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📅 Apr 26, 2026 20:27
What’s a reason for doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) that tends to go over well? Honestly, I’m doing it to help pay for my sibling’s education in place of our parents, but that sounds a little too heavy, doesn’t it?
💬 Answer from マルケス:
I don’t think it’s all that serious.
That said, I think saying you want to pay off your student loans or cover the cost of studying for a qualification would probably be better received. Something that feels like an investment in yourself seems more appealing.
Personally, the one thing I’m least comfortable with is investing in supporting a favorite idol or celebrity. It just feels incredibly unproductive to me, and I don’t like it.
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📅 Apr 26, 2026 17:31
I wanted to ask about scouts. Are women connected with scouts almost always sex workers? Also, when I see girls in videos calling their registration with Universe “work,” I can’t help assuming they’re sex workers recruited through scouts. Those girls are certainly beautiful, though. Am I mistaken?
💬 Answer from マルケス:
I think there may be some misunderstanding about what scouts actually do.
Their job is to find women who look like they could make money—by approaching them on the street, using personal connections, and so on—and then refer them to the agency or business that seems most suitable for them.
That could mean AV, soaplands, delivery health services, nightlife businesses, dating clubs, and so on.
Of course, they may sometimes redirect a sex worker to a dating club, but a reputa…
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📅 Apr 25, 2026 22:42
My married papa (a male supporter) in a monthly arrangement keeps asking whether I’m seeing anyone else. In this case, would it be better if I had someone else? He’s very curious, so maybe he wants to hear about my other papas? That said, I’m worried about illnesses and things like that, so even if I did see someone else, it would probably be dinner only (no intimacy)…
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Even if you stick to just one papa because you’re worried about STIs, there’s still a risk if that papa is seeing multiple people.
If you don’t have any other papas, it seems like you can simply tell him that.
Whether your papa is happy or disappointed probably depends on the individual.
I don’t think most people would normally say something like, “What, you don’t have, like, ten other papas? That’s no fun,” lol.
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📅 Apr 25, 2026 16:31
Sorry for the long post 🙏 I signed up for a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) site, but the environment is way too rough. I’ve had first meetings with seven men, and this is what I’ve experienced: - Unless I specifically state it in my messages beforehand, there’s no allowance for the first meeting—or just enough for transportation (0.1–0.2). (And yet they still talk for over an hour.) - For an adult relationship (intimate), they...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Unless you state it upfront in your messages, there’s no allowance for the first meeting—or at most, just enough to cover transportation (0.1–0.2).
I don’t know which site you’re referring to, but isn’t it basically a compensated-dating site where men want to go straight to a hotel?
Because of that, I think many men won’t pay anything unless it’s an adult relationship (intimate).
To begin with, I think “first meetings” originally started because men wanted to meet in per…
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📅 Apr 24, 2026 23:06
Is it normal for almost every day to be filled with dates? I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for quite a long time, and almost every day is now taken up by dates with my regular papas (male supporters). I barely have any time for my own hobbies, so for years, I’ve ended up spending even my hobby time with my papas. In my case, I’m not being kept exclusively by one person—everything is pay-per-meeting. Having more ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
“Normal” varies from person to person, so while you can put the average into numbers, you can’t really quantify what’s “normal,” since it’s a matter of perception. Most people think they’re normal anyway, even when they’re far from average, lol.
As Maezawa-san says, if you do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for 20 days, you could make around ¥1 million a month—or ¥12 million a year. If you’re worried about the future, you should think about saving, investing to grow…
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📅 Apr 24, 2026 21:59
Would it bother a married papa (a male supporter) if I messaged him often…? I’ve come to trust him a lot, and since he always replies quickly, I find myself wanting to talk with him all the time. I’m currently restraining myself to about twice a week, but would messaging him more than that be annoying…?
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
I’m married, but as long as she replies quickly, I think it’s fine to message her. Even messaging every day isn’t a problem.
If I’m not that interested in someone, I might take half a day, a day, several days, or even a few weeks to reply.
In my case, most of the women I see two, three, or four times a week. Some message me on LINE every day, while with others, we mostly just exchange messages about when and where to meet—even that adds up to quite a few messages per day.
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📅 Apr 24, 2026 19:09
Excuse me for the question. I’m a Type C woman, and thankfully, I’ve been receiving a lot of offers. Some months, I get up to three new offers a week. Since I’m Type C, does that mean I should move to an adult relationship with all three if we hit it off? My biggest concern is the risk of STIs from being intimate with three new people in one week. Even if we click, would it be acceptable to decline the first time and say I’d prefer to s...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If it’s type C and things don’t progress to an adult relationship (intimate), there may not be a next time. The papa may decide you weren’t a good match and simply not ask you out again.
