have a papa (a male supporter) you’re continuing an adult relationship (intimate) with, but want to earn a little extra through dinner-only (no intimacy) dates—is that right? Or, if you don’t currently have a papa, maybe you tried an adult relationship (intimate) but didn’t enjoy it much, so either you ended things or he did. Either way, it’s hard to imagine your past history being particularly appealing. It might be a good idea to include a comment like: “When I registered last time, I realized I couldn’t make a decision based on just one dinner-only first meeting. I also ended up inconveniencing the gentlemen who kindly made offers, so this time I’ve registered as B1 to take things more carefully. Thank you for your understanding.” You’ll probably need to offer some kind of explanation.

I don’t really focus much on the different relationship types, so I made my final decision based on the club’s introduction comments. During this recruitment period, I also made an offer to someone who had re-registered. She was married, and things seemed good for both of us—or at least I thought they were—but she was busy with work and family, so we couldn’t keep things going smoothly. (Maybe she actually broke things off with me?) People who re-register already know how the club works, so they’re easier to deal with.

Even if you re-register, my impression of you won’t change. I’m glad to have you back. That said, regardless of whether you re-register, I simply think “B1” will result in fewer offers.

I don’t think things will get that much worse after about a year and a half. I hear that switching to B1 may reduce the number of offers somewhat. On the other hand, if you’re thinking about dating or an ongoing arrangement, choosing B1 may help prevent you from feeling a strong expectation for hotels or an adult relationship every time you meet. If you’d rather receive an adult allowance every time once things progress to an adult relationship, I think staying with B2 would be better. If you want to enjoy not only the allowance but also the dates and the relationship itself—and have various wishes fulfilled—I think switching to B1 would be better. It seems best to choose based on where you want to place the emphasis in the arrangement: meals, places to go, things you want to do, investments, the allowance, and so on. For women who are the B1 type, their preferences tend to be something like: - Meal dates: every time, or almost every day (4–2.30 times/month) - Day trips: once a week - Adult relationship: 1–3 times a month (0–3.4 times) If that sounds like you, you’re a perfect fit for B1. If you eat two meals in one day, does that count as 4.50 times, too?? I think it also depends on whether you like drinking, and whether you’d be happy or unhappy if you were invited to company drinking parties. Additional note: For men making an offer to someone who has switched to B1: There’s absolutely no need to give any reason for switching to B1. If you write one, it may actually make it harder for men to send an offer because it gives them preconceived ideas. I’d simply assume that she switched to B1 because she didn’t click with men as a B2, so it wouldn’t bother me.