What do you all think about him paying ¥90 million to settle the matter?
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Since many of you are in the same kind of situation, sadly, it seems like a lot of people here side with the men, don’t you?
Will the day ever come when this becomes a more livable world…?
I’ve met many older men since I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and I’ve also been treated terribly quite a few times.
Is there a difference between a woman a man feels like treating carelessly and one he wants to treat with care?
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If you invested ¥90 million, it seems like you could make a pretty decent profit every year.
Nakajima should have just paid around ¥300 million too. He cheaped out, and now his career in show business is over. Well, he had already retired last year because of his illness, so if he hadn’t been arrested, maybe he would’ve gone the way of Shinsuke Shimada.
Apparently, announcer Nagisa Watanabe comes from a well-to-do family, so maybe money wouldn’t have changed her actions anyway.
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My take as Fuu is that, compared with running away without paying any compensation, it’s at least somewhat better that he paid.
Still, for someone in his league, 90 million yen feels oddly half-hearted. He could’ve given her 100 million.
If the story still got leaked despite paying compensation, then I imagine he must have treated her extremely coldly afterward and failed to show her respect when ending things.
The guy from Unjash, the guy from Jungle Pocket, and the former SMAP member all handled things poorly and acted forcefully cold, so the women couldn’t calm down and ended up telling outsiders.
It’s become a good lesson for me to rein myself in, show women respect, and try to end things with consideration for their feelings.
I do prefer straightforward, obedient women with a somewhat submissive side, but in the slightly messy world of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), where money is involved, I feel women should probably be prepared to clearly say no when there’s something they don’t like… though.
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I think luck and the connections you make have a lot to do with it too.
I’m not particularly spiritual or anything, though~
I got ghosted after intimacy twice in December, so I figured it just wasn’t my lucky day. I did a full-body treatment with a salt scrub, basically shed a layer of skin from head to toe, and slept for about 15 hours straight.
For the record, I’d never been ghosted like that before, so I was pretty shocked.
That said, thanks to always making an effort to communicate with people in all sorts of fields—shop staff, delivery drivers, and so on—by saying things like “Thank you as always,” I received a lot of help.
So, in conclusion, I think it really does come down to luck.
And what I honestly feel is:
“Resentment can only be negative, so just forget about it!”
I hope they’ll both be happy.
As for whether they can get through this or not—I like the female announcer, and my mother is a fan of N〇ka-kun, so I’d really like things to be fair to both of them.
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Men often don’t feel that they’re treating someone carelessly simply because they’re paying. Money does equal sincerity, after all.
On the other hand, if you go to a host club, they’ll treat you exceptionally well.
I can’t afford to give that much of an allowance, so I believe it’s important to listen to what women want. Besides, I genuinely enjoy hearing about and accommodating their needs.
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Men who want to do whatever the woman they’re with wants—and who have never had a fight or argument in their lives—will probably only do what she wants.
I think there are quite a few men like that. Maybe all you can do is sharpen your instincts and work on what you put out there to attract them.
There may be a difference between men who want to satisfy a woman and men who want to satisfy themselves.
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> Since you’re all cut from the same cloth, it’s sad how many of you side with the men, isn’t it?
> Is there really a difference between women men feel like treating roughly and women they want to treat with care?
The wording of this question is provocative to begin with—almost as if it’s saying, “Come attack me and shower me with cruel words.” I wonder if she’s even aware of that.
It’s practically like she’s sending out a certain kind of signal herself, so any man who goes out of his way to approach her is probably into that sort of thing.
People who don’t have that kind of kink—including me—instinctively think, “Yikes, stay away,” and keep their distance.
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Although the motivation may have been questionable, I do give him some credit for paying 90 million yen.
What I mean is that apologizing financially is still better than simply leaving after doing something terrible to a woman. Even in cases of sexual assault, receiving several million yen would be considered a lot, so I think he showed a certain degree of sincerity.
This is separate from the question, but I have no idea what actually happened when they were alone together, so I can’t really judge.
Rather than being attacked by a complete stranger, some women may be more likely to be treated badly after meeting someone through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because they have low self-esteem.
The man may sense that a woman who undervalues herself probably won’t fight back even if she’s treated horribly, and then target her for that reason.
Women whose boyfriends are always abusive, or who repeatedly end up with terrible boyfriends, may also be attracting terrible papas through papa-katsu.
I think one of the basics of an adult relationship (intimate) is being able to build up your own self-esteem.
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I can’t imagine anyone taking the perpetrator’s side. But are there really men who would defend someone like that?
I think this every time a successful celebrity gets hit with a Bunshun exposé: Why don’t they just pay a proper allowance? Why do they have to harm someone?
If they have money, they could make a sincere offer: “How about 2 million yen?” If she turns them down, so be it. If she accepts, they can go ahead. That’s all there is to it, right?
I’m completely in favor of relationships where money is involved, and I just can’t believe that an idol who’s turned 52 would pressure a young woman into having sex for free.
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