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📅 Dec 30, 2025 12:01
It seems that women I’ve been introduced to no longer appear in the listings after a certain amount of time. Is that how the system is designed? I once heard that some men don’t like the idea of the woman they’re seeing remaining registered on the site, so I wondered whether this might be a consideration on the club’s part. What is the actual policy? I’d appreciate any insight.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Yes, exactly.
This is a measure against troublesome male members who say things like:
“I told you to quit the dating club, so why are you still on there?”
After a formal offer is made, your profile automatically becomes hidden from view.
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📅 Dec 29, 2025 17:07
Why are mistress clubs illegal while dating clubs are legal? Are dating clubs subject to law enforcement as well?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Where’s your source?
Well, it’s probably just misinformation.
I’m not a legal expert, so this is strictly my personal opinion, but:
Soliciting prostitution is illegal.
Dating clubs, on the other hand, merely introduce people to each other. Since they aren’t arranging prostitution, they aren’t illegal.
With delivery services and soaplands, too, the official explanation is that two people who met through the business happened to engage in an act with mutual consent. In ot…
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📅 Dec 29, 2025 16:32
Who should cover the dry-cleaning cost if a man accidentally stains my coat? This is urgent, and I have no one else to ask, so I’m hoping for some advice here. The other day, I went on a two-day, one-night trip to a certain theme park with a man I’ve known for many years. On the first day, due to his carelessness, about 200 ml of a chocolate drink spilled onto my coat. I couldn’t wash it at the park, so I wiped it with wet tissues, but ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I’m guessing it was probably a favorite coat of yours, so I’m sure it was upsetting that the man never brought up paying for the cleaning.
That said, I think he simply doesn’t understand that kind of thing. He apologized and wiped it off, so he probably thought the matter was settled.
He seems to be the kind of man who doesn’t make the connection: “I got it dirty” → “It needs to be dry-cleaned.” Ideally, I think you should gently ask him to cover the cleaning cost, but…
Yo…
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📅 Dec 29, 2025 10:27
They’re running a campaign right now, but if I take advantage of it and buy points or a passport, will my coordinator think I’m being cheap? I was too busy to sign up at the end of the year, so I’d like to meet various women in the new year. Ideally, I’d like to stay with one person for a long time, but I’ve realized you never really know until you meet someone. Even when I find someone I like, I can’t help wanting to meet new women whe...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Since this is a promotional campaign, I think the people at the club that organized it would be happy if you made full use of it.
You won’t know what a woman is like until you meet her and try dating her, so I don’t think you’ll find a regular partner unless you meet plenty of women.
This isn’t marriage or a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, so I honestly don’t understand why people are so fixated on staying with one person long-term.
If you want to spend your life with j…
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📅 Dec 29, 2025 10:05
The birthday of the woman I’m seeing is coming up in January. What kind of gift would make her happy? Would it be better to ask her directly rather than surprise her?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
For birthdays and gifts, you should ask the woman what she wants most and give her that.
I don’t think a surprise from an older man she doesn’t even like would make her happy at all.
What women really think is probably: “If you’re going to surprise me, just give me the money.”
So Fuu takes the opposite approach and doesn’t do anything unnecessary. I don’t give birthday presents or plan surprises. I leave that to their boyfriends or generous (well-paying) papas, haha.
I si…
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📅 Dec 29, 2025 09:38
I’ve been seeing a woman for five months now, but she still speaks to me politely. She occasionally slips into casual speech, but since we only meet about once a month, it feels like we go back to square one every time we see each other. I don’t have any particular complaints, but I would like to feel a little closer to her. How can I get her to speak to me more casually? We’re only nine years apart, so it’s not that big of an age gap.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Men and women may think differently.
If a woman doesn’t want her papa to develop serious feelings for her and wants to keep a certain distance, it probably isn’t fair to make all kinds of demands of her.
Even though we’re the ones providing the allowance, I don’t think an arrangement will last unless we at least understand and respect the kind of relationship she wants.
Speaking casually doesn’t necessarily mean you’re close. Observe her carefully, and if it doesn’t feel r…
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📅 Dec 28, 2025 10:13
If I waited at a hotel and several older men showed up on time and left afterward, I could put up with a pay-per-meeting allowance of 100,000 yen. But it’s a waste if that’s all I can do in one day. Universe is so inefficient. We’re only going to do that anyway, and it’s not like I want to go on dates with them. By the way, is it still not done? The question I sent on the 26th. It had an answer attached, though lol. Mr. Maezawa must hav...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
There are three questions from the 26th with answers marked as hidden, but all three have different IDs.
