I’m a 36-year-old woman registered here.

Don’t be sad >< As I wrote before, you’ve entered the most wonderful—oops, sorry!—and attractive stage of womanhood. The next ten years are precious, so enjoy them without any regrets. This may be beside the point, but from reading your post, I can sense what a refined and lovely person you are. I’d love to get to know you.

My main target is the same as Mac’s. My monthly arrangement partners are between 19 and 29. I no longer have anyone in their 30s. But since everyone says women in their 30s are the best, lately I’ve been looking almost exclusively at women in that age group. I just haven’t come across anyone with a face I’m particularly attracted to, so I haven’t made an offer yet. This is the first time I’ve heard about subdividing women by age. I’d heard the term “mid-thirties,” but I didn’t actually know what ages it referred to. I learned something new. I hope I can find a really sexy woman in her 30s. I’ve been involved with women in their 30s several times, but my impression is that they’re not much more sensual than women in their 20s.

Maybe it’s because I’m past sixty, but whether they’re women from Uchu Club or men and women in general, I can only see people in their thirties as wet-behind-the-ears kids. You shouldn’t have time to sit around sighing. My life isn’t anything I can really boast about, but when I started my business at thirty, a senior colleague gave me a calligraphy panel that said, “For the first ten years after founding a company, you’ll be completely absorbed in the struggle.” There were times when I was on the verge of bankruptcy, so I didn’t even have time to sigh. You’ve got an enormous amount to do—seriously, you really do. And this may sound intimidating, but your forties and fifties come at an accelerating pace, and before you know it, you’re an old lady. What’s more, people’s character and capacity begin to diverge dramatically from their thirties onward. In my case, I spent most of my forties living off what I had built up in my thirties. I often think I could have pushed myself a little harder. The gap between me and the business owners who were once my rivals grew enormous. But there’s no point dwelling on the past, so over the past few years I’ve been trying to get my motivation back. It hasn’t gone all that well, though (laughs). By the way, compared with when I was in my thirties, my personal assets have increased a hundredfold. Oh, that last part was just me bragging.

The way it’s being broken down into more specific categories is interesting. I had no idea. I guess it’s because women in their 30s have been looking exceptionally good lately. Maybe labels for women in their 40s will start appearing soon too. I do feel myself getting older, but this is the most fun I’ve ever had, so why not enjoy it? As far as Fuu is concerned: My work has settled down, and my position is reasonably secure. I have plenty of time, so I’ve started a new business—and I’m having fun. Thanks to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), my list of partners keeps growing. My bedroom skills are improving more and more, and I’m becoming able to bring my partners to climax. I can be with women on a level I could never have reached when I was younger. My children have all left home, so life is calmer now. And since my wife cheated on me first, I suppose I’m free to enjoy papa-katsu as much as I like. I guess I’m more fulfilled now than ever. I’m also working hard on anti-aging. I’m strength-training and aiming for the best body I’ve ever had. I’ll have visible abs soon—my body is becoming even better than it was when I was in college. I think women would find the view during missionary pretty good, apart from my face, at least that’s what I’m aiming for, haha. I take care of my skin, watch what I eat, limit my alcohol, and pay attention to body odor—I’m often complimented on being odorless. For a clean, well-groomed appearance, I recently had some moles removed. Now I’m looking for a good clinic that can remove facial spots with laser treatment. Let’s work hard on anti-aging together. We’ve still got plenty of mileage left. The 36-year-old woman I have a monthly arrangement with is already absolutely amazing—top class. She’s the first person who has been in papa-katsu and registered with a dating club longer than Fuu, haha.

I’m a 71-year-old old guy, and I was looking for women to date until the end of last year. During that time, I also made an offer to a 40-year-old woman. In my experience, even women around 40 can look remarkably youthful when they take good care of their skin. She was married and quite busy with work, family, and taking care of her children, so she couldn’t continue seeing me, but she really didn’t seem her age. Compared with women in their 20s, of course they may not look exactly as they did back then. But I don’t think women in their 40s necessarily make the man they’re meeting feel their age. I was the one who felt my age. It was hard to get anyone to date me! I can understand why Universe’s statistics show that men in their 70s receive more offers per year than men in other age groups. Also, I’ve seen women in their mid-30s looking for men around their own age or even younger. As a strategy, why not try targeting an age group that’s less popular?

I’m in my 60s, so I’d like to think I understand the sadness that comes with growing older. Still, I do feel that with this kind of activity, there comes an age when you should gracefully step away. The timing will be different for everyone, of course. Until then, though, both men and women should give it their all while they’re still in their prime, so they have no regrets. For women, it’s fairly easy to tell when their shelf life has expired—when offers stop coming, or when they can no longer receive the allowance they want. Men, on the other hand, have to be careful and keep themselves in check, or they may end up exposing their aged appearance through the power of money. Though maybe I’m already doing exactly that. My activity has been slowing down lately, so to motivate myself, I sent offers through Univ and Patro to three women around 20. One was B1, which was a complete failure. The next was B2, and we made arrangements for an adult relationship on our second date next week. Yesterday’s was C, and things went smoothly—we became intimate right away. She had a great figure, so I decided to take her to a mixed-gender hot spring bath for the first time in ages, show her off a little, and bask in the moment. I just took her there, and she was happy too, saying, “That was such a rare experience!” So, all’s well that ends well. I wonder if the woman I made plans with for next week will actually show up. She was far more beautiful in person than in her photos. When I asked, she said she used to work at a hostess club but wanted to quit, so she started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). It seems like an interesting situation, so I’d like to dig a little deeper. I currently have three women in their 30s, but I’ve known all of them since they were in their 20s. I was the one who introduced two of them to their first intimate experience. A lot of the male respondents here say, “Women in their 30s and 40s are great,” but I just can’t bring myself to make offers to women over 30 with the intention of getting close to them. I’ve been wondering why, and I think it’s because I can clearly see them beginning to feel the effects of aging—the very “aging” the questioner mentioned. I don’t want to confront my own aging, and at the same time, I don’t want to see a woman in front of me struggling against it. Does that make sense? It’s not that I don’t want to see aging itself; I don’t want to see someone grieving over it or fighting against it. That inevitably makes me feel as though my own existence—far older and already deep in the midst of aging—is being completely rejected. So, to the questioner: it’s probably better not to show an older man like me that you’re anxious or troubled about aging. If I met a woman in her 30s who genuinely didn’t care about getting older at all, I might even want to have some fun with her.