Tips
May 16, 2026 21:41
8 answers
片瀬(牝)
Female
Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 筋は通します、色気も忘れずに
そのような認識はございませんが、誠意は確認いたします（答弁）
Age: Private
👩 Female
Universe member
It probably depends on how you define “dating,” but if you mean a typical romantic relationship, I do think the chances are quite low, as everyone else has said.
That said, if you ask whether the chances are zero, I’d say they aren’t.
I’ve been active in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and have met all kinds of people. Among them, there have been a few I genuinely felt were special.
Having met and experienced so many different people is what makes you appreciate the comfort and sense of security you can feel with someone.
Papa-katsu can easily make you suspicious of everything—thinking things like, “They’re only being kind because they’re receiving an allowance,” or “Even if they say they like me, maybe it’s just part of their sales pitch.”
But as you continue a relationship, feelings can grow that can’t be explained by the terms of the arrangement alone: feeling reassured, enjoying conversations with that person, or feeling emotionally settled when you’re together.
On the other hand, if your desire to become a couple is too strong, you may start wanting to reduce the allowance or become possessive, and in many cases, things can become complicated and eventually fall apart. So I think it may work out better if you don’t focus too much from the beginning on whether you can become romantic partners.
Personally, I’m grateful to have met someone I want to continue cherishing for a long time.
In the end, it depends on whether you meet someone whose way of thinking and values are compatible with yours, so I don’t think the chances are zero 😊
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
The chances of us dating are
not zero, not zero, not zero.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It depends on how strictly you define “being in a relationship.”
There are currently three regulars who call me their boyfriend, and I think there were around 20 in the past. I’ve met about 200 women through Universe Club alone, which would put the odds at 10%, but I don’t consider these girls my girlfriends. They’re more like “pretend girlfriends.”
Only one of them was truly my girlfriend in the strict sense, so I suppose the odds would be 0.5%.
Rather than aiming to date them, why not aim for something beyond papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? My ace and queen have become something far more precious to each other than a boring boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
P.S.
Kamikikōki-san, you’re incredible.
The fact that you made an offer to a Burapure girl and are being honest about being on the verge of death financially means you’ve already won. I think you’ve proven yourself as a real man. I see you in a whole new light.
アンディ
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
The chances are basically zero. Since you met through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), the relationship is based on the premise that the dating club is introducing women to you. If you’re looking for a romantic partner, you should explore other options.
A dating club can introduce you to women as long as you pay the introduction fee, but the woman you meet will only be disappointed, so start by changing your mindset.
I hope this helps.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re asking about the chances of actually dating her, I’d say zero—and that’s how it should be.
If you truly want to date her, shouldn’t you first end the papa-katsu arrangement, block and delete each other’s contact information, and then meet her again to humbly ask, “Please, will you go out with me?” You should recognize that having been involved through papa-katsu means you’re starting from below zero. Begin by being ashamed of the fact that you used money to buy her sexuality.
That’s how I would think and act. Truly dating someone means showing them genuine respect.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re hoping for a romantic relationship, it’s safest to assume the chances are as close to zero as possible.
That’s because almost all women who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) aren’t looking for a boyfriend when they start.
If there’s any possibility at all, your best bet is to spend plenty of time together as a papa-katsu partner. During that time, whatever you do, don’t say anything about wanting to reduce her allowance.
Then, once she starts thinking about marriage, she might consider you as a candidate.
But there are absolutely no guarantees.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
As everyone says, the possibility isn’t zero, but it’s probably so close to zero that actually dating them would be a miracle.
After seven years of papa-katsu, Fuu fell into the forbidden trap of genuinely falling in love. When I confessed, he blocked me on LINE…
What you have to be careful about is that, even though papa-katsu involves money and you may have an adult relationship (intimate), being told things like “I like you” or “you’re handsome” can make you get the wrong idea. Don’t forget that it’s ultimately a fantasy.
After my genuine feelings led to being blocked, I doubled the number of women in my monthly arrangements and started seeing multiple people to spread out my feelings!
So I won’t genuinely fall for someone like that again…
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
There’s never a zero chance of ending up in a relationship, no matter where you meet someone. However, with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), that chance is pretty low.
The older a man gets, the more he may feel that a compensated relationship through papa-katsu is far better and more worthwhile than dating for love.
With papa-katsu, from the very first day, you can hear things you’ve never been told in your life, like “You’re handsome,” “You’re so good-looking,” “You’re hot,” and “You’re totally my type,” along with comments like “You must be incredibly popular” and “I’m so glad I met you, Mr. ○○…”
After a while, you may even hear things like “I’ll follow you for the rest of my life,” “Make me your girlfriend,” “I want to marry you,” “I’ll marry you if you divorce your wife,” and “I can’t live without you, Mr. ○○.” Unlike a romantic relationship, things don’t cool off; instead, the allowance keeps strengthening the bond. So I think it has more advantages than a normal relationship.
To Mr. Loser:
My premium girl’s LINE messages, which had been in a near-death, comatose state, are still going… Then she finally replied, “I’m starting to miss you, Mr. ○○…” Woof, lol.