If we can see hidden answers, does that mean they’re people who are registered here as answerers, at least in name only?
Around Christmas through the end of the year, or just before the Obon holidays, their papas go back to their families, and they’re left with no one to spend time with. I guess that leaves them feeling miserable, so they come here, lash out, and try to …
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📅 Dec 27, 2025 23:19
Whenever I go downtown, men always hit on me, so I think I’m fairly attractive and popular. At my daytime part-time job, I was harassed by other women. I feel like I’d be more comfortable working at places like concept cafés, where they’ve offered to hire me. I’ve only tried working nightlife jobs temporarily in the past, but I was harassed there too. The owner said it was because people were jealous. Since I’m bullied both during the d...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I used to be a civil servant and was doing fairly well.
Now I’m self-employed and work from home, so I have a lot of freedom. There’s no bullying here. Starting your own business or working from home can be really enjoyable.
P.S.
Katase-san, you put a lot of effort into writing this, so let’s publish it.
P.P.S.
Thanks for publishing it.
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📅 Dec 27, 2025 23:01
Seeing the discussion about low allowances, I wanted to chime in. I’ve been trying this approach myself for a little while now: instead of agreeing on a certain amount per adult relationship, set a monthly amount, with the first month paid upfront. There are various things to be careful about, but why don’t we make this the standard going forward?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
No matter how you read it—down the columns or diagonally—it sounds nothing but like a scammer’s pitch.
Date-san, we’re both getting older, so let’s be especially careful not to fall for romance scams, wire-transfer scams, or anything similar.
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📅 Dec 27, 2025 18:43
I withdrew a few years ago and later re-registered. Since life had gotten busy and I was receiving fewer offers, I felt it was time to withdraw again. The first time, I meant to put my account on hold but ended up withdrawing, so it wasn’t intentional. Even so, is it okay to re-register after having withdrawn twice already…? Also, if I do re-register, would my previous rank carry over, or would it be reassessed—up or down—based on how I...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Is it okay to register again even though I’ve already withdrawn twice?
I think so.
There aren’t any specific rules against it, and the staff won’t be bothered just because you’re registering again.
That said, if you canceled at the last minute before, they may refuse your application.
> If I register again, will I keep the same rank I had back then?
They’ll take your previous class into consideration, but it won’t carry over automatically.
For example, if you were P…
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📅 Dec 27, 2025 18:17
Is there such a thing as mama-katsu here? I was just wondering. The other day, I saw a young, handsome guy walking around affectionately with a curvy woman who looked to be in her 50s, and it made me think it might be mama-katsu. Are there clubs for that too, like Universe? I’m curious where people meet.
💬 Answer from アンディ:
It probably wouldn’t be Universe Club, though.
That said, if mama-katsu becomes more common, either Universe Club will develop something for it, or another service will. If it looks like a viable business, Universe Club might enter the market too.
Young handsome guys would show up for interviews with their faces out in the open.
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📅 Dec 27, 2025 16:31
I’m going on an overnight hot-spring trip with someone I’ve met about three times. We usually meet on a pay-per-meeting allowance of ¥80,000. Since this will be a two-day, one-night trip, would asking for around ¥200,000 be reasonable? He’s a nice guy, so I don’t want to ask for too much, but honestly, when I consider whether it’s worth the time, I’d like to receive about that much.
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
First of all, a one-night, two-day hot-spring trip is completely different from a typical date.
When you consider the travel time, number of meals, amount of time you’re committed, and the level of attention required, it’s impossible to treat it as the same as your usual pay-per-meeting dates.
Even so, a man thinking, “We usually meet for 80,000 yen, so this time should just be an extension of that,” is honestly being extremely self-serving.
If you calmly calculate the tim…
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📅 Dec 27, 2025 11:42
If you turn down several offers from the club, do they stop sending you offers? I’m starting to feel like that might be the case. Are women basically not supposed to be selective and just accept every offer that comes their way?
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
Feel free to be selective. It’s not fair to the man if you meet him reluctantly.
That said, canceling at the last minute will hurt your rating, so if you’re going to turn someone down, do it from the start.
New women join every day, so offers will naturally decrease over time anyway.
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📅 Dec 27, 2025 11:03
I’ve genuinely fallen in love with my papa (a male supporter). He has a wife and child—apparently, the child is still only three. Is there any chance he might choose me instead? And what do you think I could do to make him develop genuine feelings for me?
