I’m thinking about signing up for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I’m torn between B2 and C.
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I’m okay with C, but I’m wondering if B2 might be better since my period could suddenly start that day, or I might not be feeling well.
From a man’s perspective, is C preferable when choosing a woman?
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It’s a good idea to set it to C and let your coordinator know via LINE when your period starts. And since you’re not absolutely required to accept, either option should be fine.
If you’re just getting started, you could begin with B2 and switch to C when the time feels right!
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It really depends on how many offers you want.
If you’re generally open to dating older men, with the only exceptions being your period or when you’re feeling unwell, I’d start with C.
You can still turn down offers even as a C. If you get flooded with offers and manage to find a few good papas (male supporters), you could change to B2—or put your membership on hold.
If you put it on hold, you can return as a C once things have ended with a few of them.
Apparently, one of Fuu’s women who’s been in a monthly arrangement for three years is very beautiful and gets tons of offers as a C. She chooses a few promising papas, then takes a break from the club. After parting ways with some of them, she resumes as a C, gets lots of offers again, chooses her papas, and repeats the cycle several times.
Rather than regretting not getting any offers, it might be better to start as a C and decide what to do from there.
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C and B2 are simply meant to reflect how the woman feels, so they’re not obligations.
So even if you set yourself as C, there’s no problem with turning someone down up to 50% of the time.
For example, if you go on dates with four people and turn down two of them, that’s 50%, so being C is perfectly fine.
However, if you go on dates with four people and turn down all four, then say, “It’s just probability—maybe the next four will all be okay, so that still counts as 50%,” unfortunately, there’s a good chance people will judge that your feelings aren’t really C. Of course, it’s possible that all four men happened to be strange, but that’s such a low probability that it’s highly unlikely.
As for your period, since you were willing to go along with things from your own perspective, I don’t think there’s any problem with being C.
That said, if you’re unsure, it might be a good idea to follow Mac’s strategy.
(I do wonder about using it as a strategy when it’s originally meant to reflect your feelings, though.)
Basically, you’re meant to choose based on how you genuinely feel.
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As a strategy for getting more offers, it’s a good idea to start out as a B2, then, once the offers have slowed down, switch to C by saying, “I was being cautious because this was my first time, but I’ve gotten used to it and can now make a decision on the first date!”
That’s because there’s a certain number of men who prefer B women over C women. Men specifically looking for C women won’t mind women moving up from B2, but men who prefer B women probably won’t make offers to women moving down from C.
As for periods, it should be fine if the woman suggests another date by saying, “I’m on my period today, so I can’t, but next time should be fine. When would work for you?” That way, he won’t get the impression that she’s using her period as an excuse to turn him down.
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I think it’s fine to decide based on how you truly feel.
If you can determine on the day whether you want the relationship to progress and act accordingly, then you’re a Type C dater.
If you happen to fall ill for various reasons as the first meeting approaches, letting them know in advance shouldn’t cause too much of a problem.
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Everyone has different preferences when it comes to relationship types, and those preferences can also change depending on their mood or the person they’re with.
When I’ve invited a woman with relationship type C to a hotel after dinner, she has sometimes told me that she’s on her period, so it wouldn’t be possible. Relationship type C doesn’t necessarily mean things will progress on the first meeting, so I think it’s perfectly fine to choose type C.
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