You should confirm the date as soon as possible, but instead of cramming all your actual dates into the same week, why not spread them out?
Even if you pack them into one week or leave more room in your schedule, the number of times you meet will be the same. So statistically, the risk of a…
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📅 Apr 24, 2026 16:07
I asked earlier about “yamieigyo” (using emotional manipulation to gain support), but I was surprised by how many men are convinced to cover things like women’s debts. There’s no way they could reach the amount these women have received from ordinary allowances for an intimate relationship in just one go. In fact, I often hear women themselves say that it isn’t all a lie, but that they exaggerate about 70% of it—or that whoever gets the...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Even if you achieve short-term success by playing the troubled-girl card, it’s obvious that your life will eventually fall apart.
To put it simply, isn’t 病み営業 just “a way to make money easily”? There’s no way it can work out in the long run.
I’m an entrepreneur, but even after putting in an almost unimaginable amount of effort, I still don’t know whether it will pay off. Every day is a struggle.
But I’ve trained myself to be able to work hard, so I know I’ll be able to su…
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📅 Apr 24, 2026 01:02
Do men feel more inclined to help women who share sad stories? I grew up in an ordinary family, so I don’t really have any sad stories to tell at the moment. I’m doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) without lying, but would men be more likely to think, “I want to help her,” if I lied about things like being estranged from my parents, having debts, caring for a family member, or being ill? I can’t act out the whole “I need your...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
That’s what you’d call “yami-ei” (using emotional distress to solicit support). There’s a column summarizing men’s psychology, so give it a read:
https://lab.universe-club.jp/column/ppjyoshi
One thing you need to be careful about is that if, for example, you claim you need money for tuition even though you aren’t attending school, or say you need it to repay a fictional debt and receive money based on that claim, it can constitute fraud—and there have actually been cases w…
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📅 Apr 23, 2026 22:18
Is it not a good idea to ask a married papa (a male supporter) about things like his home life or children?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I think it’s fine to ask casually, as long as you’re not being pushy. But I’m not really sure why you want to ask in the first place. Is there some benefit to knowing? Or are you asking simply because you don’t have anything else to talk about?
You might want to think about the pros and cons of asking.
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📅 Apr 23, 2026 18:02
It’s embarrassing to say this about myself, but I’m usually told that I’m cute. However, I have a youthful face for my age, I’m short, dress pretty normally, wear simple makeup, have never dyed my hair, and don’t even get lash lifts. Because of that, I feel like I often don’t really appeal to papas (male supporters). Do you think it’s better to have at least a little of the glamorous look you see at hostess clubs or lounges?
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
What do you think?
Personally, I much prefer women in casual everyday clothes—like a hoodie, cap, and pants.
I guess the right answer is probably to dress according to where you’re meeting and who you’re meeting.
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📅 Apr 22, 2026 17:50
A week after meeting P, I came down with tonsillitis 💦 I went to the doctor and found out it’s neither the flu nor COVID, but should I let him know…?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
As Mac mentioned, just to be safe, you should get tested for chlamydia and gonorrhea.
Both can be cured with medication.
If you test positive, tell your papa. If you don’t, what’s known as a ping-pong infection can occur: you get cured with medication, but your papa—unaware that he’s infected—has sex with you while still carrying it, and you become reinfected.
If it’s not an STI and is simply pharyngitis, you don’t have to tell him as long as you’ve recovered before your n…
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📅 Apr 22, 2026 15:22
Are there any women available for a first meeting in Okinawa?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Yes, there are registered women living in Okinawa, and you can make an offer.
One of the great things about the club is that there are registered women all over Japan, so you can arrange dates in major cities.
Before COVID, I traveled to Sapporo, Nagoya, Osaka, and Fukuoka for work almost every month. I would make offers for my business trips, build monthly arrangements, and make the trips so much fun that I couldn’t wait to go, haha.
Because of COVID, everything shifted o…
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📅 Apr 22, 2026 11:41
When a match is arranged with a woman who registered through a scout, does the scout receive a referral fee? Is there any way to tell whether someone registered through a scout before applying to meet her? I’ve been meeting women recently who say, “I registered because a scout I trust recommended it.” They tell me that they’re actually Type A, but chose B2 because they wouldn’t receive any offers otherwise. (Or they’re listed as Type C....
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Is there any way to tell whether a woman was referred by a scout before applying?