💬 Answer from 深呼吸:
Are you trying to destroy a family?
No one will be happy because of that.
Depending on the circumstances, you could end up being harmed as well.
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📅 Dec 26, 2025 20:26
Are women in their 20s really that popular? I’m in my early 30s, but since it seems like everyone prefers younger women, I’m starting to lose confidence. I’m considering Universe because it seems safer than looking through an app, but I get the impression that it may be a bit intimidating. For reference, my stats are around 112.
💬 Answer from アンディ:
I’m narrowing my search to women in their late 20s to 30, so I’m not currently sending offers to women in their early 30s. That said, there are plenty of women in that age group registered, including many with excellent reviews.
I’ve never used any app other than Patro, so I’m not exactly sure what you mean by “safety,” but when it comes to papa-katsu, I imagine there’s a world of difference between looking through Universe Club and using an app.
Since both men and women st…
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📅 Dec 26, 2025 18:22
About people who want to make dates last longer. The other day, I met a man through Universe who had only met three women so far. We spent 1.5 hours having dinner and 2.5 hours at a hotel, making sure to set aside the four hours specified by Universe. After spending about four hours together, I went home, but then he messaged me saying, “Hopefully next time we can take things a little more slowly.” Apparently, he wants to spend more tha...
💬 Answer from 深呼吸:
He’s a ridiculous guy who always wants to make the dates last longer. Sorry for being a pain, lol.
The first meeting is limited to four hours, but there shouldn’t be any set time limit from the second meeting onward.
As long as we’re both happy with it, that’s all that matters.
That’s the beauty of “free-form dating” at a dating club.
From a man’s perspective, places that impose strict limits on time and activities can get lost, lol.
So I’m making the most of this free-f…
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📅 Dec 26, 2025 13:43
So even if you’ve already secured a generous papa, you still can’t help getting frustrated when you run into a stingy one. Basically, you’re saying you wish the going rate would go up, right? I think everyone feels the same way. A cheap girl might think, “Five万 just for doing it?! Amazing!” But in the adult entertainment industry, you can make more than that without even doing it. Is papa-katsu really sustained by amateurs and stingy ol...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
You seem pretty pent-up, but I think very few men actually want to meet a professional woman.
Wouldn’t someone looking for that simply go to a sex-service establishment?
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📅 Dec 26, 2025 13:40
I totally understand the complaints about a ¥50,000 allowance despite the rising cost of living!! I’m active here at the Platinum level, and there are quite a lot of men who offer ¥50,000. Of course, I turn those people down immediately and only see men offering ¥100,000 or more on a pay-per-meeting basis, but I do wish the overall going rate would rise to around ¥100,000–¥150,000. I think things would be much safer and more pleasant th...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
The person asking the question is too good to stay in Japan—go to Macau, Singapore, or even Dubai and make some money.
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📅 Dec 26, 2025 08:56
Despite the rising cost of living, I’m wondering why the going rate for the allowance has stayed at 50,000 yen. What do you call these older men who keep offering 50,000 yen in a world where things that cost 100,000 yen five years ago now cost 200,000? Even adult entertainment establishments have raised their prices. Hasn’t Universe, in a sense, become a place where you can get the same thing for less than at a hostess club?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> I’m concerned that the going rate has apparently been 5 all along.
It hasn’t always been 5.
Did you perhaps assume that comments from Q&A respondents saying, “I get 5,” represented the going rate? They were only talking about their own situations. It’s incorrect to treat the experiences of a few men out of thousands of male members as the market rate.
Alternatively, if you, the questioner, have only ever received 5, then that is simply the allowance offered to you—not th…
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📅 Dec 26, 2025 07:54
There’s a man who keeps inviting me out just for dinner even though I’m listed as Type C. Is it okay to report him to the club? Why doesn’t he make an offer to Type A women? I wish men would follow the rules: B1: after a few meetings B2: definitely from the second meeting C: from the first meeting I feel like far too many men who have been active with Universe for years still can’t follow the rules, and I don’t even understand the point...
💬 Answer from アンディ:
Sorry.
I sometimes make an offer to a Type C woman, meet for tea for about 40 minutes, and then part ways. From the second meeting onward, we may either start seeing each other or gradually drift apart.
However, when making the offer, I have the club tell her in advance that we’ll part ways within an hour. She’s free to decline the offer if she’s not comfortable with that.
Just because she’s Type C doesn’t mean things will automatically move forward. I’d rather not go to a…