I’m the person who asked the question on May 21.

Thank you all for your answers. Even after doing a lot of research, I still had some concerns, so I ended up asking. I’m also sorry that the way I phrased my question may have come across as unpleasant. I wrote it that way because I wanted to ask what I was wondering as directly as possible. I’ve also realized that I still have a lot of growing to do as a person. There are so many wonderful men and women here. Since many of you have a wide range of experiences, I thought I’d like to hear your stories. You’re right—that’s something you can’t know until you complete your registration. I hope to enjoy this experience in my own way and, if I’m lucky, make a meaningful connection. Thank you so much.