The staff know, but there’s no way to tell from the member page.
If you ask a staff member, they might tell you—but only if there’s some benefit to them in doing so. If there’s nothing but disadvantages to telling you, I doubt they would.
In this case, whether she came through a scout isn’t really the issue. If the problem is that some women are changing their dating type because a scout to…
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📅 Apr 22, 2026 01:58
I’ve fallen for someone in his 50s. I’m 30. There’s a significant age gap, but I want him to see me as a romantic partner, not as part of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I get the impression that, in papa-katsu, men tend to look for youth in women. Does being young work to your advantage in romantic relationships?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
First of all, this depends a lot on whether the questioner and the man involved are married.
- Both unmarried: There’s no problem.
- Questioner unmarried, man married: It’s simply a nuisance.
- Questioner married, man unmarried: Get divorced first. Then we can talk.
- Both married: I suppose you can enjoy playing at romance, as long as you’re both careful not to let your spouses find out.
Sorry for giving an answer that may put a damper on the questioner’s dreams. Maybe you…
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📅 Apr 19, 2026 07:48
I noticed this while reading the questions here: At Universe Club, I know someone who received a counterfeit bag instead of an allowance for a free-form relationship. Is this considered acceptable because it’s up to the individuals involved? People often get ghosted or run off with the money on apps, but is this also considered okay at dating clubs?
💬 Answer from 負け男:
> Is that acceptable even at a dating club?
Of course not. Absolutely not. So not acceptable that it’s practically a “no” carved in stone.
- Even on dinner dates after the second or third meeting, you should obviously give her the dinner-date allowance every time.
- The adult-relationship allowance goes without saying—hand it over, no questions asked. You could even give her a cracker along with the cash allowance. And give it to her beforehand, not afterward.
- A true gent…
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📅 Apr 18, 2026 23:53
I’d like some advice on the price range for restaurants when going out to eat. I had dinner at a restaurant I suggested with someone I’d only met a few times. Afterward, they messaged me asking if I could suggest a few more cost-effective places for our next meeting, which made me wonder if the previous restaurant had been a little too expensive. At the same time, I feel that choosing somewhere too inexpensive might come across as rude....
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Wow, what a high-maintenance papa.
He makes the woman choose?
Fuu asks what she likes, but I’ve never actually had a woman choose the place for me. I’ve booked restaurants that women said they wanted to go to, though…
Maybe you could say, “I’m not very familiar with the area, so could you choose and make the decision for us?”
No matter what she chooses, only the papa knows which option offers the best value, and it feels unpleasant—like you’re constantly being tested.
A…
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📅 Apr 18, 2026 19:51
I’m having trouble because the allowance I receive is in old banknotes—two series behind, the old D notes—which some convenience stores and other places won’t accept. People also sometimes suspect they’re counterfeit, so paying takes longer. I’d like to have them exchanged for regular banknotes, but why am I given old notes every time? If there’s a reason he uses old notes, would it be difficult to ask him to exchange them? I’ve already...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
A bill from before 2007? That’s unusual. It would’ve been more interesting if it had featured Prince Shōtoku.
If you’re happy with the amount, just put up with it and exchange it.
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📅 Apr 18, 2026 17:49
I registered with Universe Club and have met 10 men so far. Most of them offered an adult relationship starting from the second meeting, but when I asked about the allowance, most offered 15,000–20,000 yen, with only one offering 30,000 yen. Honestly, I’m disappointed because it’s not much different from using an app. I know it varies from person to person, but are 15,000 or 20,000 yen common amounts? I’m 30 years old, 160 cm tall, with...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
If you’ve managed to find ten papas through Universe Club who each offer 1.5–2 for an adult relationship (intimate), you should buy a lottery ticket right now.
You could win 1.2 billion yen with MEGA BIG!
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📅 Apr 18, 2026 11:36
I’m registered as type B2. At my first meeting with a papa (a male supporter), he gave me ¥10,000, and afterward he invited me out to dinner. I know it was my mistake not to discuss the allowance over messages, but there was no allowance the second time—we just had dinner. A few weeks later, he told me he wanted a somewhat deeper relationship. When I asked about the allowance, he offered ¥50,000. I agreed, and we had an adult relationsh...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
If they’re being vague despite already discussing the allowance for dinner only, I get the feeling they may be intentionally leaving that part unclear.
Rather than it depending on how you phrase it, it may be more about the other person’s attitude. If you see the relationship as being based on an allowance, it can definitely leave you feeling a little confused.
In my experience, there have been several times when I didn’t receive an allowance for dinner only. In those cases…