I’m in my mid-30s and my overall “specs” are just over 110. I don’t have a nightlife-industry look at all—I have more of a regular day-job appearance.

Personally, I’ve only ever made offers to women in their 30s or 40s a couple of times—both were women who answered questions on this site. But a friend of mine was really into women in that age range for a while, and his only criterion was “as sexy as possible.” I’ve met one of those women, and she has exactly what you’d call a “professional working-woman” look. So as a strategy, maybe it would be good to have that kind of professional look while filling your profile with an overflowing amount of sex appeal? That said, men’s needs really vary, and there’s also a lot of luck involved in what kind of man you happen to meet. So if the goal is simply to cast a wide net, wouldn’t it be worth registering with Universe as well? You’re a member of another dating club, right? I just thought of something else: what if you uploaded a photo from your early 20s as a private photo, captioned “An old photo”? Men are creatures who look at the past, so they can superimpose a younger, more beautiful version of you onto your current face. At least, that’s how I feel. I don’t think women have quite the same psychology. Haven’t you heard that at class reunions, men can remember women as they were when they were young and fall for them all over again, whereas women are disappointed when they see how old the men have become? Related to that, I sometimes ask the women in their 20s whom I’m seeing to show me photos from middle or high school, but there are hardly any that haven’t been edited or turned into animal faces. Seeing an unfiltered photo can be surprisingly exciting and thrilling. I wish I could tell teenage girls this, but unfortunately there’s no way to do that. To make a name for yourself as a woman in her 30s, looks and figure matter, of course, but I feel that having an interesting profession or specialized skill can make a big difference too. For example, being a flight attendant—even a former one—or a female doctor, or having some niche profession. Some people avoid mentioning these things because they’re afraid of being identified, especially female doctors, since the industry is small and many male members are doctors too. But I feel that’s a waste. Even if a male member happens to know you, he’s involved in this too, so it’s unlikely to spread. And if it does, you can just insist it’s a rumor.

I’m 179 cm tall, weigh 75 kg, and my stats are 104. I do a bit of weight training and am slightly muscular. This is Fuu answering, lol. This is a question that comes up from time to time. If I remember correctly, Maezawa, one of the people behind the platform, said that women in their early 30s who fit Type C get the most offers—or are the largest group. Was that the case for the club as well? Patro may skew a little younger, though… Sorry if I’m mistaken. Since the main age range of papas has also been getting older, I think your 30s are actually a great age. If you’re cute or attractive, you should still get offers. My monthly-arrangement partners include one woman in her early 30s who’s single and another in her late 30s who’s married with children. They have a kindness, emotional maturity, and sex appeal that women in their 20s don’t necessarily have. They work hard on their beauty, so they’re no less attractive than women in their 20s—and when it comes to managing their health and skin, they may even put in more effort and look better.

My favorite person I’ve ever made an offer to was in her late 30s at the time.

I can’t say for sure without seeing your face photo, but if you’re in your mid-30s with specs just over 110, I think you’ll get offers. > It would be kind of exciting and fun if you could show me an unedited photo. You might be able to see one by asking to look at their yearbook, but since it’s so large, they’d probably find it a hassle to bring along.

Hello, I’m a man in my 50s with a 15% body-fat percentage. I don’t think age itself is necessarily a drawback. However, as you get older, I feel like your true nature—whether you seem mean-spirited, for example—becomes easier to read from your facial expressions and demeanor.

I completely understand why you’re worried about your age. I went to an interview at Universe in my mid-40s. To make matters worse, I got on the wrong loop line and showed up late to my very first interview. I remember chatting along the lines of, “I wonder if anyone actually signs up at this age (so nervous). Sorry for being so cheeky—haha!” Those days feel nostalgic now. With a spec score of 110, you’d still be considered slim, right? And you’re in your 30s. You’re practically unstoppable (okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration).

If you have a well-defined jawline, you can still get offers even in your mid-30s. I was originally into younger women, but I made an offer to a woman in her mid-30s and ended up completely smitten with her. I’m really glad I did. There’s definitely demand. As for the “specs,” it’s hard to say without knowing the person’s height. 170 / 60 / 110 155 / 45 / 110 P.S. It’s Meg-san! ♡

When you look at the three factors—age, overall specs, and a professional daytime-job look—this is the most ideal profile among women at the club. In particular, many men find specs just over 110 (around 112–116) the most attractive, although it also depends on height.

I rarely make offers to women in their 30s or older, but there are plenty of highly rated women registered on the site. For starters, try taking action—go to an interview or something! I hope you find a great match! Hope this helps.