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Dec 14, 2024 08:17
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People say things like, “Don’t ask questions like that,” “Ask them directly,” or “Don’t use this site.” The language is really rude.
I understand how the respondents feel, but couldn’t the site administrators handle things with a little more consideration?
If that’s too difficult, I think it would be better to shut this site down.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> If it’s really that difficult, I think it would be fine to shut this site down.
But it seems to me that all you have to do is stop visiting if you don’t want to see it. If nobody visits, it will naturally be shut down.
People who don’t want to see it should simply stop looking at it first. I think that’s the right answer.
As long as you keep visiting, the site’s traffic will continue to grow, so people will say, “You can’t just shut down a Q&A site with that many visitors.”
Personally, though, I do think the recent questions have been terrible.
Other
Hmm, I understand how you feel, but the people answering are human too... I think it’s actually a good thing, since you get honest, realistic answers, don’t you?
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Lately, there have been a lot of awful questions that seem like trolling—it’s true.
They’ve gotten so bad that I’m finding myself less and less inclined to answer.
I know this echoes what other people have said, but if you also feel the questions are that bad, why not stop visiting this site?
Also, the people answering aren’t the site administrators.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve been thinking this for a while, but why do people come here—where what we do is hardly considered moral by society—and act so self-righteous?
You probably don’t realize it since it’s hidden from view, but lately, the questions have been far uglier.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
LOL. Most of the people answering are just regular papas volunteering their time. Some club staff members answer questions too.
As for “This isn’t something you should be asking here—ask the club directly,” that’s absolutely right, so I think you should simply contact the club directly.
On the other hand, there are plenty of ridiculous questions too. Fuu gets a kick out of them, but I also don’t think we need to take the time to answer every question politely. We’re not getting paid, and we’re not customers either, so we just answer however we feel like it, lol.
Some club staff members also respond, but if the person asking the question finds that unpleasant, they can simply leave. Why do they think they get to decide whether the site should be shut down? LOL
For example, even if Fuu said, “The quality of comments on X and Facebook is so low that I think they should be shut down,”
someone would just reply, “That’s just your opinion, isn’t it?”
and that would be the end of it, right? They’d probably say, “Then just don’t look at X or Facebook.”
It’s the same thing, lol.
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関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
One option for the questioner is simply not to visit this message board.
Even if it isn’t shut down, you won’t have to deal with anything unpleasant if you stop coming here.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
What exactly is so harsh about the answer telling you to ask him directly?
Also, everyone has responded politely, so what part of the wording did you find offensive?
I’m not sure how you interpreted the feelings involved, but what kind of consideration are you expecting on top of that?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The people answering here are mostly those getting low allowances, so I guess that tells you everything.
Maybe there should be a rule that you can’t answer unless your allowance is 5 or more. Then again, plenty of people are awful despite getting high allowances—like me, for example.