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Jan 15, 2026 16:20
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
My friends who receive help with their rent are doing the adult relationship thing. If anything, I think it’s probably the kind of arrangement where their papa can come into their home whenever he wants and have his way with them. They just don’t talk about it.
Unless you’re exceptionally attractive, you’ll probably get fewer offers and won’t earn much without agreeing to an adult relationship.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ll answer since A-type is my main focus, but unless you happen to meet an unusual papa like me, you should assume you won’t make much money at all.
You’d probably earn more at a lounge or a men’s esthetic salon.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
A friend of mine wrote that she signed up here and had her rent paid, but I doubt it was just dinner.
She may have told the person asking that it was dinner only, but I suspect the reality was different.
A while ago, a woman came in to register after being referred by a friend. When I asked what type of arrangement she was looking for, she chose A. When I asked why, she said, “My friend told me she only did dinner, so I’ll choose A too.” But that friend was actually registered as type C.
I couldn’t exactly tell her that, so she registered as A. I don’t think she received any offers, but even if they’re friends, I suppose it can be difficult to admit that you’re receiving an allowance for anything beyond dinner.
So, regarding:
> About how much can you earn?
You’ll probably earn almost nothing.
There’s a chance you won’t receive any offers at all.
👨 Male
Universe member
Don’t focus too much on making money through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)!
It’s better to view it as a learning experience in life rather than simply a way to earn money. Keep it at a level where you’re learning while receiving a little pocket money.
What you learn from papa-katsu could give you clues for making serious money in the future. Don’t focus too narrowly on short-term gains!
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
As a beautiful woman who gets offers even for A-type dates, you could probably get offers from around two men, meeting each of them twice a month. You’d make about ¥40,000 a month. It can go up or down depending on how good you are with words.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you simply go on 300 dates a year, that works out to 3 million yen at 10,000 yen per date, 6 million yen at 20,000 yen, and 12–15 million yen if it’s 45,000 yen. Just doing the math… Some women even get 500,000 yen a month from one person.
It also depends on whether it’s one man or several. Some women find it easier with the same person, while others find it exhausting with just one person and prefer seeing different men. Of course, it also depends on the man himself.
Incidentally, I once continued going on 300 or more dates a year with the same woman for several years. That was before I joined the club, so it wasn’t papa-katsu.