What’s the best way for a woman to answer when asked, “Have you met anyone nice? Have you met a few people already?”
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Would it be better to say, “I’ve met a few people, but none of them led to anything ongoing,” or “I’m currently seeing two or three people on a regular basis”? I’m not sure.
For context, I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for about three years. There’s been some turnover, but I currently have around 11 papas (male supporters).
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I actually asked the same question before, but if someone were asking me, these would be the answers I’d like to hear:
>Did you meet anyone good? → “Not really—there haven’t been many.” (Oh, maybe I could be the right person for her.)
>How many people have you met? → “Two or three.” If she said five or six or more, I’d probably think, “Wow, she’s really experienced.”
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>Or, “Wait, if she’s met that many people and still hasn’t found anyone good, is she just extremely picky—or is there something wrong?”
That’s just how I’d feel, and it’s only a generalization. If she were exactly my ideal type, I might be so focused on trying to win her over that I wouldn’t even take in her answer, lol.
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“I haven’t found anyone who’s convenient for me yet… I’ve met several people, but none of them were quite right. I’d be happy if you could become my ideal supporter—someone who’s convenient for me and, preferably, just gives me money!”
I think that would be a good response.
If you’re handling things smoothly with 11 people without mixing up who said what, you must be pretty clever! Someone as sharp as you probably always gives the best possible answer without needing any comments from me.
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I think simply saying, “I’ve met a few people,” should be enough.
If he then asks something like, “Are you seeing anyone now?” you could answer, “Yes, a few people,” and then ask him the same question in return.
That way, even a somewhat dense man may realize that it’s probably better not to ask any further.
At first, I think it’s generally best not to mention numbers or give specific details. However, some men enjoy hearing personal stories, so it may be worth seeing what kind of person he is before deciding how much to share.
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It depends on the person, so there probably isn’t one right answer.
I think something like, “I’ve met several people and am continuing to see a few of them,” should be fine.
If you say there are 11 of them, claiming “I still haven’t found anyone decent” is a bit hard to believe. And if a papa develops serious feelings for you, that can be a hassle too. Saying “there are two or three good ones” would also be a lie, so wouldn’t it be troublesome if you got caught or your story stopped adding up?
With 11 papas, if you meet each one once a month, you’d be meeting one every three days. And some papas probably meet you more than once a month, so you’re having an adult relationship every other day?! Double-headers on weekends?
That’s quite a workload! You’re a pro.
P.S. To the gentleman in his mid-50s:
So you really are a male member and a respondent. I mistakenly thought you might be pretending to be a woman. I apologize for my rude response before. My apologies.
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When I told a “blacklisted” girl exactly what Aya had advised in her answer from a while back, she surprisingly agreed—even though I offered a much lower allowance than usual. Those really are magic words.
> To “Thanks for the offer the other day” from Makeout Loser
You’re welcome ☆
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